I punched a Pisces Sun Gemini moon guy in the face

PLEASE ANSWER! I KNOW I'VE TYPED A LOT, BUT ANY INFORMATION WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED. I punched a Pisces sun Gemini moon guy in the face, will he forgive me?


I'm so not proud of what I did, but friends tell me "good for you" when I tell them what happened. I wish I could take back what I did cos two wrongs don't make anything right. I actually felt like crying after I did it because I knew I physically hurt him.

I had been dating this guy for about 5 months. We'd spend every weekend together. We decided to spend Christmas together. I asked him if he wanted to spend it with me despite the fact he told me he wanted to, previously. I just wanted to confirm. So I asked him again, he said yes. I asked if he was sure, because if not a friend of mine was gonna take me upstate to spend it with his family, because I don't have family out here. So, Christmas Day I was on my way to his place, which is 17 miles away from mine. I had to take public transportation because I don't have a car. I had with me, a nice gift for him, a heavy overnight bag, a bag of milk and cookie dough and my purse. I was almost at his place when I text him gm and I'll be there by 12. He text me back and said he'll have to take a raincheck cos he woke up drunk in sm which is 13.5 miles away from his place. I said please tell me you're joking, it's Christmas. He said, I'm not joking, I'm still drunk, sorry, going back to sleep. Then I tried calling and he wouldn't answer. Since I was so close to his place I went there anyway and sat the stuff by his door, hoping he'd come. I walked around for hours like a bum, on the streets. Then I decided to go on Facebook to see something nice that'll clear my head. The first thing that popped up in my news feed was a picture he was tagged in of him having a great time, while I was walking the streets.

Long story short, I found out he was only 5 minutes away from his place, not 13.5 in sm. he was over his best friends house the whole time. Anyway, a friend came to get me. I drank and slept over her place. The next morning I had her take me back to his place to confront him. He tried to pretend like he wasn't home. I knew he'd make noise if he looked out the peephole and he did. I said I hear you, open the door. He wouldn't do it, at first. Then he started acting like I was in the wrong and talked to me in a way that he'd never done before, like I was garbage. I was so hurt and confused I slapped him....

He was so shocked, he said more mean things to me and I slapped him again. Then I asked him what I did to deserve what he did to me the day before (Christmas) he looked me in my face and said, "nothing." I grabbed his smokes and lit it in his place, he got so mad and snatched it out of my mouth and I lit another one. I was acting like a crazy person, I know. After I smoked it I punched him right in the eye, left and slammed his door. Then I felt so bad about it 6 days later and tried to apologize via email.. No reply. Then one more time the day before yesterday on FB. He read it but didn't reply.

He was always so sweet to me, cook for me, rub my feet, constantly tell me how amazing I am and how much he loves spending time with me. But there were times when he'd say he's not interested in a relationship, he needs to focus on his career. I'd say that's fine with me. Then he'd ask me to come over (not for sex, he never tried) but he'd always want to kiss and hold me and spend time laughing and joking with me. Then I'd go over and hang out with him and he would get mad at me for respecting his wishes and being fine with not wanting a relationship. He'd say, I felt that way in the moment, but my actions should show you that I want to be with you. He's done the back and forth thing about us having a relationship sooo many times. It was so confusing. He says he's a complex person and needs someone who'll understand him.

He has a Pisces Sun and Mercury, Gemini moon, Taurus Venus, Aries Mars. I know he has issues, but everyone needs someone. I want a friendship with him at the very least. Nothing more nothing less. I wouldn't want him as something more because he's obviously mentally and emotionally unstable and I deserve better. But I do want him as a friend.

Do you think he'll forgive me for what I did?

Why hasn't he deleted me from Facebook? (I even mentioned him deleting me in the apology email I sent him. I told him it's ok if he deletes me, don't keep me as a friend for the sake of my feelings)

Will he speak to me again? If so, how long will it take?

Should I send him something nice, or leave it along completely and wait for hi?

Is he done for good? If so, why not delete me from fb?
PLEASE ELABORATE! Thanks so much, in advance 🙂
I know some of you are gonna say leave it alone, he's a dick. You're right, he is a dick. A dick that's been through a lot of emotional abuse by his parents. And like I said, everyone needs someone.

I'm sensing... the Cardinal energy is strong in this one...

(Please don't be a Virgo... Please don't be a Virgo...)

Posted by Andalusia
I'm sensing... the Cardinal energy is strong in this one...

(Please don't be a Virgo... Please don't be a Virgo...)

So true! How did you know (cardinal energy)? And you said, "Please don't be a Virgo." Almost like I'm making myself look like a total fool and you're hoping that I'm not a Virgo so I don't make them look bad. Am I right? I hope not, lol.

Also, is there any info that you can give me about the situation above? Pretty pretty please? It hurts and I want it to go away.

Are you a Cancer? Or an Aries Mars?

You should leave him alone. Once you escalate to actually putting your hands on someone, there's no turning back.

Posted by auriqa
I bet ??2.77 and half a pack of gum that she's an Aries.

We're both right. She's an Aries with a Cancer Moon

XOXO - my advice would be to take up a sport. Preferably a vigorous, competitive, endurance based one.. Maybe something like marathon canoe racing. Or bouldering.. Something to focus your mind and burn off some of the shit-ton of extraneous aggressive energy you've got coursing through you on a constant basis.

Posted by feby16aqua
I think you definitely crossed some lines with him here and you need to leave him alone. Unhealthy relationship boundaries crossed. You slapped and punched him in the face? Just be glad he's not going to press charges against you or he didn't knock you out!! You can't go around hitting people!!

You're so right. I feel so bad and I'm ashamed of myself. I've NEVER put my hands on a man before. I don't even get into fights. I was so hurt by what happened and confused. I didn't know why he would do that and add salt to the wound. That NO excuse for what I did. I wish I could take it back. No one deserves to be hit. I don't understand how I could do that to someone, especially someone I care about. I know I crossed the lines with him and I'm pretty sure he feels the same way, but why won't he delete me from Facebook?

Posted by feby16aqua
The easiest path would be to let it go and move on. Find someone who is proud to be with you, who WANTS to spend Christmas with you. Someone who makes you feel good. You can take a lot from this experience.

That's the thing, he wanted me to go by his actions. He would always tell me that he shows me he wants to be with me by cooking for me and spending so much time with me etc. and when he says things like, he doesn't want to be in a relationship right now, to know that he only meant that in the moment. So I decided to go by his actions and out of the blue he stood me up on Christmas. He wouldn't even stand me up on a regular day, like the weekend, he chose Christmas. I don't get it. But I think you gave me the best advice. Thank you. I guess I'm just looking for answers to help me with closure.

No one will answer my question as to why he hasn't deleted me from Facebook.

Posted by Lucciferi
I'd be LIVID if you smoked MY cigarettes.

If I wasn't hurting so bad, I'd be laughing so hard at your comment. That was funny 🙂

I probably would have thrown the milk and cookie dough at him too.

Screw him.

This is by far the best thread I have read on DXP in months.

Its so funny but not so funny at the same time.

An Aries Sun vs an Aries Mars and it has already escalated to violence. Not a whole lotta places to go from here.

Since he is a Pisces, I would watch my back and Im very serious.

Posted by djbuck1
Will he forgive you? Will he talk to you again?

You're in Fantasy Land.

If he does, he deserves what he gets.

He should press charges, though most guys don't when assaulted by a female.

You obviously have serious self-control issues. You'd better get some professional help, or you'll eventually do this to a guy who will beat the hell out of you or turn you in to the police.

You sound like a real piece of work.

I deserved that. It brought tears to my eyes because it hurt hearing it and you're right. I don't have self-control issues though. That was the first time I'd done something like that. I'm so ashamed of myself. I wanted to confront him and I thought he would've at least apologized. Instead, he kept talking to me like I was nothing. That added salt to the wound. I didn't understand because he'd never acted that way towards me before. It hit me like a bomb and was a hard pill to swallow. I didn't understand where it all came from. We always had so much fun together. He would always hold me and try to spend every second he could with me when it would be time for me to leave. If I was out on the balcony smoking a cigarette he'd rush me, so he could hold me. If he was playing his video games he would stop in the middle of it to tell how amazing I am, just because. To be honest, some of his friends warned me about him before I got too close. I just didn't care what they had to say. I only cared about what he showed me. I'm not proud of what I did. I do want to see a counselor to see what went wrong and why I didn't control myself. I never thought that I would do something like that, so I want to get some help to make sure something like this never happens again.

Posted by djbuck1
The Facebook Thing? He's probably afraid that if he does you'll hunt him down and kick his ass.

Are you serious? Or is this a joke? In the email I sent him, I told him that I noticed he didn't delete me. I told him I wasn't sure if it's because he really doesn't care if I'm up there or not, or if he doesn't want to hurt my feelings. I told him it's fine if he wants to delete me, I deserve to be deleted. I even sent him another apology, the second time, via Facebook. He read it, but didn't reply and still didn't delete me.

Posted by BlackCanary

Posted by djbuck1
The Facebook Thing? He's probably afraid that if he does you'll hunt him down and kick his ass.

Yes. Or he wants you to know you fucked up with him and left you on his friends list to see that.

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I don't get it. I would see it more if he deleted me. By him leaving me in his friends list, it makes me think part of him still cares, or he want to stalk my page. Or both.

Im telling you as someone who grew up with 2 Pisces parents. He is somewhere practicing his alibi as we speak. Girl you better stay far far away from him.

Im sitting here thinking about all the Pisces I know and every single one would be coming for you. Especially since it wasn't a fair fight. You sucker punched him early in the morning probably before he even brushed his teeth.

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Posted by Nala13
This is by far the best thread I have read on DXP in months.

Its so funny but not so funny at the same time.

An Aries Sun vs an Aries Mars and it has already escalated to violence. Not a whole lotta places to go from here.

Since he is a Pisces, I would watch my back and Im very serious.

This.

Stop thinking about yourself for a second here. How does he feel right now? You sort of barge into his house and disrespected his place. You punched him.

Don't you think he's slightly angry? I would be more worried about what he might do rather than why he won't delete you on FB.

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I think BlackCanary is the only one who really understands... He hurt me emotionally and I hurt him physically. Yes, I think he's definitely pissed at what I did. I should've NEVER put my hands on him no matter how hurt I was. Not because of me, but because of him I shouldn't have. He's a human being and did not deserve to be hit. I think what he did was so coldhearted of him, but I should not have put my hands on him. I can't stress that enough. But it happened and I can't take it back. Wish I could, but I can't. All I can do is hope that I'll be forgiven and get some help for myself to make sure I never step out of character again.

Posted by BlackCanary
Honestly, he sounds like a scumbag. Yes, I do see that he was wonderful before but to leave you on a day that most wouldn't want to be alone is just rude and inconsiderate. He knew that too, don't think he didn't. Most Pisceans know what kind of drama they're causing before it happens.

Xoxo, you need to move on. It doesn't matter about Facebook or the past as this point. You have been emotionally hurt and he was physically hurt. This relationship isn't any good for any one now. You shouldn't be wasting your time on someone who can bring those emotions out in you and he, if he truly cared about you, wouldn't have provoked it.

Thank you for being so honest and understanding! I really appreciate it.

"I punched a Pisces sun Gemini moon guy in the face, will he forgive me?"



I did the same once, during a heated argument with my Pisces-Gem long term boyfriend. Not sure he forgave me. Firstly, he told his Libra mum about it. She said: "Good. You probably deserved it. Stop being so annoying to her!". Then, every time we watched TV and domestic violence was mentioned, he looked at me and said: "DOMESTIC. VIOLENCE." I replied with my Puss-in-Boots impression: "who...moi?"

Posted by Wynter
I probably would have thrown the milk and cookie dough at him too.

Screw him.

Sounds like you understand how I felt at the time and what I was going through.

Posted by xcake
Scum

Glob of yellow mucus on the sidewalk

Who, me?

Posted by Nala13
Im telling you as someone who grew up with 2 Pisces parents. He is somewhere practicing his alibi as we speak. Girl you better stay far far away from him.

Im sitting here thinking about all the Pisces I know and every single one would be coming for you. Especially since it wasn't a fair fight. You sucker punched him early in the morning probably before he even brushed his teeth.

He's not a violent person, at all.

Posted by XOXO2U

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Scum

Glob of yellow mucus on the sidewalk

Who, me?

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LMAO!!!

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Posted by djbuck1
The Facebook Thing? He's probably afraid that if he does you'll hunt him down and kick his ass.

Yes. Or he wants you to know you fucked up with him and left you on his friends list to see that.

I don't get it. I would see it more if he deleted me. By him leaving me in his friends list, it makes me think part of him still cares, or he want to stalk my page. Or both.

Because showing people you don't give a fuck hurts more than caring to delete. He'll continue to have a good time, go out with other girls, all while you can see that.

But like Nala said, it wasn't a fair fight. He might be ready to come back at you with something else. Just be prepared.

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He's not a violent person, even if he were he wouldn't wait all this time to be vindictive.

Posted by Undine
"I punched a Pisces sun Gemini moon guy in the face, will he forgive me?"



I did the same once, during a heated argument with my Pisces-Gem long term boyfriend. Not sure he forgave me. Firstly, he told his Libra mum about it. She said: "Good. You probably deserved it. Stop being so annoying to her!". Then, every time we watched TV and domestic violence was mentioned, he looked at me and said: "DOMESTIC. VIOLENCE." I replied with my Puss-in-Boots impression: "who...moi?"

So he still spoke to you after you punched him?

Leave that man and his FB page alone.

If he takes you back you will do it again. You resort to violence first. Thats who you are.

I would be scared to go to sleep in his presence.

Whats done is done.

@ands She is acting like a man so if he decides to treat her like one....hopefully he is the bigger person but Aint no such thing as halfway crooks. You either about that life or you are not.

Posted by XOXO2U

Posted by Nala13
Im telling you as someone who grew up with 2 Pisces parents. He is somewhere practicing his alibi as we speak. Girl you better stay far far away from him.

Im sitting here thinking about all the Pisces I know and every single one would be coming for you. Especially since it wasn't a fair fight. You sucker punched him early in the morning probably before he even brushed his teeth.

He's not a violent person, at all.

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I've thought about the consequences. In the apology email I sent him, I told him he can turn it in to the cops and I'll be honest with the cops, tell them exactly what I did and I'll face the consequences. I told him I deserve all the consequences I have coming my way. I'm not worried about my safety though. He's not a violent person. If anything, he'll hurt me more emotionally, or he'll do it the right way (by the law) and have me put in jail. But why would he take this long if he were trying to get revenge.

Posted by XOXO2U

Posted by Undine
"I punched a Pisces sun Gemini moon guy in the face, will he forgive me?"



I did the same once, during a heated argument with my Pisces-Gem long term boyfriend. Not sure he forgave me. Firstly, he told his Libra mum about it. She said: "Good. You probably deserved it. Stop being so annoying to her!". Then, every time we watched TV and domestic violence was mentioned, he looked at me and said: "DOMESTIC. VIOLENCE." I replied with my Puss-in-Boots impression: "who...moi?"

So he still spoke to you after you punched him?

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Of course he did, he was in love with me.

Disclaimer: I am not promoting domestic violence in any way!

Love and peace, love and peace!

Posted by Nala13
Leave that man and his FB page alone.

If he takes you back you will do it again. You resort to violence first. Thats who you are.

I would be scared to go to sleep in his presence.

Whats done is done.

@ands She is acting like a man so if he decides to treat her like one....hopefully he is the bigger person but Aint no such thing as halfway crooks. You either about that life or you are not.

That is not who I am and you're the only person on here that I refuse to take advice from. In my personal opinion, you sound like the violent type whose experienced a lot of it in your life. There are lots of things people have done and made certain mistakes only once in their life. That doesn't define who they are. I'm woman enough to admit I was wrong and to say I'm going to get the help I need to understand myself better and to make sure this thing that happened once in my life never happens again, despite the fact that I was hurt so bad.

Posted by tiziani
Meh, Pisces Sun Gemini Moon, I just had one try and embarrass me today for the nth time running. You just ask them what they are doing and they run off or start crying and everyone feels more pathetic for being involved in the whole thing. But if you take it as far as violence honestly I guess you made your own choice to be done with that, so accept it and move on.

I only understood the last sentence.

Posted by tiziani
Meh, Pisces Sun Gemini Moon, I just had one try and embarrass me today for the nth time running. You just ask them what they are doing and they run off or start crying and everyone feels more pathetic for being involved in the whole thing. But if you take it as far as violence honestly I guess you made your own choice to be done with that, so accept it and move on.

I only understood the last sentence.

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Posted by Undine
"I punched a Pisces sun Gemini moon guy in the face, will he forgive me?"



I did the same once, during a heated argument with my Pisces-Gem long term boyfriend. Not sure he forgave me. Firstly, he told his Libra mum about it. She said: "Good. You probably deserved it. Stop being so annoying to her!". Then, every time we watched TV and domestic violence was mentioned, he looked at me and said: "DOMESTIC. VIOLENCE." I replied with my Puss-in-Boots impression: "who...moi?"

So he still spoke to you after you punched him?

Of course he did, he was in love with me.

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How long did it take for him to speak to you again? Did you apologize?

Posted by djbuck1
Hey guys! If your feelings get hurt, it's now okay to get physical with a woman, or so say the Wise Women of DXP.

Screw all of you and your double standards. You're nothing but a bunch of sanctimonious hypocrites.

Seriously. If you physically harm someone out of a negative emotion, you need help. Who's to say it won't happen again to someone else? It's never okay to hit someone and I think you should really stop thinking about yourself for a minute. I didnt read anything after you said 'I punched him' because unless you're asking for places to get help there's really no need to ask anything else because who cares? You punched him. You should not be asking anything about him or if he'll forgive you, come back, etc. Leave him alone and get help for your anger and/or control issues.

Posted by djbuck1
Hey guys! If your feelings get hurt, it's now okay to get physical with a woman, or so say the Wise Women of DXP.

Screw all of you and your double standards. You're nothing but a bunch of sanctimonious hypocrites.

That's not okay at all. Violence of any kind is not ok. I'm ashamed of what I did. I was wrong!

Get over yourself. All you can think about is why he wont talk to you why he wont delete you. You are a violent psycho who went over his house when you knew he wasnt home. Walked around his neighborhood for hours. Then went somewhere had time to calm down and then went back to his house the next day. You convinced him to let you in after he didnt want to then assaulted him. You dont have to take advice from me. If you were a man who did this to a woman you would be dog walked around here.
I am so far from violent its not even something that I think about.

You are right about one thing...my mom use to beat the shit out if my dad and he never hit her back. So um yea I FSKW about this whole thing.

Posted by Nala13
Get over yourself. All you can think about is why he wont talk to you why he wont delete you. You are a violent psycho who went over his house when you knew he wasnt home. Walked around his neighborhood for hours. Then went somewhere had time to calm down and then went back to his house the next day. You convinced him to let you in after he didnt want to then assaulted him. You dont have to take advice from me. If you were a man who did this to a woman you would be dog walked around here.
I am so far from violent its not even something that I think about.

You are right about one thing...my mom use to beat the shit out if my dad and he never hit her back. So um yea I FSKW about this whole thing.

Are you reading the right thread? He knew she was coming over. Then he ditched her, lied, and left her out in the cold.

Posted by xcake
I wonder how he feels at the moment...

like a punk bitch

Posted by Nala13
Get over yourself. All you can think about is why he wont talk to you why he wont delete you. You are a violent psycho who went over his house when you knew he wasnt home. Walked around his neighborhood for hours. Then went somewhere had time to calm down and then went back to his house the next day. You convinced him to let you in after he didnt want to then assaulted him. You dont have to take advice from me. If you were a man who did this to a woman you would be dog walked around here.
I am so far from violent its not even something that I think about.

You are right about one thing...my mom use to beat the shit out if my dad and he never hit her back. So um yea I FSKW about this whole thing.

This sounds like potential stalker behavior and/or being overly possessive. I haven't read the full op but if this is actually how it happened then wow.

And yes, if roles were reversed and she was a guy punching a girl, could you imagine? No one would be giving her any solid advice except for 'you're horrible' 'you need to get help' 'you don't deserve her' 'you're endangering her by being around her'. Yet when a girl punches a guy? Nah, no big deal.

Posted by Nala13
Get over yourself. All you can think about is why he wont talk to you why he wont delete you. You are a violent psycho who went over his house when you knew he wasnt home. Walked around his neighborhood for hours. Then went somewhere had time to calm down and then went back to his house the next day. You convinced him to let you in after he didnt want to then assaulted him. You dont have to take advice from me. If you were a man who did this to a woman you would be dog walked around here.
I am so far from violent its not even something that I think about.

You are right about one thing...my mom use to beat the shit out if my dad and he never hit her back. So um yea I FSKW about this whole thing.

I went over his house to put the heavy stuff down. Didn't want to take it with me. I did not walk around his neighborhood. I went somewhere nearby where there are lots of stores, restaurants, bars, people etc. instead of going home to sit inside. Why are you even commenting. I think you should find another message board to comment on. You sound like the type of person who constantly gets into arguments with people. I already told you, you're the only person on here who I refuse to take advice from and you're commenting. You sound like the psycho.

No Wynter he told her not to come and she said since she was almost there she decided to not turn around. She decided to leave the stuff at his door and walk around for hours. These were her decisions and her choices. She left herself out in the cold.

Canceling a date even at the last minute does not warrant 2 slaps and a right hook to the eye. No way in Hell.

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Posted by Nala13
Get over yourself. All you can think about is why he wont talk to you why he wont delete you. You are a violent psycho who went over his house when you knew he wasnt home. Walked around his neighborhood for hours. Then went somewhere had time to calm down and then went back to his house the next day. You convinced him to let you in after he didnt want to then assaulted him. You dont have to take advice from me. If you were a man who did this to a woman you would be dog walked around here.
I am so far from violent its not even something that I think about.

You are right about one thing...my mom use to beat the shit out if my dad and he never hit her back. So um yea I FSKW about this whole thing.

Are you reading the right thread? He knew she was coming over. Then he ditched her, lied, and left her out in the cold.

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Thank you!

Posted by Nala13
No Wynter he told her not to come and she said since she was almost there she decided to not turn around. She decided to leave the stuff at his door and walk around for hours. These were her decisions and her choices. She left herself out in the cold.

Canceling a date even at the last minute does not warrant 2 slaps and a right hook to the eye. No way in Hell.

But don't you think it was a shitty thing for him to do?

It was planned, and she had to go a long way to meet him. I don't blame her for being mad.

Posted by xcake
For a second I thought, maybe he felt pressured to spend Christmas with you because you kept asking him and told him you will spend Christmas with another boy if anything.

He might have felt manipulated.

Do you think you manipulate each other?

No. I never told him it was another guy that I was gonna spend it with. Maybe he assumed, but he was right if he did make that assumption. I never try to manipulate him, but he might've felt pressured into it like you said. It's weird because it was his idea for us to spend Christmas together from the beginning. But I wanted to confirm it with him because I didn't want my friend to leave and go upstate without me and and the Pisces change his mind at the last minute. So I decided to confirm. But I think you're right. I think he probably felt pressured. There's no way that I would purposely pressure him though. And I don't know if he has ever manipulated me, but they say moon in Gemini can be manipulative.

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Posted by Nala13
Get over yourself. All you can think about is why he wont talk to you why he wont delete you. You are a violent psycho who went over his house when you knew he wasnt home. Walked around his neighborhood for hours. Then went somewhere had time to calm down and then went back to his house the next day. You convinced him to let you in after he didnt want to then assaulted him. You dont have to take advice from me. If you were a man who did this to a woman you would be dog walked around here.
I am so far from violent its not even something that I think about.

You are right about one thing...my mom use to beat the shit out if my dad and he never hit her back. So um yea I FSKW about this whole thing.

This sounds like potential stalker behavior and/or being overly possessive. I haven't read the full op but if this is actually how it happened then wow.

And yes, if roles were reversed and she was a guy punching a girl, could you imagine? No one would be giving her any solid advice except for 'you're horrible' 'you need to get help' 'you don't deserve her' 'you're endangering her by being around her'. Yet when a girl punches a guy? Nah, no big deal.

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No, that's not how it happened. That's why someone quoted what she said and asked her if she read what I typed.

Alright here goes my Vir in Merc.

He lied to her and told her he was miles away when in fact he was right around the corner. This speaks volumes to me. He probably knew she would still come and felt he could not tell her the truth.

Then she says he was afraid to open the door he was peeking through the peephole and she said I hear you open up.

Sounds to me like he is scared of her. Why is he scared of her? His actions indicate fear of some sort. She may not have hit him before but I guarantee she has done some questionable things.

If this was a man who punched a woman because she cancelled a date we would all tell her to the call the police in a heartbeat.

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Posted by Nala13
Get over yourself. All you can think about is why he wont talk to you why he wont delete you. You are a violent psycho who went over his house when you knew he wasnt home. Walked around his neighborhood for hours. Then went somewhere had time to calm down and then went back to his house the next day. You convinced him to let you in after he didnt want to then assaulted him. You dont have to take advice from me. If you were a man who did this to a woman you would be dog walked around here.
I am so far from violent its not even something that I think about.

You are right about one thing...my mom use to beat the shit out if my dad and he never hit her back. So um yea I FSKW about this whole thing.

Are you reading the right thread? He knew she was coming over. Then he ditched her, lied, and left her out in the cold.

Thank you!

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I do understand your anger. I don't think he's the right friend for you though, because his type of behavior only gets worse. He would not have done that if he truly cared.

Posted by tiziani
The best advice you can get from this is to focus on yourself. If this is the first time you've done this, you want to make sure you do everything in your power to make sure it won't happen again. With anyone. What him not deleting you on facebook has to do with that is miniscule at best in relation to the bigger picture. You can rationalize it all you want and relate it to him, but that's just a road to accept this behaviour as part of your character on a permanent basis. Do you want that?

Probably the simplest advice you'll get is to leave him alone for now.

No, that's not what I want. Thank you for your advice.

I see that there's debate going on. Unfortunately I'm not going to read it to find out because I still think you're being selfish for asking about if you'll be forgiven and stuff relating to fb. I don't know why fb even matters. People treat it like it's the real world. You need to ask yourself 'does it really matter what he does on fb?' 'Is the main thing I should be focusing on is if he'll forgive me?'
Honestly you should not be impatient. If he's going to forgive you, he won't do it any faster if you ask strangers online about it. You should not have hope for it either because it's not like it was a simple argument. It got physical. You should only be thinking 'I hope he's okay and I hope he can surround himself with positive people who won't harm him'. Thinking anything else is selfish. And No matter how this went down, I'm not sure you should be being selfish after physically harming him. Focus on controlling yourself, stop thinking about him, and if he decides to talk to you or be friendly with you again then it happens. If not, oh well. You resuming things would not be best for either of you. He obviously can get you riled up emotionally to the point you lose control which means he's not a positive influence in your life and on his side, it risks more physical harm. So maybe it's best to learn from your mistakes and move on. Like really move on.

Yea Scenic thats what Im saying. Someone tells you they left town or are miles away and you decide to hang around their town and window shop on Christmas. No you are stalking.

@OP Im not arguing with you. Im stating facts. I could probably understand one slap and then an OMG I am so sorry but another slap. Ok another slap OMG Im really sorry. Im going to leave but then you haul off and punch him in the face.

You are a walking talking future episode of Snapped.