Aries Man and Virgo Woman - Space for him...?

Aries Man and Virgo Woman Compatibility and Communication

Aries men often value independence and may not prioritize frequent communication, which can seem distant to Virgo women. This behavior is typical Aries trait, but understanding each other's needs and establishing clear boundaries helps strengthen the relationship. Patience and open dialogue are key to navigating differences in communication styles and building trust.

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Milani
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9 YearsVirgo

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Yes, again, I am with someone.... BUT I can't say someone 'new'.... He has been a friend that I've known for a little over a year and a past roommate. (He being an Aries w/ Gemini Moon, me a Virgo w/ Taurus Moon)

Not sure if he was waiting for me to become single, but this past Saturday I met up with him not expecting anything than what we normally do when we hang out (chat, drink, ect). Anyways, when I pulled up to his place, he met me at my car and gave me a deep hug then gave me a kiss on my upper neck. It was very sweet... I asked him "What was all that for?" and he responded "I've missed you..." I was like "Umm, ok"

He then took me on a date and was adamant about me not paying for anything. We went to a historical fort and then he bought us drinks afterwards. During all of this he referenced himself as my 'boyfriend'... and I was like "Wait, what?"

He then proceeded to say "yeah, its been on my mind" I was like "okay..." Later that night, he slipped up and told me he loved me. It was cute.

Long story short, we had committed to each other. It is a different dynamic than what I've experienced when dating someone that I hadn't known for long... The infatuation/excitement about dating him is not there. And its taking time to adjust to seeing him as my 'boyfriend' because I just see the same guy I've been friends with.

So I understand Aries men like to do their own thing on their own time (and your time too)... I try not to text him or call him much. What I am trying to grasp is him not ever texting me back... I sent him 'good morning' or 'hope you have a good day' texts but he never responds back and/or he never texts to check to see how my day is going. Is this typical Aries behavior?

Also, anyone else have a Virgo/Aries experience?
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StingTailedLibra
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Posted by MilaniKisses
Yes, again, I am with someone.... BUT I can't say someone 'new'.... He has been a friend that I've known for a little over a year and a past roommate. (He being an Aries w/ Gemini Moon, me a Virgo w/ Taurus Moon)

Not sure if he was waiting for me to become single, but this past Saturday I met up with him not expecting anything than what we normally do when we hang out (chat, drink, ect). Anyways, when I pulled up to his place, he met me at my car and gave me a deep hug then gave me a kiss on my upper neck. It was very sweet... I asked him "What was all that for?" and he responded "I've missed you..." I was like "Umm, ok"

He then took me on a date and was adamant about me not paying for anything. We went to a historical fort and then he bought us drinks afterwards. During all of this he referenced himself as my 'boyfriend'... and I was like "Wait, what?"

He then proceeded to say "yeah, its been on my mind" I was like "okay..." Later that night, he slipped up and told me he loved me. It was cute.

Long story short, we had committed to each other. It is a different dynamic than what I've experienced when dating someone that I hadn't known for long... The infatuation/excitement about dating him is not there. And its taking time to adjust to seeing him as my 'boyfriend' because I just see the same guy I've been friends with.

So I understand Aries men like to do their own thing on their own time (and your time too)... I try not to text him or call him much. What I am trying to grasp is him not ever texting me back... I sent him 'good morning' or 'hope you have a good day' texts but he never responds back and/or he never texts to check to see how my day is going. Is this typical Aries behavior?

Also, anyone else have a Virgo/Aries experience?


Doesnt sound v Aries at all