Virgo man torturing me mentally

Please help me with this guy.

He is working with me and I like him a lot. Sometimes I can see from his actions that he likes me too. He even he asked me for my number. He was calling me every day, every hour and asking about me.

He touches my hands as if he doesn't [—?]

He told me I miss you when i went travelling.

At first, he just told me that he wanted to be friends only and I accepted, although I wanted to be more than friends. His actions is like he is my lover. Even when he travelled he gave me his watch. He asked me to keep with me and look at it whenever I miss him.

I know it seems normal to you guys but I am really attracted to him. I know Virgo man is hard when it comes to emotions. Yesterday he told me that I care a lot for him, that this not friendship, that i am crossing my limits and I should less care for him.

He was rude but I told him "I care about you because you do the same." My voice changed because I was going to cry. He said "if you don't love me and I am your friend why has your voice changed?"

I couldn't hold my self. He told me "we are crossing the limit. It's more than friendship now. I just want you to care less."

I started not to go to places in the work just to avoid him telling me that I came just to see him. He used to see me every day but yesterday when he didn't see me he came to the other building were I work. He called me he said that he brought something for me. Again, the next day he came sending me snaps that he is in my building. I kept myself busy and got in to my car before he came to my office.

If he is telling to keep a gap, why does come and make excuses to see me?

Why is he testing me? Or maybe he is analysing me?

What shall I do now? For 2 days he didn't call me. He just text asking about me. Sometimes he keeps calm. I call him and he knows that I worry a lot so how can I treat this guy? And what does he want? Does he like me? And what should I do should I stop caring? Please HELP he is more distant than before

Seems unsure what he wants.

Or at least unsure to go the whole way.

Half step forward half step back.

Either push him one way the other.

Posted by Koniuchaa
If your description of someone is that they are torturing you, then it's pretty obvious you should get away from them

Hi dear

Ya he is but I really like him and I don't know what to do to make him commit or maybe say something.

Posted by Weeds
Seems unsure what he wants.

Or at least unsure to go the whole way.

Half step forward half step back.

Either push him one way the other.

True his actions are like that

I'm a Virgo male and I must admit I can make contradictory actions like described when just starting out. Admittedly, I do lead girls on initially if I like them - but I'm too shy to turn down a date or them flirting with me. I can be aloof with someone that I truly enjoy and want to spend time with as well...

It may be best to have no expectations and see how his interactions develop. He could be going through a break-up or seeing someone else. It's really hard to gauge other them him being uncertain about committing to you at this point.