I punched a Pisces Sun Gemini moon guy in the face (Page 2)

Posted by Nala13
Alright here goes my Vir in Merc.

He lied to her and told her he was miles away when in fact he was right around the corner. This speaks volumes to me. He probably knew she would still come and felt he could not tell her the truth.

Then she says he was afraid to open the door he was peeking through the peephole and she said I hear you open up.

Sounds to me like he is scared of her. Why is he scared of her? His actions indicate fear of some sort. She may not have hit him before but I guarantee she has done some questionable things.

If this was a man who punched a woman because she cancelled a date we would all tell her to the call the police in a heartbeat.

I never said he was afraid to open the door. Please stop doing that. If anything, he didn't have a valid reason for what he did and didn't have the guts to face me. He probably felt ashamed himself. This man is usually very blunt with me, so if I do something that hurts his feelings or gets on his nerves he'll tell me. For example, he sent me an email telling me we would probably get along better if I were more of an ass towards him and to not be so nice. Once I got an attitude with him and got a bit feisty and he loved it. He kept talking about it days later with a huge smile on his face. He said he loved it. I asked him, how can I be that way towards someone who's so sweet to me. He said he understands.

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"I punched a Pisces sun Gemini moon guy in the face, will he forgive me?"



I did the same once, during a heated argument with my Pisces-Gem long term boyfriend. Not sure he forgave me. Firstly, he told his Libra mum about it. She said: "Good. You probably deserved it. Stop being so annoying to her!". Then, every time we watched TV and domestic violence was mentioned, he looked at me and said: "DOMESTIC. VIOLENCE." I replied with my Puss-in-Boots impression: "who...moi?"

So he still spoke to you after you punched him?

Of course he did, he was in love with me.

How long did it take for him to speak to you again? Did you apologize?

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We had sex afterwards 😉.

There is a huge difference between gentle smacking and beating. Between losing your cool once and repeatedly abusing others.

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Posted by Nala13
Get over yourself. All you can think about is why he wont talk to you why he wont delete you. You are a violent psycho who went over his house when you knew he wasnt home. Walked around his neighborhood for hours. Then went somewhere had time to calm down and then went back to his house the next day. You convinced him to let you in after he didnt want to then assaulted him. You dont have to take advice from me. If you were a man who did this to a woman you would be dog walked around here.
I am so far from violent its not even something that I think about.

You are right about one thing...my mom use to beat the shit out if my dad and he never hit her back. So um yea I FSKW about this whole thing.

Are you reading the right thread? He knew she was coming over. Then he ditched her, lied, and left her out in the cold.

Thank you!

I do understand your anger. I don't think he's the right friend for you though, because his type of behavior only gets worse. He would not have done that if he truly cared.

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Thank you again. I felt like he would not have done that if he cared too. That's another reason why it hurt so bad. I had to accept the fact that this guy I'd been bonding with and spending so much time with didn't care. That one action or non-action told me so many things about him and it hit me like a bomb. I didn't understand and it all came out of the blue. It hurt, I was angry, I reacted and I'm sorry.

Posted by Nala13
Yea Scenic thats what Im saying. Someone tells you they left town or are miles away and you decide to hang around their town and window shop on Christmas. No you are stalking.

@OP Im not arguing with you. Im stating facts. I could probably understand one slap and then an OMG I am so sorry but another slap. Ok another slap OMG Im really sorry. Im going to leave but then you haul off and punch him in the face.

You are a walking talking future episode of Snapped.

That's the way you view it. I know you're wrong but you feel like you're right. I make on mistake and you label me as a murder. I can't even listen to that stuff let alone do it. That's insane. Yes, I walked around. I didn't want to go home and sit inside while thinking of what just happened. It would've hurt more. Especially on Christmas Day.

Jesus so now you got fiesty with him and he had a smile on his face for days.

Ahhh its all making sense now. See what happens when you tell the whole story.

You someone made a quantum leap from attitude to assault. Wrong move. Listen I am not trying to be mean to you just because I have nothing better to do on Sunday afternoon. If you re-read your posts your only concern is you. You seem to think because you have never done this before and because you apologized and because he somehow provoked you that ...well whats wrong with him. As DJ eluded to in an earlier post anyone here who tells you what you did is ok or justified or excusable is doing you a real injustice.

Posted by Nala13
Jesus so now you got fiesty with him and he had a smile on his face for days.

Ahhh its all making sense now. See what happens when you tell the whole story.

You someone made a quantum leap from attitude to assault. Wrong move. Listen I am not trying to be mean to you just because I have nothing better to do on Sunday afternoon. If you re-read your posts your only concern is you. You seem to think because you have never done this before and because you apologized and because he somehow provoked you that ...well whats wrong with him. As DJ eluded to in an earlier post anyone here who tells you what you did is ok or justified or excusable is doing you a real injustice.

Why do you take my words and twist them up so much? I'm pretty sure you've gotten into lots of nasty quarrels throughout your life. Honestly, the time I got feisty with him was a couple months ago and it was kind of an act. I got tired of him telling me I need to stop being so nice to him and the time I got a little feisty with him, I felt like he was trying to bring it out of me. He got so turned on when it came out of me he said why aren't you here right now, I'm gonna marry you. I had to keep stopping him to tell him to take me seriously, but he liked it. He tried to get me to come over but I had work in the morning and couldn't. So he stayed on the phone with me for a couple hours and cancelled weekend plans so he could spend it with me. I told him not to cancel his plans because, where he was supposed to go was goo for his work. He refused. He said, he's gonna be around a group people that he has to be a yes man to, and kiss their butts. He said he'd rather spend time with someone who he can be himself around, someone he enjoys spending time with. So he refused to go where he was supposed to go that weekend to spend time with me.

Why are you worried about whether he will forgive you or not? There are only two things you should be worrying about right now IMO.

a) That you violently assaulted somebody, bitch slapping twice and following up with a punch to the face all in a matter of minutes.

b) That you actually want to continue any sort of communication with a person who organised for you to spend christmas day at their house and then blew you off at the last minute.

If I got into a fight with a guy who loved me and he punched me because he didnt like what I was saying. Id press charges and never look back.

Maybe hes keeping his fb page because he wants to collect evidence to build a case against you.

You emasculated him.

Im not excusing him as a liar.

I love you DMV. I swear I do. I was thinking the same thing. Keep your friends close but your enemies....

I might keep her on FB too. LMAO at evidence to build a case against you.

I don't get you people going "it only happened once, there's a difference between doing it once and repeatedly".

It only takes one moment to kill someone in a flash of anger. Not trying to stretch it but still.

op, you are crazy as shit, girl...lol
that's behavior better suited for a husband trying to fuck you over, not someone you have a crush on.

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If I got into a fight with a guy who loved me and he punched me because he didnt like what I was saying. Id press charges and never look back.

Maybe hes keeping his fb page because he wants to collect evidence to build a case against you.

You emasculated him.

I don't think that's the reason. I sent him a long apology email. In it I told him that I deserve to reap the consequences of my actions, even if that means going to jail. I told him I understand if he calls the cops and to not worry, I'm an honest person and I'll be completely honest with the police and tell them what I did, because I was WRONG. It doesn't matter how hurt I was, I shouldn't have crossed that line. I feel like crap. I hope he feels better. I've been praying for him. Although I've never done that before I'm gonna go get some help for myself to make sure it never happens again in life. Didn't know I was capable of doing something so cruel. But yea, that's not why he still has me on his page.

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op, you are crazy as shit, girl...lol
that's behavior better suited for a husband trying to fuck you over, not someone you have a crush on.

He wasn't someone I had a crush on. We were dating. That's still no excuse for my actions. I was wrong. I should've never done what I did. I still can't believe that happened. I hope he's ok. All I can do is pray for him, ask God to forgive me and get some help. That was the first time in my life that I've done something like that and I want to get help to make sure it doesn't happen again. Although I feel like I wouldn't do that again, in life, I didn't know I was capable of doing it when I did it. Therefore I'm gonna speak help. I feel really bad for him and I hope he's ok. But all I can do is pray for him. But at the same time, I need closure myself, mane I don't deserve it after what I did, but I'd feel a lot better if I understood where everything came from. We were having so much fun together and spent so much time together and out of the blue he went cold and negative towards me. I asked him what I did to deserve that, he looked me right in the face and said, nothing. I told him to be honest. He said, I am being honest, you didn't do anything to deserve that. I was so confused.

And it only took 100 posts, yes XOXO please get some help especially since there seems to be no consequences for your behavior.

Last but not least, learn from this. There are so many men who would have choked the shit out of you for what you did. Even though I think you are very unstable, I do not want anything bad to happen to you.

Posted by xcake
If I was that guy and you slapped and punched me, I would be hella annoyed by the messages.

You could stop feelings, but surprise punches.....nah.

You can't stop feelings, there're not tangible. It takes time for them to go away. I don't know, maybe he was annoyed by the two messages I sent him. But he can always block me or tell me not to send them.

oh, yes you were crushing on him.
YOU were dating him, he wasn't dating you.
it's ok...we've all been there.
you just handled the situation differently probably due to a warped perspective of what you actually think you have going on there with him whilst utterly disregarding what he told you he actually had going on with you.
it happens.
heartbreak is so bad
just cut off all contact...it'll get much better.

Assaults a guy.

Is worried about Facebook.

Oh boy 1 step forward and 2 steps back.

Why does he have to tell you to stop sending them? Why does he have to talk to you ever again in life?

You my dear are not dealing with a full deck.

Posted by TMV
Assaults a guy.

Is worried about Facebook.

LMAOOOO
I'm very sorry to laugh at your pain OP but this thread was the best.

The guy was an asshole but, as you already know, violence is a no-no.

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Assaults a guy.

Is worried about Facebook.

see, you play too much.

Posted by Nala13
And it only took 100 posts, yes XOXO please get some help especially since there seems to be no consequences for your behavior.

Last but not least, learn from this. There are so many men who would have choked the shit out of you for what you did. Even though I think you are very unstable, I do not want anything bad to happen to you.

It didn't take any posts for me to say that I'm gonna get some help. Friends of mine, also mutual friends of myself and the Pisces guy told me NOT to apologize for what I did. They said he deserved it. But I know what's right and what's wrong and I was wrong, as well as him. I stepped way out of character and took my own advice to apologize and get help for myself. Days before I posted my comment and question on here, I told MYSELF I need to get some help.

Just out of curiosity, what makes you think I'm unstable? I had one bad episode that I'm totally aware of, I know how wrong I was and I'm getting myself help for it, despite the fact that friends (mutual and my own) tell me he deserved what he got. So, I'm just curious to know what makes you think I'm unstable. One single negative action does not define anyone.

Now you, on the other hand. I can only imagine the prolonged crap that men have to take from you. You're still commenting on this message board despite the fact that I told you you're the only one I would not take advice from on here. That shows a lot about your character and what you put men through on the daily basis.

"One single negative action does not define anyone."

said no lifer locked up for their first murder or person with aids contracted during first time sex or dwayne wade with his lil bundle of joy EVER.

You wouldn't know character if it punched YOU in the face.

"I don't know, maybe he was annoyed by the two messages I sent him. But he can always block me or tell me not to send them."
are you over 30?
just curious...

Posted by xcake
DON'T GIVE THIS GUY ANY IDEAS.

STOP SENDING HIM MESSAGES THAT YOU DESERVE WHATEVER IS COMING FOR YOU.

STOP.

I sent two messages. That's it! I had no plans of sending more. I've said all that I can say to him. There's no way that I would send him more. I don't know where that came from. Maybe I gave you the impression that I had plans to send more, but that's not the case.

Posted by Nala13
You wouldn't know character if it punched YOU in the face.

You don't have a life do you? Lol! Silly woman. The only person I wouldn't take advice from is commenting the most.

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DON'T GIVE THIS GUY ANY IDEAS.

STOP SENDING HIM MESSAGES THAT YOU DESERVE WHATEVER IS COMING FOR YOU.

STOP.

I sent two messages. That's it! I had no plans of sending more. I've said all that I can say to him. There's no way that I would send him more. I don't know where that came from. Maybe I gave you the impression that I had plans to send more, but that's not the case.

One should have been enough.

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You're right.

I think she's planning to punch Nala next.

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You wouldn't know character if it punched YOU in the face.

You don't have a life do you? Lol! Silly woman. The only person I wouldn't take advice from is commenting the most.

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oh boy.
excuse me...
i'll now watch this thread from the sidelines.

Posted by Damnata
I think she's planning to punch Nala next.

I wouldn't do that if I could. I just think we don't see eye to eye, also, I don't think she understands me as a person. She's judging me in the worst way. Not saying that I'm perfect. I have many flaws, but I think she looks at me like a person I'm not and I think she's giving advice to this image she has of me, not to the person I am. So I disagree with her. People that have known me for years were surprised at my reaction to the Pisces, because that's out of my character, but they were also glad that I did what I did because they all say he deserved it. No one deserves what I did to him and I wish I could take it back.

i think your perception of reality is askew, dear op.
ok...back to the sidelines...

Posted by xPurrrrHissssx
I highly doubt a guy who would just stand there after being slapped and punched and has friends who say things like, "yeah, he deserved it" is plotting revenge against a girl. He didn't even want to face her the day after blowing her off, and it's been 10 days since the incident.

Honestly, he sounds very passive and as though he just wants to be left alone.

Exactly! He brushes everything off and sometimes he just wants to be left alone. He never dwells on anything negative. He says, that's why his dad is so amazing, because he's like him. He says that his dad takes things lightly like him, while his mom gets emotional and holds onto things. This guy always looks on the bright side of things and is not emotional. He's very funny and passive. Maybe it's his moon in Gemini. Either way, I know I was wrong for what I did and I wish I could take it back.

One day we were walking down the street together, holding hands. These two guys were starring at us. Then we walked by them cos we were headed in that direction. I had a strong feeling (from the way the guys were starring at us) that the guys were gonna say something when we crossed their path. And they did. We walked by and I heard a mans voice, but couldn't make out what was said because it was a noisy bar like place we were walking by. Then my Pisces friend put his head back and laughed out loud. I asked, what's so funny? He said, "apparently those guys don't like the fact that I'm with you." I said, why, what did they say. He said, one guy said to the other, how did that guy get that fine a** girl.

My point is, he takes things with a grain of salt. I loved the way he handled that situation. He didn't get angry, didn't dwell on it. He laughed it off with a genuine laugh.

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Ahemmm.. umm do you take advantage of the fact that he's passive?

You seem to come off really, forceful.

Not at all. As a matter of fact he would tell me all the time that I need to be more feisty and aggressive towards him. Don't get me wrong, he's passive but he's an a** towards most people. Especially when he's drunk! Which is just about every evening. Some friends have tried to get him to slow down on his drinking, but no one can tell him anything. Going three days without a drink is a great thing to him.

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I highly doubt a guy who would just stand there after being slapped and punched and has friends who say things like, "yeah, he deserved it" is plotting revenge against a girl. He didn't even want to face her the day after blowing her off, and it's been 10 days since the incident.

Honestly, he sounds very passive and as though he just wants to be left alone.

Exactly! He brushes everything off and sometimes he just wants to be left alone. He never dwells on anything negative. He says, that's why his dad is so amazing, because he's like him. He says that his dad takes things lightly like him, while his mom gets emotional and holds onto things. This guy always looks on the bright side of things and is not emotional. He's very funny and passive. Maybe it's his moon in Gemini. Either way, I know I was wrong for what I did and I wish I could take it back.

One day we were walking down the street together, holding hands. These two guys were starring at us. Then we walked by them cos we were headed in that direction. I had a strong feeling (from the way the guys were starring at us) that the guys were gonna say something when we crossed their path. And they did. We walked by and I heard a mans voice, but couldn't make out what was said because it was a noisy bar like place we were walking by. Then my Pisces friend put his head back and laughed out loud. I asked, what's so funny? He said, "apparently those guys don't like the fact that I'm with you." I said, why, what did they say. He said, one guy said to the other, how did that guy get that fine a** girl.

My point is, he takes things with a grain of salt. I loved the way he handled that situation. He didn't get angry, didn't dwell on it. He laughed it off with a genuine laugh.

But you said his parents were also emotionally abusive?

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That's what he told me. There were a lot of things he'd say that contradicted other things he said. But one thing I know for sure is his parents made him feel like he was less than, and would always tell him he wouldn't amount to anything. I know that for sure because he said it a lot, mainly when he's drunk. He has also expressed that in emails he sent to m

Posted by xcake
Parental issues now.

Stay away. Far away. You might do more harm than good.

The only reason why you had the chance to slap him the second time was because he allowed you the first time. No, if he has issues and you know** he will not hurt you, you're just taking advantage of him. You could have avoided being angry by turning around and going back home and cooling off. No, you wanted to give it to him. People that have criminal charges, some of them were considered nice and no one expected for them to act differently. Don't make him lose his shit.

In no way shape or for did I take advantage of him. If anything, I was taken advantage of. He's not afraid to speak his mind, trust me that's what he does on the daily basis. Just because he's passive doesn't mean he's not outspoken, rude and obnoxious. His closest friends will tell you he can be a real dick. The Pisces told me one day, that I can break up with him, that's fine. He said women break up with him all the time and that's a standard issue. He said they can't handle him or his success because they were weak. But I think the real issue is he treats them like crap and acts like a narcissist. He talks to people like they're beneath him because he's had some good roles in a few movies and TV shows. But I liked the person inside him until he showed me that other person in him. It's like he has two strong personalities, one very sweet and attentive and the other, very rude, arrogant, loud obnoxious and narcissistic like.

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Parental issues now.

Stay away. Far away. You might do more harm than good.

The only reason why you had the chance to slap him the second time was because he allowed you the first time. No, if he has issues and you know** he will not hurt you, you're just taking advantage of him. You could have avoided being angry by turning around and going back home and cooling off. No, you wanted to give it to him. People that have criminal charges, some of them were considered nice and no one expected for them to act differently. Don't make him lose his shit.

In no way shape or for did I take advantage of him. If anything, I was taken advantage of. He's not afraid to speak his mind, trust me that's what he does on the daily basis. Just because he's passive doesn't mean he's not outspoken, rude and obnoxious. His closest friends will tell you he can be a real dick. The Pisces told me one day, that I can break up with him, that's fine. He said women break up with him all the time and that's a standard issue. He said they can't handle him or his success because they were weak. But I think the real issue is he treats them like crap and acts like a narcissist. He talks to people like they're beneath him because he's had some good roles in a few movies and TV shows. But I liked the person inside him until he showed me that other person in him. It's like he has two strong personalities, one very sweet and attentive and the other, very rude, arrogant, loud obnoxious and narcissistic like.

Alright. Well I guess that makes it even. You can physically harm him and you can both emotionally/mentally abuse each other.

You either knew he was not going to react or you didn't give a shyt of what was to come after smacking him. Either way, it's not good for you or him.

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It wasn't about getting even. At the time I didn't think what would or could come afterwards. I was really hurt and humiliated. That's still no excuse for what I did. I'm not the worst person in the world. Yes, I did do something terrible, but I'm the type of person who learns from my mistakes.

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Posted by feby16aqua
I think you definitely crossed some lines with him here and you need to leave him alone. Unhealthy relationship boundaries crossed. You slapped and punched him in the face? Just be glad he's not going to press charges against you or he didn't knock you out!! You can't go around hitting people!!

You're so right. I feel so bad and I'm ashamed of myself. I've NEVER put my hands on a man before. I don't even get into fights. I was so hurt by what happened and confused. I didn't know why he would do that and add salt to the wound. That NO excuse for what I did. I wish I could take it back. No one deserves to be hit. I don't understand how I could do that to someone, especially someone I care about. I know I crossed the lines with him and I'm pretty sure he feels the same way, but why won't he delete me from Facebook?

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dont beat yourself up honey this dude is an asshole. Honestly he is lucky thats all you did after having you schelp all that shit across town only to be stood up..id like to know how you others gals would have handled it?

Posted by djbuck1
Will he forgive you? Will he talk to you again?

You're in Fantasy Land.

If he does, he deserves what he gets.

He should press charges, though most guys don't when assaulted by a female.

You obviously have serious self-control issues. You'd better get some professional help, or you'll eventually do this to a guy who will beat the hell out of you or turn you in to the police.

You sound like a real piece of work.

are you serious dj? did you not see what threw this girl into a rage?

I wouldnt punch him in the face. Ive had worse done to me.

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I think you definitely crossed some lines with him here and you need to leave him alone. Unhealthy relationship boundaries crossed. You slapped and punched him in the face? Just be glad he's not going to press charges against you or he didn't knock you out!! You can't go around hitting people!!

You're so right. I feel so bad and I'm ashamed of myself. I've NEVER put my hands on a man before. I don't even get into fights. I was so hurt by what happened and confused. I didn't know why he would do that and add salt to the wound. That NO excuse for what I did. I wish I could take it back. No one deserves to be hit. I don't understand how I could do that to someone, especially someone I care about. I know I crossed the lines with him and I'm pretty sure he feels the same way, but why won't he delete me from Facebook?

dont beat yourself up honey this dude is an asshole. Honestly he is lucky thats all you did after having you schelp all that shit across town only to be stood up..id like to know how you others gals would have handled it?

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for one, i wouldn't have schlepped all that shit across town...on public transportation...for someone that verbally let me know we weren't an item.

Im not judging because my sin is different than yours. Whether one emotionally or physically abuses some doesnt make it right.

why do u want 2 talk to him again given the disrespect?

Posted by Wynter
I probably would have thrown the milk and cookie dough at him too.

Screw him.

thats what im saying..why are people acting like they wouls have just walked away with that tail between their legs

Posted by IrresistableScorp
The guy was a complete douche and if it was me, I'd have at least given him a HUGE fuck you.

Btw if you've ever taken public transport over 15 miles that can be a long haul. I'd be pissed. I can also understand why she didn't just go home. Who wants to spend all day on public transportation on Christmas.

This guy warrants never speaking to again. Are you people really defending his douchebaggery behavior.

I'm not a violent person but if you have any kind of anger issues, I can see giving him at least a slap.

So you think it would be okay for a man to punch a woman because she emotionally hurt him and ruined his Christmas?

@blkbella

If a guy caught the bus over your house and halfway there you tell him not to come because you are leaving and he says the hell with what you say Im coming anyway. You are not home and he is furious so the next morning he knocks on your door you open it and he slaps you twice and punches you in the face....you deserved it?

You would not deserve it. If he came here asking why you wont talk to him the thread would be flagged and he would be banned.

I would have got my ass off the bus. Walked across the street got on the bus going back home and sent him a text that said KMA and lose my number. I would argue that just about every woman and maybe some men have been stood up, played even but really wait until the next morning and put hands on dude. Naw....not where Im from. His sisters and female cousins would hunt homegirl down and she would be the leading story on the evening news. Girl attacks man...then mans family jumps girl.

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Posted by feby16aqua
I think you definitely crossed some lines with him here and you need to leave him alone. Unhealthy relationship boundaries crossed. You slapped and punched him in the face? Just be glad he's not going to press charges against you or he didn't knock you out!! You can't go around hitting people!!

You're so right. I feel so bad and I'm ashamed of myself. I've NEVER put my hands on a man before. I don't even get into fights. I was so hurt by what happened and confused. I didn't know why he would do that and add salt to the wound. That NO excuse for what I did. I wish I could take it back. No one deserves to be hit. I don't understand how I could do that to someone, especially someone I care about. I know I crossed the lines with him and I'm pretty sure he feels the same way, but why won't he delete me from Facebook?

dont beat yourself up honey this dude is an asshole. Honestly he is lucky thats all you did after having you schelp all that shit across town only to be stood up..id like to know how you others gals would have handled it?

for one, i wouldn't have schlepped all that shit across town...on public transportation...for someone that verbally let me know we weren't an item.

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Posted by Nala13
@blkbella

If a guy caught the bus over your house and halfway there you tell him not to come because you are leaving and he says the hell with what you say Im coming anyway. You are not home and he is furious so the next morning he knocks on your door you open it and he slaps you twice and punches you in the face....you deserved it?

You would not deserve it. If he came here asking why you wont talk to him the thread would be flagged and he would be banned.

I would have got my ass off the bus. Walked across the street got on the bus going back home and sent him a text that said KMA and lose my number. I would argue that just about every woman and maybe some men have been stood up, played even but really wait until the next morning and put hands on dude. Naw....not where Im from. His sisters and female cousins would hunt homegirl down and she would be the leading story on the evening news. Girl attacks man...then mans family jumps girl.

I wouldn't do that to someone but if I did I wouldn't expect to be punched. But i would be expecting something. A guy getting punched for being a dick has happened before too. I don't think it's that serious, people have been punched for far less. I personally think he deserved it. She didn't say she knocked him out cold.

@ Nahla

And where I'm from the guys fam would ask why a girl would randomly haul off and punch or slap him before making any sudden moves. Most of the peeps I know have something to lose but I do know of people your referring to.

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Posted by IrresistableScorp
The guy was a complete douche and if it was me, I'd have at least given him a HUGE fuck you.

Btw if you've ever taken public transport over 15 miles that can be a long haul. I'd be pissed. I can also understand why she didn't just go home. Who wants to spend all day on public transportation on Christmas.

This guy warrants never speaking to again. Are you people really defending his douchebaggery behavior.

I'm not a violent person but if you have any kind of anger issues, I can see giving him at least a slap.

So you think it would be okay for a man to punch a woman because she emotionally hurt him and ruined his Christmas?

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Yes...surely he can handle it

Xoxo only question I have for you is why do you still want to be in contact with this loser? Friends? Really think about that term and what it means to you. Would you accept or excuse this behavior from your other friends? Probably not. And besides your real friends wouldn't put you in a situation where you would have to act out character. This guy isn't and was never your friend. Accept that and it will be easier to move on.