Cancer guy inlove with pisces girl

Long story short,we had relationship for year,and she left me for another guy,but i never forgot her,i still love her,last week she texted me she made a mistake and she wants to meet me and see if we can work things out,the thing is,now i like in uk and she does in germany,i bought tickets and i'm going to see her,the thing is,she still didn't leave that guy for now,when i come she will leave him,if we will work things out,the thing is,i'm risking alot now,i'm leaving my country,and i'm leaving basicly everything i have for her,because i love her that much,i would stay in her country and wouldn't go back if we decide so,but i also want to know will she take the risk,ussualy i don't take risks like this,but i'm so inlove with her,i forgive and love her,i'll risk everything for love,i just doubt she will do the same,water signs are rly careful about things like that,sudden changes,but i would do it,for her,and for myself.because when she left i felt emty till now,was alive,but not living.she completes me.we need no words when we are together...perfect couple,even she said so. don't know what to do,any advise or option would be apprciated. also i don't want to confront her,because knowing her she will get scared and run away,whats the best option to approach this?
her signs are
Rising Sign is in 23 Degrees Cancer
Sun is in 29 Degrees Pisces.
Moon is in 28 Degrees Aquarius.
Mercury is in 10 Degrees Pisces.
Venus is in 18 Degrees Aries.
Mars is in 14 Degrees Cancer.
Jupiter is in 11 Degrees Libra.
Saturn is in 25 Degrees Aquarius.
Uranus is in 21 Degrees Capricorn.
Neptune is in 20 Degrees Capricorn.
Pluto is in 25 Degrees Scorpio.
N. Node is in 15 Degrees Sagittarius.

mine are

Rising Sign is in 16 Degrees Virgo
Sun is in 00 Degrees Cancer.
Moon is in 15 Degrees Sagittarius.
Mercury is in 05 Degrees Cancer.
Venus is in 08 Degrees Leo.
Mars is in 21 Degrees Taurus.
Jupiter is in 04 Degrees Scorpio.
Saturn is in 12 Degrees Pisces.
Uranus is in 25 Degrees Capricorn.
Neptune is in 22 Degrees Capricorn.
Pluto is in 25 Degrees Scorpio.
N. Node is in 23 Degrees Scorpio.

She said she made a mistake, why should you jump through hoops for her when she's the one that left you for another guy?

If she was really sincere and genuine in admitting that she's made a mistake in leaving you, then she should fly over to see you..but she's not doing that is she? She's still with her current guy and if things work out..she'll leave him. That seems to me like she's not fully committed to the idea of the two of you together and that's a huge risk to take.

I've dated a Cancer guy for 12 + years and we both mutually decided to end the relationship, every now and then I get nostalgic about the past when my ex would make contact with me..but that was it... just nostalgia. Which in the end may just be what your ex is going through.

Good Luck

She is doing it again the same thing. Two guys at once she has not learnt a thing.

She will never learn.

Posted by Pisces1803
She said she made a mistake, why should you jump through hoops for her when she's the one that left you for another guy?

If she was really sincere and genuine in admitting that she's made a mistake in leaving you, then she should fly over to see you..but she's not doing that is she? She's still with her current guy and if things work out..she'll leave him. That seems to me like she's not fully committed to the idea of the two of you together and that's a huge risk to take.

I've dated a Cancer guy for 12 + years and we both mutually decided to end the relationship, every now and then I get nostalgic about the past when my ex would make contact with me..but that was it... just nostalgia. Which in the end may just be what your ex is going through.

Good Luck

thats real talking...you're right...but i have tickets alrdy,we gna meet and see what happens..we will only have 3days to see each other,after that i'll tell her,i love her and i want to be with her,but i will not be the 3rd person in her life,i'll ask what does she want and how does she picture her life ,with me or with him in 10 20years,i'll tell her to be happy and decide what she want's ,i know you pisces don't like confrontation,but i have to do it, i'll give her time to think about it,if she wants to be with me she has to make the decision, i would come to her,but i will def not be the only one that jumps for things...if she will rly want to be with me,she will decide to be with me, at the end of the day, all i care about is her happyness, thats how cancers are,ofc it will be hard for me, but at least i'll know she's happy and i'll be happy for her, im amazed how some people just can go from relationship to relationship,while i have to wait for a long time to lick my wounds to start something 🙂 damn,must have been hard breaking up after 12years, he should have been a huge part of your life..i'm rly interested,how good was the relationship?what challenges?why did you both decided to end it ? 🙂

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Posted by Pisces1803
Hi Rakac,

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sorry for that, i'm new in this forum,didn't know i needed to enable it,waiting for the message,thank you! 🙂

Posted by SensitiveBlues
Dude. I'm sorry.

Tell us what happens!

it's ok,relationship fell apart because of distance, i'll find out how she feels about me and how i feel around her when she has done thing like this to meet soon,going there on march 4,wish me luck ;]

You sound needy as shit.

Posted by SensitiveBlues

Posted by Magenta_Azure
You sound needy as shit.

Don't you have random dick to suck?

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Not today. Thanks for asking.

Definitely leave her alone.

Well as sad as it is,it's never 1person's foult,when she left me , there was 1 month when i wasn't around, i had to go to another country because of the family problems, but we kept talking and everythin seemed ok untill she started geting distant...i got scared and asked whats up she said it's notin,next day she called crying and said sorry,she kissed one guy and as soon as she realised what she has done she ran to her room and started crying,told me she needed me by her side,forever,after that she got more distant and distant,but 2weeks later she got so distant and said it to me that she has a guy,and i was coming back,when i came back she wasn't around anymore.....that 1month was hard for her without me, i always supported her and her dreams, i was always with her when she needed me,but in that moth,there was a breakdown for her,she needed me ,but i couldn't be there, that guy came out out of nowhere and made her feel better, when she needed someone,that guy was there and i wasn't...the things is ,i have huge empathy for people, i can feel them as if i were in their pants....sometimes empathy is so strong that i even forget myself and make others more important than me,without realising it,but i'm not denying it,she is more imporant for me than myself, if i would act with my head and not my heart i would def not do what i'm doing,because what she did was rly rly disgusting and bad, but i think people deserve a second chance, that being said, i don't know how will his play out,i'll tell y guys when i come back from her . 🙂 when i love, i'm all in, i'm risking all for my dreams and love, thats the way i'm , she is dreamer, i have visions and persistance, to achieve things,we were great when we were together, she had plenty ideas ,i had visions, with my help we both reached for them, living was like living a dream as long as we were together,only some conflicts here and there,but life was unreal 🙂 wish me luck ;]