I am a cancer woman currently obsessing over Aries, one specifically on my mind. This Aries and I had a scandalous relationship. Both of us were seeing people and we hooked up a few times and I became addicted to him! But he felt bad for cheating and we stopped seeing each other. We stopped talking and became distant. But out of no where we hooked up again for one day but then he left right when we were done. We had an argument a few months after and we have only talked once since. Now he is in a relationship and I really want him. Should I just give up on him or try to get with him again ? And how would I be able to if so? Please help >
Aries man cancer woman ?
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You and the ram are not in a relationship! It's only sex, inspite of your increasing feelings. This thing you have between you is not relationship material.
Unfortunately, most Cancer women are not cut out for this type of trist. You really have to go into it cold with your eyes wide open to keep from getting emotionally involved. Aries men can do it and move on to the next one. The sexual chemistry between an Aries male and a Cancer woman is amazing but that's where it ends, unless there are other aspects in both charts that can bring a greater connection. I say chalk it up to a great sexcapade and find the right partner you can have both great sex and a loving relationship.
Unfortunately, most Cancer women are not cut out for this type of trist. You really have to go into it cold with your eyes wide open to keep from getting emotionally involved. Aries men can do it and move on to the next one. The sexual chemistry between an Aries male and a Cancer woman is amazing but that's where it ends, unless there are other aspects in both charts that can bring a greater connection. I say chalk it up to a great sexcapade and find the right partner you can have both great sex and a loving relationship.
I just don't know how to get over him 😛


And not being able to get over someone is not an excuse to obsess over a man that is not meeeting your needs. A Cancer womans needs are greater than physical.

Posted by LunarMaidenPosted by Silvercancer
I just don't know how to get over him 😛
Get a new crush. 😛click to expand
many a true word spoken in jest
You have to cut off all communication with him too start the process of getting over him love. Use your will power, delete his number, and stop making excuses to talk to him. Ive had a similar situation happen with a Libra.
Plus not going on astrology here, but if a guy wants to date you, he will date you. But if he just wants sex, that is all he will go for. And another thing, perhaps going with someone who isn't in a relationship would be best and more respectful for yourself. Plus if you two were to date, how do you know he wouldn't do the same too you?
Respect your self more love, and allow yourself to be angry with this guy, no offense but he sounds like a prick to me.
Plus not going on astrology here, but if a guy wants to date you, he will date you. But if he just wants sex, that is all he will go for. And another thing, perhaps going with someone who isn't in a relationship would be best and more respectful for yourself. Plus if you two were to date, how do you know he wouldn't do the same too you?
Respect your self more love, and allow yourself to be angry with this guy, no offense but he sounds like a prick to me.
Posted by cassibird89
You have to cut off all communication with him too start the process of getting over him love. Use your will power, delete his number, and stop making excuses to talk to him. Ive had a similar situation happen with a Libra.
Plus not going on astrology here, but if a guy wants to date you, he will date you. But if he just wants sex, that is all he will go for. And another thing, perhaps going with someone who isn't in a relationship would be best and more respectful for yourself. Plus if you two were to date, how do you know he wouldn't do the same too you?
Respect your self more love, and allow yourself to be angry with this guy, no offense but he sounds like a prick to me.
I agree with this. This would be a relationship with very little trust. Move on and find a man that is true to a woman...not a cheater.
Not to mention if he felt bad then why did he do it again. Obviously he is scum!
been there done that, i was in a 3 yr relationship with an aries man (female cancer). it just doesn't work so save yourself from the hurt... the only thing that was amazing was the sex everything else its just a no no. very aggressive (attitude wise) which would leave you with your feelings hurt time and time again.
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