How easy is for you to move on?

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by libralotus on Saturday, April 30, 2016 and has 11 replies.

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@libralotus
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Whenever you know someone isn't for you how long does it take for you to move on and get over it?

For me I tend to linger around way too long because it's familiar. I can recognize fairly early that it's not going anywhere but I have a hard time giving up on romances. I'm usually the one dumped because I can't bring myself to break up with someone despite understanding that it's not working out.

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@arose32
11 Years500+ Posts

OMG same here... It's takes me forever to move on. Well, from only three people... Three girls, but it's because they continuously hit me up... I suck at shutting them out, but getting better at it.

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
How?

Isn't it obvious? Leave, do not wait in a limbo! You are wasting your time, which for women is even more precious than for men!

Besides, getting dumped, even by someone you don't fancy too much anymore, is far worse than leaving. Your ego will need longer to recover.

Be smart and treat yourself well. That is what I've learned.

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@arose32
11 Years500+ Posts

But.. Don't feel bad.
I'd rather relax. Some people jump from person to person to fill the voids... I'd rather face it head on and move on ... Then be with someone because I'm lonely. I'm noticing so many people together but not in love etc... I'd rather let myself completely heal.

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@jane84
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Depends:
If I loved them: then a year or more. :/

But if I didn't and we just dated weeks/months but never said I love you and we both realize it's not going to work: a day.. Maybe 2.

My divorce taught me not to dwell on someone you know it's not going to work with long term. Just move on.. See the red flags early and let go.

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@CreatingChaos505
10 Years

depends on how long the relationship.

short-term? like a year or two? not that long.

anything over the 3 year mark takes awhile to get over.