cancer and capricorn

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RumiLove
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They really complement one another on all levels.

Both have somewhat similar...cute sense of humour.
Both are homely. Family is a BIG thing
Both want security - financial or emotional.
Both are serious in matters that requires seriousness.
Both are the most sensitive signs of the zodiac.
Cancers usually are suckers for hard exterior..all soft inside people - Cap men are just that.
Cancers are emotionally open..nurturing..comforting(once they see that they can let their guard down that is), Caps act like robots but melt from the warmth.
Cancers have that warmth that Caps require, and Capricorns have that stability and "reliability" that Cancers need - to put it in simple words.
Cancers are patient...they really try try try to work things out once they're into it - Caps are the same and finding this in cancers only wins their trust ...

And so on...

Its the best match!
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Posted by RumiL
They really complement one another on all levels.

Both have somewhat similar...cute sense of humour.
Both are homely. Family is a BIG thing
Both want security - financial or emotional.
Both are serious in matters that requires seriousness.
Both are the most sensitive signs of the zodiac.
Cancers usually are suckers for hard exterior..all soft inside people - Cap men are just that.
Cancers are emotionally open..nurturing..comforting(once they see that they can let their guard down that is), Caps act like robots but melt from the warmth.
Cancers have that warmth that Caps require, and Capricorns have that stability and "reliability" that Cancers need - to put it in simple words.
Cancers are patient...they really try try try to work things out once they're into it - Caps are the same and finding this in cancers only wins their trust ...

And so on...

Its the best match!
Makes sense. Do you think this applies to other opposites or just cancer and cap?
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Posted by RumiL
They really complement one another on all levels.

Both have somewhat similar...cute sense of humour.
Both are homely. Family is a BIG thing
Both want security - financial or emotional.
Both are serious in matters that requires seriousness.
Both are the most sensitive signs of the zodiac.
Cancers usually are suckers for hard exterior..all soft inside people - Cap men are just that.
Cancers are emotionally open..nurturing..comforting(once they see that they can let their guard down that is), Caps act like robots but melt from the warmth.
Cancers have that warmth that Caps require, and Capricorns have that stability and "reliability" that Cancers need - to put it in simple words.
Cancers are patient...they really try try try to work things out once they're into it - Caps are the same and finding this in cancers only wins their trust ...

And so on...

Its the best match!
Makes sense. Do you think this applies to other opposites or just cancer and cap?
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Hmm.. Now that I think about it... I never clearly understood the dynamics of other opposite signs 😕

Maybe it does. But only I cant figure out. Maybe I should read more ...
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I see these two signs paired A LOT, whether it's best friends or lovers, I see it everywhere!! I thought they we're supposed to clash... opposites attract and all that but I don't see as many other sign opposites together as much as these guys. Every cancer I know either has a Capricorn partner or close friend. Thoughts?
it's opposite ATTRACTS.

its all the sun signs pairings they all have opposite attracts in the chart. whether in the sun or moon or mars ect.

you get deeper in astrology and it's THERE...and if you dont see it in placements, the more "hidden and secret" are the houses. like having sun in 6th will be married to a Pisces sun, or a sun in 8th will be married to Scorpio sun. and the list goes on.
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Posted by RumiL
They really complement one another on all levels.

Both have somewhat similar...cute sense of humour.
Both are homely. Family is a BIG thing
Both want security - financial or emotional.
Both are serious in matters that requires seriousness.
Both are the most sensitive signs of the zodiac.
Cancers usually are suckers for hard exterior..all soft inside people - Cap men are just that.
Cancers are emotionally open..nurturing..comforting(once they see that they can let their guard down that is), Caps act like robots but melt from the warmth.
Cancers have that warmth that Caps require, and Capricorns have that stability and "reliability" that Cancers need - to put it in simple words.
Cancers are patient...they really try try try to work things out once they're into it - Caps are the same and finding this in cancers only wins their trust ...

And so on...

Its the best match!
oooh reading this made me smile

I am having a thing with a cap and it is sooo all of this^
makes so much sense!

he is so cold with everyone but i act all adorably cancery around him and he melts.
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Posted by RumiL
They really complement one another on all levels.

Both have somewhat similar...cute sense of humour.
Both are homely. Family is a BIG thing
Both want security - financial or emotional.
Both are serious in matters that requires seriousness.
Both are the most sensitive signs of the zodiac.
Cancers usually are suckers for hard exterior..all soft inside people - Cap men are just that.
Cancers are emotionally open..nurturing..comforting(once they see that they can let their guard down that is), Caps act like robots but melt from the warmth.
Cancers have that warmth that Caps require, and Capricorns have that stability and "reliability" that Cancers need - to put it in simple words.
Cancers are patient...they really try try try to work things out once they're into it - Caps are the same and finding this in cancers only wins their trust ...

And so on...

Its the best match!
I have a question for you... how do cancer man at towards cap women they say they "like" im not around him i only met once and it was great right now he's in school in another state 1300 miles away and he does talk to me only when i initiate a text and he always response.. i have told him im going to leave him alone a few times about he says no or he will contact me and doesn't is he string me along... and i dont text him everyday maybe 3days then a week time frames like that. he has said he missed me and that he likes me only when i say it tho. what do u think should i give it a chance —
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Thanks for asking but IDK how to answer this.. Sure you CAN try.. But dont invest your energy or time especially when you don't know where he stands. Just see what happens I guess..
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I'm a Cancer that's been with a Cap for most of my adult life. The early years were pretty rough, a lot of power struggles, and the fights were insane and would go on until we were both so exhausted that we just fell asleep. It would have been so easy back then just to give up, but one of us (and usually both of us) always kept working to make things right. Since we've learned to communicate effectively and trust one another (that takes a good long while) the relationship is amazing. When a Cap loves you and let's you in it's the safest place in the world to be. I still have my own shell that I crawl into from time to time, but most days he's sort of my protective outer layer.
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Posted by PerceptiveSymmetry
I'm a Cancer that's been with a Cap for most of my adult life. The early years were pretty rough, a lot of power struggles, and the fights were insane and would go on until we were both so exhausted that we just fell asleep. It would have been so easy back then just to give up, but one of us (and usually both of us) always kept working to make things right. Since we've learned to communicate effectively and trust one another (that takes a good long while) the relationship is amazing. When a Cap loves you and let's you in it's the safest place in the world to be. I still have my own shell that I crawl into from time to time, but most days he's sort of my protective outer layer.
I am smiling while reading your post!

Yes it can be rough. Going true a " cold shoulder " moment from him at this moment. Yes, sometimes a bit of a power struggle. I am normally quite dominant but for some reason i like that he is taking the lead. But sometimes i have to say something that i am not agreeing with him and than BAM....---> the cold shoulder
Its been going on for 5 days.
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I'm a Cancer that's been with a Cap for most of my adult life. The early years were pretty rough, a lot of power struggles, and the fights were insane and would go on until we were both so exhausted that we just fell asleep. It would have been so easy back then just to give up, but one of us (and usually both of us) always kept working to make things right. Since we've learned to communicate effectively and trust one another (that takes a good long while) the relationship is amazing. When a Cap loves you and let's you in it's the safest place in the world to be. I still have my own shell that I crawl into from time to time, but most days he's sort of my protective outer layer.
Do you have any advice to share regarding my cappy?
We are casually dating (not exclusively, although I'm the only person he is currently seeing)
I am preettty sure we are heading into bf/gf territory in the next few months.

I have never ever ever felt SO COMFORTABLE and so understood so quickly by anyone except my female best friend (who is a cap)
and the sex is phenomenal. so loving and passionate.



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I see these two signs paired A LOT, whether it's best friends or lovers, I see it everywhere!! I thought they we're supposed to clash... opposites attract and all that but I don't see as many other sign opposites together as much as these guys. Every cancer I know either has a Capricorn partner or close friend. Thoughts?
it's opposite ATTRACTS.

its all the sun signs pairings they all have opposite attracts in the chart. whether in the sun or moon or mars ect.

you get deeper in astrology and it's THERE...and if you dont see it in placements, the more "hidden and secret" are the houses. like having sun in 6th will be married to a Pisces sun, or a sun in 8th will be married to Scorpio sun. and the list goes on.
theres not much opposites going with our signs actually, we're very similar.
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I think so too.
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I had a Cancer gf when I was 21. She was a few years younger. She used to cry a lot from little things that I did that she perceived as slights. As a young cap, I wasn't sure how to handle that kind of over emotionality. I like Cancer moon as a placement so I wouldn't close the door on the sun.

I think for both, it's a high risk, high reward proposition (the water sign conundrum lol). It can be amazing or a complete shit show where cheap shots are graded on effect..and there's also Cardinal competition to account for.

For example:

Cancer friend Erin: "Hey what's up? Are you going to watch the Superbowl? The Broncos are in it!"

Me: "I might work instead. I'm a Pats fan."

Her: *with straight face out of nowhere* "I knew there was a reason I hated you."

Me: *Me with wtf look on my face after getting a slight tingle in the feels*

Her: "You should come by, we're a having a little get together with close friends and I hope you can stop by."

Reminds me of CC a little bit..Cancer toughness combined with softness..stab you in the eye and then dress your wound lol


Ouch!
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Been with a Cap woman for longer than I care to admit. At first it was relatively horrible, but over time I got to the point where I just ignore about 75% of what she say's and don't let it bother me at all. Used to have the ability to make me angry, not much of anything she says phases me at all. They are pretty negative people, I will say that. Debbie downers much of the time. But it can work because both signs crave stability - particularly financially.
You sound bored and indifferent............
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I'm a Cancer that's been with a Cap for most of my adult life. The early years were pretty rough, a lot of power struggles, and the fights were insane and would go on until we were both so exhausted that we just fell asleep. It would have been so easy back then just to give up, but one of us (and usually both of us) always kept working to make things right. Since we've learned to communicate effectively and trust one another (that takes a good long while) the relationship is amazing. When a Cap loves you and let's you in it's the safest place in the world to be. I still have my own shell that I crawl into from time to time, but most days he's sort of my protective outer layer.
Do you have any advice to share regarding my cappy?
We are casually dating (not exclusively, although I'm the only person he is currently seeing)
I am preettty sure we are heading into bf/gf territory in the next few months.

I have never ever ever felt SO COMFORTABLE and so understood so quickly by anyone except my female best friend (who is a cap)
and the sex is phenomenal. so loving and passionate.



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Just do you. I tend to wear a lot of different hats with people, mirror a little too much. I don't really let a lot of people know me. With my Cap I've always been 100% goofy, ridiculous, moody me. And in 18 years I can only remember one time where I thought he might give up. That was a time where I had to really take ownership of some of my actions in the marriage and really make an effort to make changes for my own growth as well as the growth of the relationship. Don't chase, don't play games, just enjoy the journey.