How do you gain back the interest of a gemini?

I've read endless articles about how the male gemini mind is always on the go, and you have to constantly be interesting. They hate to feel tied down. If you play hard to get or make yourself less availible will that keep him interested?

Lol...karma sure is a bitch.

Just live your life and if he comes around great, whatever... if he doesn't who cares right? You were too good for him anyway 😄.

You can assume the facade of being 'hard to get', but once they get you, they will probably lose interest. To keep a Gemini in the long run (as opposed to a notch on the bedpost), you have to (in their eyes) spectacular.

It's not about the games you play and/or how much you pretend to be something you're not in order to keep their interest, b/c it'll get old & be a never ending thing (since their attention spans are so short). The best policy is to be yourself & to just hope that they love who you are. If you show a Gemini all of you (different areas of your personality) & if they decide to be content with who you actually are, you won't have to do any work to keep them around b/c it'll be a natural attraction & a natural desire to stay on both ends.

Generally, though if you just want a Gemini for short-term use (to fill some kind of temporary void) then showing them all sides/areas of your personality is your best bet. Remember, Gemini is very observant & can easily spot fakers and/or people who seem to be trying too hard to impress them. Geminis are like everyone else, they want for everything to be natural & for everyone around them to be bold (like they are) in being themselves. And you have to let the Gemini decide if your personality is all they need to keep their minds on you. Playing those "hard to get" games are temporary & get old but being yourself & being who you really is longer than temporary & will last longer.

Hey. Thanks for the private message. I love fan mail... 😄

Karma is still a bitch. But luckily for you - not a bigger bitch than you. ♥

Was that a threat by the way? Are you going to e-beat me up?

dont chase him

you forget about him and find someone better. it won't be hard.

All you gotta do is be intelligent, flirt with him, and keep it interesting, never boring. It's not rocket science people. Or maybe it is for some. Gemini men will study you, and understand you in a flash. If it seems like the person isn't very interesting, then POOF! But, at least we care enough to study the person before we judge. We just are faster than anyone else at doing it. It comes across as aloof, and flighty. None are true by the way. People who say that prove my point time and time again. Care enough to understand the Gem male and you will have the best lover and friend in you life. Or you can believe the self-proclaimed "Forums" here. Either way, it takes a woman to be with a Gem male. And not an emotional one. YIKES!!

GM

People tend to dismiss Gems with phrases like not "Normal-Acting". It's dismissive. I just posted a thread on the Gem board. Maybe it will help. There's a good reason for the hype Star. But, nobody's the same. You know this sista. The fish is know for their rigidity, and reality problems. But, I know you got that Aqua in ya Star. Must drive you crazy. LOL!

We seem to suffer from the same probs. Me with the fishy's and you with the twins. My venus is in Taurus. With that Bull moon too. I think that the fish know a stable Gem when they see one. I mean sense. 😉 Also, we Chi-town folk are on a whole different level than most. Let us not forget that. And, yes I'm "Alright".

Cameo?! I'm there! Maybe buy you a glass a vino at the Signature Room.