how to impress a Virgo

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by joanne_p on Wednesday, November 23, 2016 and has 7 replies.

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@joanne_p
9 Years

ok, hello.🙂

this is going to be a bit weird. i am aries. there is a virgo man that i had an affair with a year ago. since then he was once asked to hang out with him when he saw i was not a partygirl type but more intellectual type, hard worker. it was during the job weve made together.

he is a very intelligent guy comes from a good family but he changed for worse a few years ago. he had been in a relationship 3 years ago and he changed for a bad boy-ish style .

since then he had a lot of 'female friends' hookups and so one.

he met me 2 years ago. i was totally different than his friends- more subtle, more feminine. he had a crush on me- i had on him as well. we had an affair but it didnt last too long because we both pulled away. and since then i cant give him out of my head and he as well does not want to loose me from his life. even if he has other female friends as well.

i see when we are together he doesnt treat me like others. i am his age, i know what i want. i am experienced at university , before in relationships, i had some drama in my life before as well. i am not 'clean' , 'fresh'. i know art and stuff, i am i think intelligent, i study architecture, i am interested in music, any kind of art and so one. but there is a problem because i think before he treated me like a stupid girl.

that he could help- i know virgo are servers but you know- he has a lot of his female friends who he helps not being with them. i didnt want to be on the same level as them. so i pushed forward with my work, with my career, with my school and he saw that.

right now after 1 year after separation i see he doesnt look at me like it was before. i feel like i gained value in his eyes and he finds me more independent and more intellectual- on similar level.

BUT sometimes i see that he is scared of me.

when i want to accomplish something i usually start to be selfish, stubborn and stuff. he is usually calm with the same face- he plans a lot before.

i can do 10 things at once and i succeed. the problem is- i wanna get back with him again but still dont know what tactic to take. i know he has a lot of artistic friends, girls who study at fine arts school and so one and are about 20 yo.

i am older but i think i dont show myself as a valuable person.

i dont wanna be like other even younger girls. i wanna be like myself , more mature and intelligent but funny and nice.

how to do it/

he sees i am doing what i want. i am stubborn but whenever i approach him and even ask him out he 1stly says yes then doesnt appear like he wouldnt respect me. or he says he would come and he wouldnt.

but when i am with someone else he gets jealous. like a dog in a manger thing.

i dont know what to think about it.

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@themagnetoreborn
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Pisces1803
She hooked up with a Virgo a year ago. Wants to know what to do to impress him and get him back @themagnetoreborn. lol

Ahh, you're too kind - thank you!

Sometimes I don't feel like reading huge walls of text.

OP - don't worry about "impressing" a Virgo; many Virgos prefer authenticity. Demonstrate that through whatever conversations you have with him over a period of time.