Candle Girl, aka KennyG, etc. etc.

I girlfriend havent heard from you for awhile. Whats the happs? Was your Christmas good, mine was. How was your new year?? I was at the hospitol with my son that night, he is alright now though.

Post and let me know what you have been up to ok.
TW2

You will always be Candle Girl to me,

Ah yes the hospitol thing, I have a post about it on the music board (I think) of all things. Anyway he could not go to the bathroom (urinate) at all for some reason. So I took him to a medical office. They put a cath. in him over night and removed it the next morning. He still could not go so back we went new years eve to the hospitol (at 8:30 that night). They put in another cath. but only left this one in for about three hours. There was no organic reason they could find for the problem, but they put him on three different meds anyway. It worked and he was doing his business just fine the next day. We have an ultrasound scheduled the 16th, and he will be seeing a urologist on the 24th of this month.

We still dont know just what or why it happened, but surely we will be able to get some answers from the specialist. Thanks for asking, but am I sure glad it is over. I felt just awful for him as what they had to do was painful.

I am still taking care of my mom, just not as much now. She has gotten a little stronger and I am grateful for that. I got my son a new compute tower for christmas, and he loves it. It is set up for a serious gammer, he says it kicks butt!

Everything is pretty quiet per usual around here, not much going on lately. Just getting ready to start a night class about careen planning. To get me ready to get back into the work scene. It will be good for me to go back to work soon as I miss doing something useful.

Well I gotta run and finish my food shopping list before my better half gets back with the car. Talk to you later ok. TA! TA! TW2

Wow I must be tired lately, lots of typos. sorry. It was supposed to be Hi Girlfriend, and I got my son a new computer tower for christmas, And it is a class in career planning. Sorry for all the mistakes.

TW2

Hi Linda the LEEBRA/Candlegirl

I like your opinion that perfection doesn't live here, yup it works for me!

It finally stopped raining so much here, the break is nice. I am getting ready to go through a career class that gets you ready to go back to work. You know the interview techniques and stuff. It should help alot as I have been home for over a year now.

I have had a couple of rough days because of an accident that happened to a friend of my sons while he was visiting us. I posted about it on the cancer board under the post Helooooo etc. If you want to read it to come up to speed on what I am talking about you can.

To tell a little the boy's eye was injured severely by a paintball gun at close range. The eye has been damaged beyond repair, but there was no brain damage and he lived through it thank god.

He was brought to me right after it happened and we called an ambulance. I am still pretty shook up over it all, and had bad dreams last night about it. He is only about twelve years old, its so sad. He was looking down the barrel of his gun because it jammed when it went off in his face. My son was standing a few feet from him when it happened. Anyway it was something I wish so much had never occured at all as his life has been forever changed now due to the accident. My son was warning him not to look into the gun like that when it just went off. I am proud of how he helped his little friend and that he stayed calm through the ordeal. I was just shaking badly after the parametics took him to the hospitol.

It still seems so unreal, like it was just a bad dream. There was blood everywere and he was in so much pain. I felt so helpless, but tried to help him stay calm and not panic after he saw what the gun had done to his eye.

So thats how the past three days have gone for me. I cant bring myself to go visit him in the hospitol and I dont know why. I guess I feel responsible because it happened at my home. But I did not even know he had brought the gun with him. His grandmother (who he lives with) had told him not to bring it and I guess he disobeyed her and took it anyway.

Talk about learning a hard lesson, man I am still so upset and sad for him.

Well I think I will close for now as I just cant talk anymore right now.

TW2

Hi Candlegirl,

I will most likely go for a job in an office as most of my experience is in that field.

I am feeling better about things after the accident. Shawn may be able to recieve a donor eye as his retenal nerve is still intact in the back of his eye. That makes me feel alot better let me tell you.

It is a beautiful day here all sunny and bright, not to hot or cold. I think I will go outside and read for awhile so I will talk to you a little later ok. Gotta go catch some rays TW2