Which is more challenging

This topic was created in the Aries forum by truthseeker on Tuesday, June 14, 2005 and has 4 replies.

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@truthseeker
21 Years500+ PostsCancer

What do you think, Aries, is more challenging for you? Being in a relationship with you complete opposite sign (Libra), or being in a relationship with a sign that is just like you (but not necessarily your sign...maybe another fire sign)?

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@cancerlady
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Where did you buy your mirror because mine doesn't work sometimes...

Seriously, I must say that the best relationships for me come from other water signs namely Pisces because Cancers are too damn sensitive and Scorpios are too harsh sometimes.

I really think that I could work with an Earth sign (Cappy is my opposite) but only the Taurus because Virgo is too critical for my feelings and Cappy works way too much for me, I need attention.

I think the only Fire sign I could get with is Leo because I am an a $ $ kisser by nature so they will soak up all the attention. Sag & Aries are too argumentative for me.

As far as air...I really liked Aqua's but they need way too much freedom, Gemini's & Libras I could deal with but it would be strained because of our total different outlooks on life

Cancerlady

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@crimson_tide
21 Years

My mom is an Aries with my dad who is a Scorpio. Talk about complete opposites and totally challenging.

I don't know about me. I'm an aquarius and I can't talk to any other air sign such as a gemini or libra 'cause it wouldn't lead to anywhere but lust, total infactuation, or just a deep friendship.

Most earth signs such as virgos and taurus wind up being my bestest friends.
I do good with fire signs such as guys who are Aries because usually when I'm in a relationship, the fellow is always being indifferent about what he wants to do so I usually wind up having to take control. But when I'm with an Aries it's different. They know what they want and what they want to give. And all I have to do and sit down and enjoy the ride. 🙂

Water signs are the ones I wind up with the most though and it's not so much as a challenge as I make it seem to be. I find it easier to talk to these guys better and they're not always so busy or worried about letting their guard down (for the most part) such as Aries and other signs.

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@Freebird
21 Years1,000+ Posts

As an Aries I am perfectly content being single and on my own. To be in a relationship is a challenge for me because I am such a free spirit and most men want to control me and ohhhhhhh no can do! At this moment in time this is a challenge for me...can someone just accept me for who I am?

I have not had the opportunity to be in a relationship with my opposite sign..altho a Libra male friend did take me to lunch!