Aries + Virgo- can someone please tell me about it?

Aries 21.03.1990 in Lodz, Poland at 12:10 pm
Virgo 10.09.1989 in Lodz, Poland at 11:57 am.

He cam eback to my life. I am very stressed about that. There was sth between us one year ago and then it distroyed. No idea why. Untill now we have not talked much. I feel so weird and stupid about that situation. Can someone tell me if there is going to be something between us or not?
We both have moon in capricorn , also other planets in aquarius.

You know when you separated it was best that you did you guys were not getting along so much, you both speak different love languages and even though same moon, it was a different degrees in the your charts. One person is always going to have to speak up about alot of things. If you had a bad break up don't get back with him.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
You know when you separated it was best that you did you guys were not getting along so much, you both speak different love languages and even though same moon, it was a different degrees in the your charts. One person is always going to have to speak up about alot of things. If you had a bad break up don't get back with him.

not a bad break up. just sth didnt go well, it just dissapeared. and other people stick their nose in that - i got scared.

You didn't give much detail about your relationship prior to the not talking thing.... but from my experience, Im going through something very similar. And I'm just as confused......

Please give more backstory and info about your situation..?

its not a relationship. we were friends started dating, even more. then we both dissapeared. i didnt know him that much.
now i probably know, after 1 year, a bit more.
its weird because when i ignored him completly he came back.
when i do it he comes back.
its weird.

why?

why does he want my attention? is he sick?

i will put our natal charts.

he is very clever and cynical, calm. but he also is a party boy - like he would have 2 faces.

me




him

Yea I'm literally going through the same thing right and I am just as confused as you are.

Me personally, I kept asking him what he wanted and why, whenever he would message me. And I've been figuring out more and more, there's just complicated circumstances that keeps me attached..

We live long distance so I'm especially torn. All trust was broken but I can't seem to just dismiss him when he comes back smh

I wish I could give you advice, but that would be like a blind man driving a school bus full of kids =/ All I'll say is be cautious and ask him questions when you guys speak. Idk your dynamic but it works for me. But don't bombard him bc he might overload and shut down or something. Be cautious with yourself.

Best of luck to you.

we started writing 2 weeks ago after we saw each other in a downtown on a party- and he seemed 'jealous' and interested whom i was with . it was weird . so i started to continue this and invite him next day for a 'museum night' in my city but he told me he would havegone to a party.
next days i initiated contact askng him out he was eager to do it and even told me the weekend but i was gonna be in the different city - i already had plans. when i came back i wrote to him i was already in the city and the conversation continued. and we arranged a meeting on wednesday evening but he told me he would have been at his friendsdoing business but he would give me a call when they finish. so i was waiting all wednesday and at 9 pm when iwas already out with friend he texted me and was sorry he didnt talk to me before and i asked him out he told me he woul text/call when they finish. BUT also told me not to wait for him. but he told me he would call and so one.
he didnt
now he is away doing business in other city untill monday

i wont write to him/

am i paranoied or it was just a normal conversation?

Posted by kow_ink
we started writing 2 weeks ago after we saw each other in a downtown on a party- and he seemed 'jealous' and interested whom i was with . it was weird . so i started to continue this and invite him next day for a 'museum night' in my city but he told me he would havegone to a party.
next days i initiated contact askng him out he was eager to do it and even told me the weekend but i was gonna be in the different city - i already had plans. when i came back i wrote to him i was already in the city and the conversation continued. and we arranged a meeting on wednesday evening but he told me he would have been at his friendsdoing business but he would give me a call when they finish. so i was waiting all wednesday and at 9 pm when iwas already out with friend he texted me and was sorry he didnt talk to me before and i asked him out he told me he woul text/call when they finish. BUT also told me not to wait for him. but he told me he would call and so one.
he didnt
now he is away doing business in other city untill monday

i wont write to him/

am i paranoied or it was just a normal conversation?

So he didn't call on wednesday.. & he hasn't said anything since?

If this would happen a lot, I don't think you're paranoid because I feel same way about my situation.

My Virgo always backs up on his word especially when it comes to communication.

Have you spoken to him that you would like to work on the communication between you two?
& are you guys pursuing one another romantically again or just trying to be friends?

I actually would like to be more than friends. because he definitely had a crush on me last year and i still have a crush on him now.
and i think he as well. but he is busy very busy because he has his own business, has a lot of things to do. thats why he likes - light relationships not very serious. and thast why he has a lot of friends. two girl best friends who were/are jealous of me.

and i feel he likes me but hes is not ready. but he doesnt wanna let me go. whenever he sees me with someone else or see me smiling he acts weird, like would go back home from a party.

in may we met up at the same business, a project away from the city. he was ok professional but was very nervous and was acting very childish like histerical when i was around and we were talking about some shitty stuff and he asked me if i started twice with someone - but then changed the topic so i was like : waaait no? but what do u mean? and i thought he meant the 'business stuff' but then i started thinking about it and everyday he was picking me up and he was driving me back home acting weird, like a nervous boy or like he wouldnt take medicines.
no idea
then silence


we met up in may at the beginning and then two weeks ago. and im a bit more sure and i feel more confident when im around. because before i knew him from the group of friends not as a single guy i met somewhere.he is always surrounded with girls, best friends who want to know everything about him, like his posts on fb, instagram, comments everything. solast year i was paranoied if he was a n open guy and had a lot of friends or i was someone more.

yes he didnt call/text on wednesday even thou 2 hours before he claimed he would. after they finish business with friends. he would call me or text me if he was going to see me /my friends. no, sisnce then, silence. hes away now. working in other city but comes back.next week.
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