Aries Question

I'm a Virgo crushing hard on a Aries man. We started talking for 4 months. The sad thing is that we live in different states. When we're talking he would hit me up every day daily 24/7 asking me how I was, supporting me, telling me about himself. Recently it died down a little. He doesn't hit me up anymore. I told him to come see me in NY and he said he would do it. I wanna know why he's distant now? How to I get him to chase me?

Posted by kpoppin12
I'm a Virgo crushing hard on a Aries man. We started talking for 4 months. The sad thing is that we live in different states. When we're talking he would hit me up every day daily 24/7 asking me how I was, supporting me, telling me about himself. Recently it died down a little. He doesn't hit me up anymore. I told him to come see me in NY and he said he would do it. I wanna know why he's distant now? How to I get him to chase me?

He may be distracted with work/studies. Aries are very focused and intense with whatever has their attention at that present time. If he said he will visit you, then it'll likely happen. Not they type to just say things. 4 months is a pretty long time to have not met irl yet.