AriesGirl244
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Update on Dealing with Aries Male in FWB relationship: Now he’s chasing me again
Posted by Arielle83Posted by AriesGirl244Posted by Arielle83
Easy peasy.
A lot easier than I originally thought it would be
It’s like if the sex is good, we want more, but really we need to pull away and focus on ourselves, and see who still wants to stick around.click to expand
And that’s the thing with him, I had got so insecure because I didn’t know I’d be enjoyed the sex or not. He never mention it or wanting to do it again. And me being inexperienced I was so eager to please and do a good job I was overthinking it and thinking he had a bad experience with me because he wasn’t saying anything. But when I text him one night after he first contacted me with days of not hearing from me, and I said I’m so horny, he asked if I wanted him and when I said yes that’s when he just started constantly telling me how badly he wanted me and thought about me since the night we had. It’s like he likes me teasing him sexually and complimenting him a little first before he let me know he wanted me. And when I mentioned how got you I be and that there’s too many men out there for me not to be satisfied, that really upset him and he begged me to wait and made a day for us to meet up the next day.
Bitch ass
Posted by Phantum
So, now you can only have sex with him, but he's not your boyfriend? Sounds awesome.
Possessive middle-aged Aries male with a daddy fetish, eh? I'd be surprised if she doesn't come back posting black eye pics.
So it begins...
Posted by ArilovesAquPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by Phantum
So, now you can only have sex with him, but he's not your boyfriend? Sounds awesome.
Possessive middle-aged Aries male with a daddy fetish, eh? I'd be surprised if she doesn't come back posting black eye pics.So it begins...
Dude you really gonna accuse someone of a daddy complex when your boy toy wasn’t even legal when you met?
Stop it
Yep.
And 100% legal when he first gave me his "seal of approval". Except he don't have no daddy fetish, and I don't do "daddy" in any shape, form or stretch of the imagination.
But hey, more power to those who're into that sort of thing.
Posted by Phantum
Maybe it's not as bad as it sounds.click to expand
OP is an Aries too, right? Well, if she's anything like that Cashmeousside, hopefully she'll give as good as she'll get.
Hopefully he's a cuddly kitten and it won't come to that. But um......yeah no. He's ticking all the wrong boxes.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by Phantum
So, now you can only have sex with him, but he's not your boyfriend? Sounds awesome.
Possessive middle-aged Aries male with a daddy fetish, eh? I'd be surprised if she doesn't come back posting black eye pics.So it begins...
https://i.imgur.com/Hf7LRQM.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expand
I find him sexually attractive and if that’s weird, so be it. I’m not a weak woman, I’m fully capable of protecting myself if I have to, but I know it’s not gonna come to that, your jumping to extreme conclusions. He is the alpha male type and does like to dominate in bed but I love it, it turns me on when a man takes charge in bed and in life. During sex the first time we were together I made him stop a lot mid sex cause I couldn’t handle his size at first and he was patient and kind, never complained. I told him I’m not making any promises of only being with him cause I’m a single woman and he has just been trying hard to keep me interested in him since then.
Posted by Phantum
So, now you can only have sex with him, but he's not your boyfriend? Sounds awesome.
That’s what he want but I told him that’s not how it works. I said I’m single and it’s my choice, I don’t like sleeping with more than one person so I will just be going on dates until I find someone I want to be serious with and the sex between us will stop. After telling him that he’s just been chasing me even more trying to keep me interested in him.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by ArilovesAquPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by Phantum
So, now you can only have sex with him, but he's not your boyfriend? Sounds awesome.
Possessive middle-aged Aries male with a daddy fetish, eh? I'd be surprised if she doesn't come back posting black eye pics.So it begins...
Dude you really gonna accuse someone of a daddy complex when your boy toy wasn’t even legal when you met?
Stop it
Yep.
And 100% legal when he first gave me his "seal of approval". Except he don't have no daddy fetish, and I don't do "daddy" in any shape, form or stretch of the imagination.
But hey, more power to those who're into that sort of thing.Posted by Phantum
Maybe it's not as bad as it sounds.
OP is an Aries too, right? Well, if she's anything like that Cashmeousside, hopefully she'll give as good as she'll get.
Hopefully he's a cuddly kitten and it won't come to that. But um......yeah no. He's ticking all the wrong boxes.click to expand
Yes it’s I’m an Aries and it turns me on that he’s a alpha male and dominant in bed, I like being submissive in bed. But he has never pressured me into anything and I have stopped him multiple times during sex because of his size and I am tight cause of lack of sexual activity and he was always patient and kind, and gentle if I needed him to be. I told him that I’m single and I can do whatever I want. I cannot have sex with more than one person so I will be dating until I find someone serious and that’s when I will only want sex with that person. He said okay, and wasn’t mad. He’s just been trying hard to keep my interest since then.
Posted by AriesGirl244Posted by Phantum
So, now you can only have sex with him, but he's not your boyfriend? Sounds awesome.
That’s what he want but I told him that’s not how it works. I said I’m single and it’s my choice, I don’t like sleeping with more than one person so I will just be going on dates until I find someone I want to be serious with and the sex between us will stop. After telling him that he’s just been chasing me even more trying to keep me interested in him.click to expand
The next time he asks to have sex with you, tell him you're not free...
Old men chasing you g women
Sorry, but just ewwwwwwww 😐
Sorry, but just ewwwwwwww 😐
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by AriesGirl244Posted by Phantum
So, now you can only have sex with him, but he's not your boyfriend? Sounds awesome.
That’s what he want but I told him that’s not how it works. I said I’m single and it’s my choice, I don’t like sleeping with more than one person so I will just be going on dates until I find someone I want to be serious with and the sex between us will stop. After telling him that he’s just been chasing me even more trying to keep me interested in him.
The next time he asks to have sex with you, tell him you're not free...click to expand
I already have, that’s what I’ve been going, well I actually was busy at the time.
Posted by MyStarsShine
Old men chasing you g women
Sorry, but just ewwwwwwww 😐
It’s not for everybody. Im not ashamed at all. The sex was amazing and I don’t regret it.
Posted by AriesGirl244Posted by MyStarsShine
Old men chasing you g women
Sorry, but just ewwwwwwww 😐
It’s not for everybody. Im not ashamed at all. The sex was amazing and I don’t regret it.click to expand
Old man can be predatory....it just turns my stomach...
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by AriesGirl244Posted by MyStarsShine
Old men chasing you g women
Sorry, but just ewwwwwwww 😐
It’s not for everybody. Im not ashamed at all. The sex was amazing and I don’t regret it.
Old man can be predatory....it just turns my stomach...click to expand
That’s true, some of them are. Also guys my around my age can be too. So many women I know personally or went to college with have been roofied or a guy attempted to drug them and they were our age. I stopped dating for a long time and started being abstinent cause guys who were my age would try to make me drink or do drugs before we would have sex or pressure me into coming to their place. I’ve even had women my ages tell me stories of young guys trying to sneak and take off their findings during sex. Anyone at any age can be predatory.
Posted by AriesGirl244Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by AriesGirl244Posted by MyStarsShine
Old men chasing you g women
Sorry, but just ewwwwwwww 😐
It’s not for everybody. Im not ashamed at all. The sex was amazing and I don’t regret it.
Old man can be predatory....it just turns my stomach...
That’s true, some of them are. Also guys my around my age can be too. So many women I know personally or went to college with have been roofied or a guy attempted to drug them and they were our age. I stopped dating for a long time and started being abstinent cause guys who were my age would try to make me drink or do drugs before we would have sex or pressure me into coming to their place. I’ve even had women my ages tell me stories of young guys trying to sneak and take off their findings during sex. Anyone at any age can be predatory.click to expand
It's one thing when a young guy chases but when one that is old enough to be your dad is something different
These guys need to grow up and out of their mid life crisis phase....
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by AriesGirl244Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by AriesGirl244Posted by MyStarsShine
Old men chasing you g women
Sorry, but just ewwwwwwww 😐
It’s not for everybody. Im not ashamed at all. The sex was amazing and I don’t regret it.
Old man can be predatory....it just turns my stomach...
That’s true, some of them are. Also guys my around my age can be too. So many women I know personally or went to college with have been roofied or a guy attempted to drug them and they were our age. I stopped dating for a long time and started being abstinent cause guys who were my age would try to make me drink or do drugs before we would have sex or pressure me into coming to their place. I’ve even had women my ages tell me stories of young guys trying to sneak and take off their findings during sex. Anyone at any age can be predatory.
It's one thing when a young guy chases but when one that is old enough to be your dad is something different
These guys need to grow up and out of their mid life crisis phase....click to expand
It’s not for you, we get it, you don’t agree. I’m happy and sexually satisfied so I don’t have any complaints. As long as I’m comfortable and practicing safe sex and respected I’m fine.
Posted by AriesGirl244Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by AriesGirl244Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by AriesGirl244Posted by MyStarsShine
Old men chasing you g women
Sorry, but just ewwwwwwww 😐
It’s not for everybody. Im not ashamed at all. The sex was amazing and I don’t regret it.
Old man can be predatory....it just turns my stomach...
That’s true, some of them are. Also guys my around my age can be too. So many women I know personally or went to college with have been roofied or a guy attempted to drug them and they were our age. I stopped dating for a long time and started being abstinent cause guys who were my age would try to make me drink or do drugs before we would have sex or pressure me into coming to their place. I’ve even had women my ages tell me stories of young guys trying to sneak and take off their findings during sex. Anyone at any age can be predatory.
It's one thing when a young guy chases but when one that is old enough to be your dad is something different
These guys need to grow up and out of their mid life crisis phase....
It’s not for you, we get it, you don’t agree. I’m happy and sexually satisfied so I don’t have any complaints. As long as I’m comfortable and practicing safe sex and respected I’m fine.click to expand
I hope he treats you well and you find the relationship you're looking for 👍
Posted by AriesGirl244
So since I made my original post about how to deal with a older male Aries in a Friends with Benefits/Casual relationship, I took everyone’s advice and everything has been going well.
After that post, I stopped contacting him and just let it be. When he did contact me I took my time. responding and was nonchalant with my texts. Then he started begging to see me again and saying how badly he wants me, and wondering if I had want him too. I’ve just been playing it cool and hanging with my friends and now he calls and texts me frequently. I told him it’s fine that he’s too busy to do anything like he told me before and now he’s saying he can make time to see me and talk on the phone. When I told him I have needs that aren’t being fulfilled enough but I’m not gonna waste my time constantly asking a man to satisfy me when they’re plenty of options out there, he got upset and said to please be patient for him and he will take care of my needs. I’m gonna continue to take everyone’s advice and I’m not gonna put so much thought and worry as I have before. I’m even feeling a lot more confident in myself and sexually. I really appreciate all of the advice everyone has given me. I’m starting to see how a Aries male works, if I don’t contact him he wants me more, and I tease him about what he could have and he’s begging to see me. I think he might be a little possessive or something, he wants to always know if I have been with someone else sexually. And whenever I talk about guys hitting on me he doesn’t want to hear it. He wants to be the only person that I’m sexually involved with. He’s a march Aries if that matters, March 29th.
Can you link me to the original post? ♥️ I’m definitely having the same issue right now!!
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