So every time I meet a guy they instantly fall in love

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Posted by Stensco21
And think we are soul mates and most of them say it was fate... lol idk what my effect on ppl is but I can't be everyone's soul mate. So how do I know whose my actual soul mate?
I am sure your scorp moon will know instantly when you meet your soulmate 🙂

some people use it as a pick-up line, so dont make assumptions on it and take it too seriously.... until you yourself will feel the same
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And think we are soul mates and most of them say it was fate... lol idk what my effect on ppl is but I can't be everyone's soul mate. So how do I know whose my actual soul mate?
I am sure your scorp moon will know instantly when you meet your soulmate 🙂

some people use it as a pick-up line, so dont make assumptions on it and take it too seriously.... until you yourself will feel the same
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True never thought of it as a pick up line.
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And think we are soul mates and most of them say it was fate... lol idk what my effect on ppl is but I can't be everyone's soul mate. So how do I know whose my actual soul mate?


Ayy that humble brag

"How can I make people stop worshipping me so I can find someone I want?"

I see ju
It's true though
Try telling them you are self destructive in all intimate relationships but expect the best from whoever wines and dines you.

Only someone who's believes in twin flame would hear that statement and stick around.

It's all about filtering for love yo

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This is spot on me lol
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When you both fall into love effortlessly. You just know and time will go by quickly.
How do you know if your in love?
I always knew because I would be less of an asshole usually. It meant I was on my good behavior because she brought it out naturally.

I would also be floating off in the clouds in my mind.
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Same if I really like someone I'm so much nicer and happy
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And think we are soul mates and most of them say it was fate... lol idk what my effect on ppl is but I can't be everyone's soul mate. So how do I know whose my actual soul mate?


Ayy that humble brag

"How can I make people stop worshipping me so I can find someone I want?"

I see ju
It's true though
Try telling them you are self destructive in all intimate relationships but expect the best from whoever wines and dines you.

Only someone who's believes in twin flame would hear that statement and stick around.

It's all about filtering for love yo


This is spot on me lol
I edited my advice so it can be helpful to the other 80% of dxpnet posters who can relate. 🙂

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Lmao we all do this crap
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And think we are soul mates and most of them say it was fate... lol idk what my effect on ppl is but I can't be everyone's soul mate. So how do I know whose my actual soul mate?


Ayy that humble brag

"How can I make people stop worshipping me so I can find someone I want?"

I see ju
It's true though
Try telling them you are self destructive in all intimate relationships but expect the best from whoever wines and dines you.

Only someone who's believes in twin flame would hear that statement and stick around.

It's all about filtering for love yo


This is spot on me lol
I edited my advice so it can be helpful to the other 80% of dxpnet posters who can relate. 🙂


Lmao we all do this crap
Yes you all do haha

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That's why dxp is lit
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And think we are soul mates and most of them say it was fate... lol idk what my effect on ppl is but I can't be everyone's soul mate. So how do I know whose my actual soul mate?


Ayy that humble brag

"How can I make people stop worshipping me so I can find someone I want?"

I see ju
It's true though
Try telling them you are self destructive in all intimate relationships but expect the best from whoever wines and dines you.

Only someone who's believes in twin flame would hear that statement and stick around.

It's all about filtering for love yo


This is spot on me lol
I edited my advice so it can be helpful to the other 80% of dxpnet posters who can relate. 🙂


Lmao we all do this crap
Yes you all do haha


That's why dxp is lit
Litaf nahmean.



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I've been knowing
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And think we are soul mates and most of them say it was fate... lol idk what my effect on ppl is but I can't be everyone's soul mate. So how do I know whose my actual soul mate?


Ayy that humble brag

"How can I make people stop worshipping me so I can find someone I want?"

I see ju
It's true though
Try telling them you are self destructive in all intimate relationships but expect the best from whoever wines and dines you.

Only someone who's believes in twin flame would hear that statement and stick around.

It's all about filtering for love yo


This is spot on me lol
I edited my advice so it can be helpful to the other 80% of dxpnet posters who can relate. 🙂


Lmao we all do this crap
Yes you all do haha


That's why dxp is lit
Litaf nahmean.




I've been knowing
I've been woking.

Stay woke.

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Bleeping creepin 👀
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And think we are soul mates and most of them say it was fate... lol idk what my effect on ppl is but I can't be everyone's soul mate. So how do I know whose my actual soul mate?
for me its - are they on my mind constantly, is the music I listen to about them, are they showing up in my dreams, do I look for them when I go out or think I see them, do I see people or things that constantly remind me of them throughout the day, do I notice myself changing to adapt to what I think they like, how they communicate, etc.? If they have that much of a hold on me to make it that far into my subconscious, I'd say they are definitely worth taking seriously....if its just a friendship or crush/physical attraction, none of that occurs....
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And think we are soul mates and most of them say it was fate... lol idk what my effect on ppl is but I can't be everyone's soul mate. So how do I know whose my actual soul mate?


Ayy that humble brag

"How can I make people stop worshipping me so I can find someone I want?"

I see ju
It's true though
Try telling them you are self destructive in all intimate relationships but expect the best from whoever wines and dines you.

Only someone who's believes in twin flame would hear that statement and stick around.

It's all about filtering for love yo


This is spot on me lol
I edited my advice so it can be helpful to the other 80% of dxpnet posters who can relate. 🙂


Lmao we all do this crap
Yes you all do haha


That's why dxp is lit
Litaf nahmean.




I've been knowing
I've been woking.

Stay woke.


Bleeping creepin 👀
Steady fiending

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If it’s instantly then they fell in lust, not love. If you’re charming and charismatic it could just be an infatuation, and I’m sure it’s just that, otherwise there would be no more guys falling in love cause you wouldn’t still be single.

Are you single? I’m only assuming.
Guys fall in love w me even when I have a ring on. I am Charming and fun but it always ends up they think I'm the one or destiny
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And think we are soul mates and most of them say it was fate... lol idk what my effect on ppl is but I can't be everyone's soul mate. So how do I know whose my actual soul mate?
for me its - are they on my mind constantly, is the music I listen to about them, are they showing up in my dreams, do I look for them when I go out or think I see them, do I see people or things that constantly remind me of them throughout the day, do I notice myself changing to adapt to what I think they like, how they communicate, etc.? If they have that much of a hold on me to make it that far into my subconscious, I'd say they are definitely worth taking seriously....if its just a friendship or crush/physical attraction, none of that occurs....
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is there a difference for you between infatuation and love? Do you differentiate it?



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If it’s instantly then they fell in lust, not love. If you’re charming and charismatic it could just be an infatuation, and I’m sure it’s just that, otherwise there would be no more guys falling in love cause you wouldn’t still be single.

Are you single? I’m only assuming.
Guys fall in love w me even when I have a ring on. I am Charming and fun but it always ends up they think I'm the one or destiny
Why doesn’t it last then? I mean if they’re a lot, you’d think one would stick!

You must be gorgeous.
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I don't fall in love easy and I get told I'm pretty every day but I think it has something to do with my chart or vibe mainly. Like guys go crazy over me and it makes me uncomfortable
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If it’s instantly then they fell in lust, not love. If you’re charming and charismatic it could just be an infatuation, and I’m sure it’s just that, otherwise there would be no more guys falling in love cause you wouldn’t still be single.

Are you single? I’m only assuming.
Guys fall in love w me even when I have a ring on. I am Charming and fun but it always ends up they think I'm the one or destiny
Why doesn’t it last then? I mean if they’re a lot, you’d think one would stick!

You must be gorgeous.

I don't fall in love easy and I get told I'm pretty every day but I think it has something to do with my chart or vibe mainly. Like guys go crazy over me and it makes me uncomfortable



Hey, can you help me message boys on tinder? My flirting skills are bloated.

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Lmao tinder scares me
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If it’s instantly then they fell in lust, not love. If you’re charming and charismatic it could just be an infatuation, and I’m sure it’s just that, otherwise there would be no more guys falling in love cause you wouldn’t still be single.

Are you single? I’m only assuming.
Guys fall in love w me even when I have a ring on. I am Charming and fun but it always ends up they think I'm the one or destiny
Why doesn’t it last then? I mean if they’re a lot, you’d think one would stick!

You must be gorgeous.

I don't fall in love easy and I get told I'm pretty every day but I think it has something to do with my chart or vibe mainly. Like guys go crazy over me and it makes me uncomfortable



Hey, can you help me message boys on tinder? My flirting skills are bloated.



Lmao tinder scares me


Your fears are legitimate.
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It feels like post mates but for ppl lol like ordering a human
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Let's get to the bottom of this because most people hate me when they meet me and I think it is my aqu asc. I think I'm viewed as cold and distant when I really am not.

But caps are aholes so it can't be the asc.

I'm going with the fact that scorps are very magnetic and alluring. The guys probably fall for that allure.
Ummm my scorp friends r cool, def not alluring 😂😂😂😂. I’m saying, does OP resemble Beyonce —?
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I have a Scorpio moon like her. Dudes really do love Scorpio moons
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And think we are soul mates and most of them say it was fate... lol idk what my effect on ppl is but I can't be everyone's soul mate. So how do I know whose my actual soul mate?
for me its - are they on my mind constantly, is the music I listen to about them, are they showing up in my dreams, do I look for them when I go out or think I see them, do I see people or things that constantly remind me of them throughout the day, do I notice myself changing to adapt to what I think they like, how they communicate, etc.? If they have that much of a hold on me to make it that far into my subconscious, I'd say they are definitely worth taking seriously....if its just a friendship or crush/physical attraction, none of that occurs....
is there a difference for you between infatuation and love? Do you differentiate it?





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I don't see a need to differentiate because I think some form of an infatuation/obsession phase where your thinking is somewhat consumed by the other person is likely going to be a part of any lasting love, and the work of anthropologists and neuroscientists who've studied human pair bonding (as well as that in other mammals) has borne this out, even across cultures (e.g., most notably Helen Fisher). Whether or not the love lasts beyond that will depend on all sorts of other factors of course....I do tend towards wanting to savor/prolong the emotional heights that this phase of love offers, and I think there are a lot of ways that you can do that, but of course, the comfort/stability/trust that's built in a longer-term relationship is also equally desirable....
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Umm how long does it take for guys to say this? Sometimes guys just get all excited when they think they see qualities of “the one” but unless they’ve really gotten to know you, it’s just them getting all excited.
or if they see a hot girl and want to get her 🙂

the same with "I love you", "I want to marry you" etc early on (in some cases it may be true, like in 0,1 % it really works out, but......... 🙂 )

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And think we are soul mates and most of them say it was fate... lol idk what my effect on ppl is but I can't be everyone's soul mate. So how do I know whose my actual soul mate?
Some more sensitive to feel you and can connect on deeper level. My partner is scorpio moon too and we are soul mates at least deeply connected. You will feel it when you met one, make sure not to be possessive and jealous
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If it’s instantly then they fell in lust, not love. If you’re charming and charismatic it could just be an infatuation, and I’m sure it’s just that, otherwise there would be no more guys falling in love cause you wouldn’t still be single.

Are you single? I’m only assuming.
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Happened to me a few times......my Scorpio stuff sucking them in