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10 Years
why am i MORE hot headed than him??
Why You May Be Hotter Headed Than Your Aries Partner
Despite sharing the same Aries sun and Mercury, differences in moon signs and individual personalities influence emotional responses. Your Virgo moon may make you more prone to frustration and impatience, while his Aries moon contributes to his calmness. Astrological factors shape how each person expresses their Aries traits.
His Aries placements might fall into a water house. What's his/your ascendant, and where do your Aries placements reside? He also might have Saturn aspects that keep him calm. Does your Mars aspect your Uranus? That can sometimes point to a volatile temper.
Or, he has mastered the ability to control himself.
Posted by AriesIntrovert16
His Aries placements might fall into a water house. What's his/your ascendant, and where do your Aries placements reside? He also might have Saturn aspects that keep him calm. Does your Mars aspect your Uranus? That can sometimes point to a volatile temper.
I'm not sure about his full chart. I don't know his ascendant or aspects. I am cancer ascendant, Mars doesn't aspect Uranus only sextile moon and mercury. It doesn't happen all the time though, most of the time I'm calm. Some situations just make me on edge, like cooking!!!
Posted by Gooober
Or, he has mastered the ability to control himself.
This is possible.
Posted by AriesLove
There can't be two crazy Aries in a relationship. So since you are the crazy one he has to be the calm one. But trust they can be crazy too.Return to a calm nature and see what happens.
Hahaha interesting... not sure how I feel about being the crazy one. Maybe I'll give calm a try.
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I'm posting again about Aries with Aries, I apologize.
I am an Aries and the guy I'm kind of dating (not really sure the correct term to use) is also an Aries.
He recently told me that I'm really hot headed and I anger quickly, which is true... he is a lot more calm and patient than I am. But (to me) this doesn't make sense astrologically because....
He is... Aries sun, Aries moon, Aries mercury
I am... Aries sun, Virgo moon, Aries mercury
Why am I so damn hot headed and he is so calm?? I'm gonna go ahead and put it down to being a woman.