Cancer Vs. Capricorn battle

I want to ask you scorpion one question. Who do you prefer, a Capricorn or a cancer?

I ask this because I am a cancer (female) who likes a Scorpio (male). By his body language (and my womanly intuition) I think he likes me. However, he dated a Capricorn for like two months (but now have been broken up for over a year) she comes around now-and-again and every time she's around its like I don't exist but, when she's not he comes running back to me flirting, staring and being close to me. Now I'm getting annoyed of all this.
Again I'm a cancer. Thanks 🙂

Capricorn has something a lot of crabs don't a thirst for power. Dominant vs. Passive attitudes. However more and more I would hate to base a relationship off a zodiac sign. Describe your personality, his,and hers. We need details. !!!! I'm a cap male btw. I have insight but I want to cater towards the specific situation,not signs.

I am very humours and I love a good laugh. I tell corny jokes all the time which he would laugh at. he is always staring at me from his desk (btw we work in an office) and would lightly touch the middle of my back everytime
he walks behind me.
We would talk about childhood he even told me why he and the cappy ex broke up (it was because she was not as passionate as he was romantically)
She (the cap) is also humours and likes to laugh but she is a little bit of a pessimist, she is very hard working, which I admire about her. She used to work at the same office I and the Scorpio work at but she left and now visits for time to time. Is that enough of a backstory for you Frostey91

How is it showing that "you don't exist" when she is around? If I'd suspect that I am the safe bet and am only interesting when this other woman isn't around, I'd be already gone. Might be the leo moon.

Why must we torture those poor scorps with those signs?

Anyway, as long as there is no hope of them getting back together, you have him, which what really matters, right?

Never compete for the attention of a man. Period. Either come out and ask him how he feels or deal with it. Caps n Cancers both have amazing qualities that would suit a Scorp dude perfect.

Traditionally, Cancer is hailed as the best match for a Scorpio male but outside influences could change that real quick. Ask him directly or miss out.

I kind of get the vibe that most scorps would prefer a cancer partner than a capricorn one.

But as they already told you, the small differences in their entire chart could easily make a scorp more compatible with a cap or a cancer.

I should know, my sister is cancer and she's so innocent and gullible it's annoying to me, and I've met some other cancer women that I perceive similarly.

Then again one of my best friends is a cancer dude, so who knows? lol

Posted by Reincarnation
Cancer, without a doubt.

Capricorns are too boring, calculating, and easy. Also lack idealism. Life is too short for that.

It's really hard to lump all caps in the same spot like you did you know?, I'm Jan 18 and been told I'm Cap/Aquarius and I'm pretty talkative and weird for a cap.

Cancer moon and cancer ascendant makes me look very approachable for everyone, or so it appears to me.

I don't know what you meant by idealism :o lol

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Posted by Reincarnation
Cancer, without a doubt.

Capricorns are too boring, calculating, and easy. Also lack idealism. Life is too short for that.

It's really hard to lump all caps in the same spot like you did you know?, I'm Jan 18 and been told I'm Cap/Aquarius and I'm pretty talkative and weird for a cap.

Cancer moon and cancer ascendant makes me look very approachable for everyone, or so it appears to me.

I don't know what you meant by idealism :o lol

Totally
My cap father is a gregarious man n followed n sought by many. Freinds, of all ages even my age. He is funny , talkative , outgoing n spontaneous.

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is he by any chance near my birthday? sounds like an aquarius/cap cusp like myself

This scorp girl friend of mine is dating this other guy who's a cap, but he's very serious and quiet, almost never speaks a word at all.

She's very happy with him tho, he seems like a great guy, but he's soooo quiet it drives me crazy lol, when I try to make small talk with him.

Posted by Reincarnation
Cancer, without a doubt.

Capricorns are too boring, calculating, and easy. Also lack idealism. Life is too short for that.

KICK ROCKS!!!

you lack life experience and astrology insight to make such a shallow statement. i'm a cap with neptune dominant in the love and passion department. i'm way more romantic and idealistic than many water signs can dream of. As you should know, it's a challenge for those pisces chicks with aries venus air/fire mars to to sweeter than honey like myself when in the mood lol

i have said all those things your pisces sweetie said to you and far more to my scorp hubby and he told me how much he loves me every morning after all these years. He is my soul mate the white light and I to him. So, to him, a cancer or any woman in fact, is nothing, for the rest of his life.

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Why must we torture those poor scorps with those signs?

..lol

Posted by Reincarnation
Cancer, without a doubt.

Capricorns are too boring, calculating, and easy. Also lack idealism. Life is too short for that.

Now I've stated my personal experiences around here on Caps, but by no means are they what you describe.
I have a great deal of respect for the Caps I know. What you describe would make one think you are somewhat threatened by their intelligence, success and stability. No surprise you'd choose a Cancer, in which you could control and manipulate.
Caps are way too smart for that childish behavior. 😉

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Posted by Reincarnation
Cancer, without a doubt.

Capricorns are too boring, calculating, and easy. Also lack idealism. Life is too short for that.

KICK ROCKS!!!

you lack life experience and astrology insight to make such a shallow statement. i'm a cap with neptune dominant in the love and passion department. i'm way more romantic and idealistic than many water signs can dream of. As you should know, it's a challenge for those pisces chicks with aries venus air/fire mars to to sweeter than honey like myself when in the mood lol

i have said all those things your pisces sweetie said to you and far more to my scorp hubby and he told me how much he loves me every morning after all these years. He is my soul mate the white light and I to him. So, to him, a cancer or any woman in fact, is nothing, for the rest of his life.

Lol, insecure much?

You know you hit someone's nerve when they get personal😆

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you have aries venus or something lol? it was not meant to be a personal attack so there is no need to get personal lol. i am responding to you this one time because i don't want to hurt your feeling. enjoy your sunday little fish :-). btw, when a stranger posts on a forum sharing their real life experience, it's nothing personal lol. i think the OP is sweet and a good scorp actually lol

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Posted by Reincarnation
Cancer, without a doubt.

Capricorns are too boring, calculating, and easy. Also lack idealism. Life is too short for that.

KICK ROCKS!!!

i have said all those things your pisces sweetie said to you and far more to my scorp hubby and he told me how much he loves me every morning after all these years. He is my soul mate the white light and I to him. So, to him, a cancer or any woman in fact, is nothing, for the rest of his life.

I'm happy for you.

There's good traits to be sure - very loyal, values family, practical.

Overall they respond well to Scorpionic energy. I've lived with two Capricorns for eighteen years.

But I need a woman with softer edges. I don't need a partner in crime. And idealism - call it na??vet? - to make this life worth living.

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i'm happy for you too :-)

my point was it's far more than the sun sign. i'm surrounded by capricorns myself and none of them understand or appreciate my scorp's sensitivity like i do. they think i'm an alien also but they haven't seen that much of the real me. i tried so hard to help my cap bff of 20 years to understand water men when she was dating one but i ended up just told her to move on. it was not for her or her emotional health.

my scorp is actually the more practical one in our household lol. i would come up with fantasies and idealistic dreams and he would shut half of them down as nicely as he could to not hurt my feelings lol. i love the way he does it. the way he caters to my feelings when he says no. so attractive and sweet

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Posted by Reincarnation
Cancer, without a doubt.

Capricorns are too boring, calculating, and easy. Also lack idealism. Life is too short for that.

KICK ROCKS!!!

you lack life experience and astrology insight to make such a shallow statement. i'm a cap with neptune dominant in the love and passion department. i'm way more romantic and idealistic than many water signs can dream of. As you should know, it's a challenge for those pisces chicks with aries venus air/fire mars to to sweeter than honey like myself when in the mood lol

i have said all those things your pisces sweetie said to you and far more to my scorp hubby and he told me how much he loves me every morning after all these years. He is my soul mate the white light and I to him. So, to him, a cancer or any woman in fact, is nothing, for the rest of his life.

Lol, insecure much?

You know you hit someone's nerve when they get personal😆

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I was thinking this, too! How does Rein's opinion of his own preference relate to how another scorpio might prefer things? Is she afraid that if too many Scorpios state that they prefer a water sign over an earth sign that it means her own scorpio could ditch her someday? Not a lot of faith there! o.O

It's no use to fight over who's better for a scorp lol

remember that there's so many other variables than just sun sign alone.

My opinion?

I think Scorpios and Cancers can do great couples, just as much as Scorpios and Capricorns.

I believe I've met MANY couples of both pairings in many ocassions.

Personally, the cancer women I've met I've never found myself attracted too (which is kind of weird), they're too much of a good person and gullible (please cancer women take no offense, I think you're great people overall).

But I need a woman that commands power, uh... a woman that can make me get on my knees for her if she asks (or orders, whatever), I don't know if I'm wording this correctly.

Scorpio women command power, they just look at me with those sexy eyes of theirs and can make me jump if they want, and I love it.

All my placements are cancer and capricorn (exception being Aries mars, which makes me quite angry easily but also forget it quite fast).

Posted by CapricornLord
It's no use to fight over who's better for a scorp lol

remember that there's so many other variables than just sun sign alone.

My opinion?

I think Scorpios and Cancers can do great couples, just as much as Scorpios and Capricorns.

I believe I've met MANY couples of both pairings in many ocassions.

Personally, the cancer women I've met I've never found myself attracted too (which is kind of weird), they're too much of a good person and gullible (please cancer women take no offense, I think you're great people overall).

But I need a woman that commands power, uh... a woman that can make me get on my knees for her if she asks (or orders, whatever), I don't know if I'm wording this correctly.

Scorpio women command power, they just look at me with those sexy eyes of theirs and can make me jump if they want, and I love it.

All my placements are cancer and capricorn (exception being Aries mars, which makes me quite angry easily but also forget it quite fast).

Personally I don't like cuckhold males.
And I don't see a lot of Cancer women attracting or wanting them either.
I like my men strong, decisive and dominant.
But I do see Scorpio women being into them.

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Posted by Reincarnation
Cancer, without a doubt.

Capricorns are too boring, calculating, and easy. Also lack idealism. Life is too short for that.

KICK ROCKS!!!

i have said all those things your pisces sweetie said to you and far more to my scorp hubby and he told me how much he loves me every morning after all these years. He is my soul mate the white light and I to him. So, to him, a cancer or any woman in fact, is nothing, for the rest of his life.

I'm happy for you.

There's good traits to be sure - very loyal, values family, practical.

Overall they respond well to Scorpionic energy. I've lived with two Capricorns for eighteen years.

But I need a woman with softer edges. I don't need a partner in crime. And idealism - call it na??vet? - to make this life worth living.

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I like this.

capricorns are a better match for lady yin. i have nothing against cancers. they are sweet people but their emotions can be a bit much to handle. —————_. no one is perfect. caps have their negative sides too, but we seem to get along better.