Aries Man and Virgo Woman - Space for him...?

Yes, again, I am with someone.... BUT I can't say someone 'new'.... He has been a friend that I've known for a little over a year and a past roommate. (He being an Aries w/ Gemini Moon, me a Virgo w/ Taurus Moon)

Not sure if he was waiting for me to become single, but this past Saturday I met up with him not expecting anything than what we normally do when we hang out (chat, drink, ect). Anyways, when I pulled up to his place, he met me at my car and gave me a deep hug then gave me a kiss on my upper neck. It was very sweet... I asked him "What was all that for?" and he responded "I've missed you..." I was like "Umm, ok"

He then took me on a date and was adamant about me not paying for anything. We went to a historical fort and then he bought us drinks afterwards. During all of this he referenced himself as my 'boyfriend'... and I was like "Wait, what?"

He then proceeded to say "yeah, its been on my mind" I was like "okay..." Later that night, he slipped up and told me he loved me. It was cute.

Long story short, we had committed to each other. It is a different dynamic than what I've experienced when dating someone that I hadn't known for long... The infatuation/excitement about dating him is not there. And its taking time to adjust to seeing him as my 'boyfriend' because I just see the same guy I've been friends with.

So I understand Aries men like to do their own thing on their own time (and your time too)... I try not to text him or call him much. What I am trying to grasp is him not ever texting me back... I sent him 'good morning' or 'hope you have a good day' texts but he never responds back and/or he never texts to check to see how my day is going. Is this typical Aries behavior?

Also, anyone else have a Virgo/Aries experience?

Also, to add onto this.... Because he isnt showing much interest by text, I am ready to drop him and just stay friends... I do love him, because he was actually my first love (as a woman) and always wanted to date him...

Actions speak louder than words to me. So him not showing the initiative to text me, even if its a "ok" or "thanks" really bugs me.

Posted by GetMisted
You need a break either way imo

I agree...

Yeah I ended it with him last night. We'll stay friends :-)

Try to be nonchalant to him. My Aries guy friends ... let's just say they go crazy when a girl doesn't reply, avoid them.. they go into paranoia and try to pacify the girls...

Posted by MilaniKisses
Yes, again, I am with someone.... BUT I can't say someone 'new'.... He has been a friend that I've known for a little over a year and a past roommate. (He being an Aries w/ Gemini Moon, me a Virgo w/ Taurus Moon)

Not sure if he was waiting for me to become single, but this past Saturday I met up with him not expecting anything than what we normally do when we hang out (chat, drink, ect). Anyways, when I pulled up to his place, he met me at my car and gave me a deep hug then gave me a kiss on my upper neck. It was very sweet... I asked him "What was all that for?" and he responded "I've missed you..." I was like "Umm, ok"

He then took me on a date and was adamant about me not paying for anything. We went to a historical fort and then he bought us drinks afterwards. During all of this he referenced himself as my 'boyfriend'... and I was like "Wait, what?"

He then proceeded to say "yeah, its been on my mind" I was like "okay..." Later that night, he slipped up and told me he loved me. It was cute.

Long story short, we had committed to each other. It is a different dynamic than what I've experienced when dating someone that I hadn't known for long... The infatuation/excitement about dating him is not there. And its taking time to adjust to seeing him as my 'boyfriend' because I just see the same guy I've been friends with.

So I understand Aries men like to do their own thing on their own time (and your time too)... I try not to text him or call him much. What I am trying to grasp is him not ever texting me back... I sent him 'good morning' or 'hope you have a good day' texts but he never responds back and/or he never texts to check to see how my day is going. Is this typical Aries behavior?

Also, anyone else have a Virgo/Aries experience?

Doesnt sound v Aries at all