What does Aries think of Libra's?

I'd like to know. If your a girl dated a libra guy, or a guy dated a libra woman?

Thanks Everyone ^_^

lol Thanks girl!

I understand, I'm a libra girl i know the men can be handful. I only know how to handle them because i know how their mind works. Cant play a player. lol. However with my Aries i try to keep my feet on the ground as i find he is not for games, and not a dreamer like myself. He plans. I love that about his drive is extreamly sexy. However getting him to settle down is the problem. Honestly i've given up. I love him, but being a libra with a leo in venus i cannot bring myself to chase a man, never have never will, at least not on purpose. lol

Dated Moon in Libra, Mars in Libra, Sun in Leo

Came off very charming and a flirt, bought gifts, thoughtful, never shown mad (never did I want to see but it came later throughout the relationship), they appreciate you and you tend to figure what balances them out, compliments are craved, he loved it, also loved loved spending time, a great story-teller.

I have my eye on a Libra, we're playing the famous cat and mouse,
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That always fun @whisper. I've heard Aries loves a chase. Have fun! lol, so does Libra 😉

I apologize, Mars in Leo.

Yes I love it!! haha not that I become bored with it if I don't see a progress but good to know, thanks! 🙂

im a libra girl, talking to an aries man with libra moon and taurus venus... he is very sweet. but its very sloooooooooow. he takes his time... im not very patient. he is 32 and im 25.

I don't know if anyone I know has Libra Moon or the such. I do know a few Libra suns. I like them at a causal friend level. More than that just doesn't happen.

The person who was my sister-in-law for so long was more or less terrified of me the whole time. Big, aggressive, pushy, not giving a damn about most people or most things just wasn't something she could deal with.

Others who I know say at a co-worker level are OK, I suppose. We don't really connect, but are friendly. What happens is that once in a while I do or say something that isn't all that "tasteful," shall we say. They can get their noses all out of joint. Of course, my response is "Yeah, and?!?!?" It seems this is not an attitude that Libra's find pleasing.

Wtf with all this Libra moon talk? Libra moon does not equal sun sign Libra. :p

But yes, other aspects are to be considered in the overall picture.

My experience? Attraction factor is almost always there. Very chill guys. ...just all the other bs gets in the way (the flightiness on their part, the people pleasing which leads to them doing a lot of things they don't want to, but won't tell you unless you pull it out of them).

Not sure about long term status though. I'd think other chart placements would have to come into play.

Posted by thisLIBRAgirl
im a libra girl, talking to an aries man with libra moon and taurus venus... he is very sweet. but its very sloooooooooow. he takes his time... im not very patient. he is 32 and im 25.

His moon is your sun - that's a good sign...Venus in Taurus do move slow in love, more than the typical Aries man, hopefuly you have the patience for that!

Hmmmm I feel like all the Libras I know are different. One thing I notice is that they really like to see people happy and comfortable. They love a good time, partying, drinking, being merry, they are very social. However, hwta I noticed about the guys they are very shallow in who they tend to link themselves too. I also noticed some mooching tendencies from the ladies, they love scheming for their next come up. I have one Libra woman whose has about 10 years on me whom Ive become close to recently and she doesnt display the same traits as the others. She does have a eye for beauty, very stylish, ambituous, driven and strong all around, I admire those things in her.

Posted by bkbella86
Hmmmm I feel like all the Libras I know are different. One thing I notice is that they really like to see people happy and comfortable. They love a good time, partying, drinking, being merry, they are very social. However, hwta I noticed about the guys they are very shallow in who they tend to link themselves too. I also noticed some mooching tendencies from the ladies, they love scheming for their next come up. I have one Libra woman whose has about 10 years on me whom Ive become close to recently and she doesnt display the same traits as the others. She does have a eye for beauty, very stylish, ambituous, driven and strong all around, I admire those things in her.

This.

Posted by xxnightbynight
Libras and Virgos are the most stylish of the zodiac, in my opinion.

Really? All the virgos I know both guys and girls really don't have much style and don't care to, not too wrapped up in their looks. Now Libras are diff IMO yes I know some stylish ones but they aren't the most stylish I'd have to say for me it's Cancer and Gemini, scorpio and Taurus. I would say Aries too but I think its my Venus in Taurus that makes me so interested in beautiful clothes, perfume and anything pretty.

Posted by xxnightbynight
Libras and Virgos are the most stylish of the zodiac, in my opinion.

My bad you did say IMO...lol

Posted by pinklibra
I'd like to know. If your a girl dated a libra guy, or a guy dated a libra woman?

Thanks Everyone ^_^

I love my Libra. We have a good understanding of each other. I tend to like Libras and have many Libra friends. Anything specific you want to know?

I had more to ask, but I'm sure you all will tell me what I already know. I just wanted to pick your brains lol. Even though I know all Aries are different due to the placements.

@GUMSHOE I didn't say anything about moving in with my Aries. LOL. I think he??d choke on a lung if he heard that. He's very independent, and still trying to move out of his mom house, living with her is killing him alone. He's often complained about feeling like he's a grown azz man still at home. AGAIN he's only 21, only been out of high school for 3 yrs, I think he's being hard on himself as I have only just moved out of my mom house this past yr in 2012 and I'm 24. So I guess that's just him being independent by nature.

To your 2nd question we've known one another since we were kids, I'm talking like since 7 yrs old or possibly younger. He's always had a crush on me I??ve always had a crush on him. Our families are close by marriage, however he and I have NO RELATION whatsoever! We just gave it a real shot a yr ago. So we've been talking for a yr now.

Keep the comments coming though. I'm hearing a lot of —games?? talk about the Leeb family. Lol. True we try to charm our way out of almost anything. Other signs have different words for it, I??ve heard liars, lead people on, Tricksters, Charmers, and now Gamers. Sheesh, I'm not that bad. However the one thing i DO honestly hate, is my desire to see everyone happy if i really truly love them. I feel it makes me look weak sometimes. Maybe this is why my Aries is having 2nd thoughts about me

Mind you, if my friends were reading this, they'd say i'm putting words in his mouth because he's never came out and said he's having second thoughts, he actually says i'm everything he could want in a woman, and that he likes me just as much as he always did if not more than he was younger. However a woman knows. I'm sure all the women out there can understand where i'm coming from no matter the sign.

Posted by pinklibra


To your 2nd question we've known one another since we were kids, I'm talking like since 7 yrs old or possibly younger. He's always had a crush on me I??ve always had a crush on him. Our families are close by marriage, however he and I have NO RELATION whatsoever! We just gave it a real shot a yr ago. So we've been talking for a yr now.

Yes everyone is different and placements can change the dynamics for anyone; I have a lot of Libra placements. I have known my Libra 20 years (since kids as well). We did not become a couple til recently and married. We were as platonic as platonic can be before we dated. I'm glad we took the plunge.

yAY! Flavia, dont know why but your comment made me feel a lil better. lol Maybe this can work. I've backed off of him for a little though, i dont want to smoother him. He's having a real hard time in his life, and i know how my emotions can get the best of me, he likes me nonetheless because he knows this about me, but still i dont wanna drive the man nuts. lol. But,anyway Aries like space right? I still respond when he text me and i check on him from time to time, but do you think Aries will appreciate time to themselves to sort out whatever it is they are sorting out. Maybe because i value my space i cand fathom smoothering someone else. Does that make sense?

@GUMSHOE you hit it right on the nail. Things are not the same. He's says he's still as into me as he has been over the years but thats not the way i feel. I think a man can SAY anything, but if you dont FEEL the things that he says then really its all just a bunch of words with no action right?

And yes, i love him more than he will know. However I have needs, i want more than what he is willing to give and this i can accept even though it hurts because he was honest from the beginning that he cares deeply for me but he refuses to risk us getting into a relationship before he's ready because he knows it will fail and we will be worse than we started.

And oh my gosh if you dont sound like him when you said "YOU GOT TIME!" lol. He says that all the time. We are you, you know i care for you we've liked each other since we were little our families are close so i'm not going anywhere and niether are you" SMH.

Thats what he thinks. I'm 24 i'm established, well, almost. I have my own place, own car, I'll be done with school in about a yr and a couple months, and I have a full-time job. I want a man. One who wants me just as mush as i want him and honestly i'm not so sure my Aries is that guy anymore. He just doesn't act like it plus he's young and he's told me boldly that he not ready but he cares.

I'm sorry. Typo. He always says "We are young, we got time. You know i care for you, always have. Our fams are close, i'm not going nowhere, and neither are you. We dont have to rush"

But i'm like HELLOOoooo Negroooo it's been a freaking year! Geesh!

Posted by pinklibra
I'm sorry. Typo. He always says "We are young, we got time. You know i care for you, always have. Our fams are close, i'm not going nowhere, and neither are you. We dont have to rush"

But i'm like HELLOOoooo Negroooo it's been a freaking year! Geesh!

Slooooow down. Seriously. Especially if he's 21. He's still figuring shit out. YOU'RE 24 and still figuring shit out, though you're further along than he is.

This whole playing house scenario is a little too adult for both of you tbh. He's right. Take your time. A year is nothin'. Keep in mind that the gap between 21 and 24 is huge. It really is.

Posted by xxnightbynight
I met a Libra today... and he was flipping AWESOME. I usually only interact with Libra women.. the men are very very different.

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Libra guys are a whole 'nother creature compared to the females. Dating them can be frustrating but they're fun, decent friends.

Posted by pinklibra
But,anyway Aries like space right? I still respond when he text me and i check on him from time to time, but do you think Aries will appreciate time to themselves to sort out whatever it is they are sorting out. Maybe because i value my space i cand fathom smoothering someone else. Does that make sense?

From my perspective and from our experience only: your intuition will let you know when we need you, or we just say it. I can't think of a time he hasn't been there when I really needed an ear, a hug or a confirmation while I was going though. I've had some pretty not so easy times in my life since we became serious, but he is still there and it makes me feel safe that when I need someone he is my first thought.

Flavia, i think your right. There have been times when i was really fed up, and about to walk away then out of nowhere he'd send me a text, or call me. Other times i'd be going through it and it wouldn't even be about him, but he send me a message or ask to see me, not on a sexual level but just to check on me. He's only 21, think i should cut him a little slack? lol

Posted by pinklibra
Flavia, i think your right. There have been times when i was really fed up, and about to walk away then out of nowhere he'd send me a text, or call me. Other times i'd be going through it and it wouldn't even be about him, but he send me a message or ask to see me, not on a sexual level but just to check on me. He's only 21, think i should cut him a little slack? lol

He's young, 21 versus 24 presents its own issues as you have more life experience possibly. How was he before the relationship? Step back toward when you were just friend's. Is he almost exactly the same? Then ask yourself which way you want to proceed.

I was in a committed relationship for about 3 years with a Libra woman. We were completely platonic in the first year of knowing each other. I knew she had a crush on me for a large part of that time as she clung to me often. I had no returning feelings until one day it hit me that I was passing this great, loving woman up for no reason. In typical Arian style , I launched into a relationship with her very ardently and I will remember our good times for the rest of my life, most certainly. Our relationship was idyllic but romantic. I got an apartment for us soon after and we lived together for over 2 years. We never fought; we never argued. We talked about marriage and children very seriously. Things fell apart with the rest of my life as I sought out more for my career and professionalism. We tried to make it work but without success. She was generous in her love and open with her affections. While our relationship stood, she was good to me. In hindsight, here are my concerns: Libran desire to please and charm everyone is admirable, however, she acquiesced to me too often and sometimes, albeit most likely unintentionally, would offend me with more than amicable attentions to others. She was a good friend, a good lover, and a good person. I wish she would've been more direct with her needs and desires. When the floor fell from under us, there was a lot of resentment on each side. Some of which I did not expect. Just remember it takes two people in a relationship. She thought she was sacrificing her emotions and personality while I sacrificed my time, energy, and money. We both tried in the relationship which is why it worked out so well for so long. But there were upsets she had with me that I was completely unaware of. Had I known, I would've worked on them for her. Not that there weren't things she could have done differently for me too. It was most certainly a learning experience and while I don't seek a relationship with her again, I do hope the best for her.

Aries Male here. Ive never dated a Libra, but recently found out they are our polar opposite, so Im now intrigued to say the least, and if you know an Aries, they get what they want, so Im now determined. I went to school with a gorgeous libra girl, I would love to open her eyes to aries, if she hasnt already experienced us. LOL. I must say tho, I tend to date the same types of women, or signs, which I presume alot of us do, regardless of the sign. Ive dated alot of aries women, and my mom is an aries. I must say tho, I think with us, we either clique, or hate each other. Theres that Love/Hate aspect there always. Some Advice tho, if you want to keep an aries man interested, dont give in to his temptation, keep him guessing, or make him chase you, it drives us crazy but well do it either way! And were really honest ppl, bcuz were bad liars, so becareful, he may be brash or crass at times, but he means well, if you can take his constructive criticism without hurting/retaliating towards his fragile male ego, your in the clear. Also, we generally have high sex drives, so get ready for alot of meaningless sex, with no real emotional connection. Aries will leave as fast as they entered just remember that, so always keep him playing your game, but make him think he's "winning". Charlie Sheen! Hotep!

Markeesha language please girl! lmbo. Thank goodness i'm a very confident Leeb woman, or you woulda hurt my widdle feelings lol.

@LIMITED: Thank you soo much for commenting. Judging on the other comments I was beginning to think I was fighting a losing battle. Your story sounds sooo much like mines it's scary.lol. I'm shocked you said you wish she would've been more upfront about her needs and desires, because i'm very open with my Aries about my needs and wants, i guess my only downfall is not standing strong behind them. However i've told him in many way but spanish about what i want so if i decide to ditch him one day, he'll know why. However in his defense he's only 22 and he's told me what he wants too. Straight out. They dont add up, and you'd think we'd both run for cover, but no. Over the course of a year, we've challanged one another over and over again. I get mad, and i disappear. He lets me for a little while then he comes chasing. It feels like a roller coaster -_-. Perhaps i'll inbox youa little more back ground if you ever have time. I know you Aries are very busy. lol.

@Arian22: Another hit on the nose. Yes, he is my complete opposite but i lovvvve it! I never get bord, i may get tired but i never get bord. One thing that he may not like is i dont fight unless i know im going to win. For example if he stops calling me, i stop calling him. If he doesn't text me, i dont text him. He wants space, i go about my business. I do this because in the past when i call, he doesn't answer or call back for days at a time and it infuriates me. If i send a text, he wont respond at all or he may CHOOSE to respond 3 days later, which also pisses me off it makes me feel rejected and i've told him this. He's tried to get better, but he still does it. So to avoid that rejection feeling i only text if it's just to say hi. But i no longer send messages i want a response to like "I miss you." Or " I would like to see you" Because if he doesn't respond i'll flip. Bad i know. But true.

nice question .

What does Aries women think of Libra's men ? especially ...


I think aries man and libra woman are more compatible .
aries is the man ! and the libra is the woman ....


but by example: take an aries girl with an libra guy . it's different .

in general she have more balls than us ( libra man ) ! ahaha lmao 🙂

nice question .

What does Aries women think of Libra's men ? especially ...


I think aries man and libra woman are more compatible . aries is the man ! and the libra is the woman ....

but by example: take an aries girl with an libra guy . it's different .

in general she have more balls than us ( libra man ) ! ahaha lmao 🙂

I'm not exclusive with mine yet, but as a second decan aries, progressing with a first decan libra.. It's mixed

1) we are completely different, but it's not a bad thing, adds an excitement & as long as communication is open, it's going well.
2) I'm learning a lot of patience from him & learning to think more & not be so impulsive from emotions, in fact I cannot believe how much calmer I am, I'm learning the libra way... In turn he's been able to follow instincts more and reach a decision faster, also cottoning on to aries traits.
3) both struggle to discuss 'us' the confusion of one another can drive is both crazy, but has you longing for more, it's mysterious... I just hope I don't end up bored!
4) we're both artistic, creative & leaders, so can have conversations on deeper levels relating to current affairs, history, documentaries, politics, etc.
5) our sexual chemistry & attraction is like nothing I've EVER experienced. 'Fire'works shooting into the 'air' haha

We are complete opposites, but he's everything I'm not & I have everything he lacks. It all boils down to communication; both thinking through the pros and cons (libra style ) & expressing emotions (aries). I believe it can work, but it is a challenge. But what aries doesn't like a challenge?

I am an Aries girl who dated a Libra man, at first it was great we got close quickly and loved spending time together, he made sure he made time for me and we met often. Then things went wrong business wise for him and it all changed, his communication became hit and miss I would send him a text and it would take days for him to reply, he had to go away on business, the first time he kept in touch by text, the second he sent me one text in 3 months, he has now returned and wants to apparently pick up where we left off with no explanation. I think Libra men are fine if everything is balanced but once they have something on their mind you are no longer a priority and they seem to forget all about you, they have the ability to switch off and go quiet for ages then return when their scales are more balanced, very weird behaviour if you ask me, not sure I want a relationship with someone so flaky and inconsistent and selfish, I mean how long does it take to send a text!!!

Libras have good qualities. Excellent dressers and home decorators. They will share their last bit of food or money with you too. Very social and lovable. However, they can be manipulative and shallow. I like Libra women more than the men.

Posted by Aries2help
I'm not exclusive with mine yet, but as a second decan aries, progressing with a first decan libra.. It's mixed

1) we are completely different, but it's not a bad thing, adds an excitement & as long as communication is open, it's going well.
2) I'm learning a lot of patience from him & learning to think more & not be so impulsive from emotions, in fact I cannot believe how much calmer I am, I'm learning the libra way... In turn he's been able to follow instincts more and reach a decision faster, also cottoning on to aries traits.
3) both struggle to discuss 'us' the confusion of one another can drive is both crazy, but has you longing for more, it's mysterious... I just hope I don't end up bored!
4) we're both artistic, creative & leaders, so can have conversations on deeper levels relating to current affairs, history, documentaries, politics, etc.
5) our sexual chemistry & attraction is like nothing I've EVER experienced. 'Fire'works shooting into the 'air' haha

We are complete opposites, but he's everything I'm not & I have everything he lacks. It all boils down to communication; both thinking through the pros and cons (libra style ) & expressing emotions (aries). I believe it can work, but it is a challenge. But what aries doesn't like a challenge?

thanks for your help ! it's appreciated .

you gave me hope lol 😄

Posted by janjee
I am an Aries girl who dated a Libra man, at first it was great we got close quickly and loved spending time together, he made sure he made time for me and we met often. Then things went wrong business wise for him and it all changed, his communication became hit and miss I would send him a text and it would take days for him to reply, he had to go away on business, the first time he kept in touch by text, the second he sent me one text in 3 months, he has now returned and wants to apparently pick up where we left off with no explanation. I think Libra men are fine if everything is balanced but once they have something on their mind you are no longer a priority and they seem to forget all about you, they have the ability to switch off and go quiet for ages then return when their scales are more balanced, very weird behaviour if you ask me, not sure I want a relationship with someone so flaky and inconsistent and selfish, I mean how long does it take to send a text!!!

sorry to hear that . I think he is just really busy with his professional life .

I must admit he is weird lol . love is in my top 3 priority 🙂

Love them my closest friends are Libras
The first guy I had butterflies for was a Libra but found out he was gay 😭