I'm a scorpio boy, this virgo girl is confusing me

Hello everyone,
I'm a scorpio boy and I really cannot stop thinking about this virgo girl. I've heard that scorpio and virgo are a good match for each other but she keeps giving me such weird signals!!! Some days she will be really friendly and won't care if I tickle her (I don't know why I do that it makes me look like an idiot), but then other days she won't even talk to me. We had one big fight where I blew up on her and I felt terrible, it took around a month for us to be able to have a regular conversation again. The thing is, did I completely mess up my chance with her? Whenever I text her lately she gives me a quick answer and says she has to go do something. But when we talk in person it's an entirely different story, she's amazing to talk to then. She still won't give me a hug though, before we had our fight she would. It has only been a month still and I know Virgo don't forgive easily, but I really want this to work. Does anyone out there have any advice for me? I'm fairly certain she's attracted to me, but I can't read her like I do other people. What should I do? I'm also worried that I might seem clingy. But I don't want to just stop talking to her. I would really appreciate any advice.

Hello scorpio boy! Obviously, with one glance at my avatar and my name, you can figure out what sign I am... Scorpios and virgos go hand in hand in my experience as well. The best sexual chemistry by far 🙂 In the past however, my scorpio potentials and I never work out! So very frustrating. Virgos do not wear their hearts on their sleeves and if anything, lock it away until someone (hopefully) can crack it open... I sound incredibly magazine horoscope-esque, but it's true. I feel like we want someone who is worthy of our full trust and loyalty, we need someone who is willing to bend over backwards and go the distance together... Sounds like this fight you had with her really took it's toll. She doesn't trust you, and is definitely keeping her distance. I mean...not even a hug? That's bad. Rememeber: little things like that is big deal to us detail-oriented virgos. Honestly my best advice to you scorpio, would be to show her how much you care about this.. actions definitely speak a whole notch louder than words. So get to work! You have some work to do 🙂

"virgos do not wear their hearts on their sleeves and if anything, lock it away until someone (hopefully) can crack it open. / I feel like we want someone who is worthy of our full trust and loyalty, we need someone who is willing to bend over backwards and go the distance together"

hmmm. i'm a scorpio and im the same way.

anyway, virgos aren't really fond of drama, making big scenes and such. so that's where you went wrong. i hate to give advice i can't really follow myself [because i am horrible at talking about my feelings], but talking to her about it is probably the best option. if you already did, then maybe try again?

Hey scorp boy 🙂

Hmm, i'm a virgo woman and i've had dealings with scorpio men. With my closest scorpio guy, things took a terrible turn due to a third party who was jealous of our friendship, and he cracked the shits at me bad. I was so upset with the way he handled the situation (didn't even ask for my side of the story, just discarded me from his life like a worthless piece of trash), that when he tried contacting me again I kept ignoring him and ended up telling him not to speak to me. I was really hurt. Not only that, I didn't want him to think that he could treat me like that, and then when it suited him he could just come back and act like things were cool. No siree! I made him work for another chance.

Virgo's may be good at hiding their sensitivities, but never underestimate just how sensitive they are. Many months down the track, my friend and I are working at rebuilding our friendship (we were best friends), but honestly it's incurred a lot of damage and that's not going to be fixed overnight 😢

Your virgo girl is probably just feeling really unsure of you. As justcurious said, virgo's aren't too fond of drama. I hope it works out well for you though 🙂

Thanks guys these are really helpful comments. Mainly, the response was to just give it time and let our trust build up again. Is there anything I can do to help speed up the process? I really want it to work out.

Hi, u did not give details of the fight. Virgos don't hold a grudge...at least I don't...she will therefore speak with you but as far as a relationship, I am not sure that she is still attracted to you...she may be still holding onto that image of you where u looked "angry" when u got into a fight. It could "turn" he off...would turn me off...so...with that said...I think she's turned off. If she was going to let it go...she would already...Virgos usually take a decision shortly after an incident like that...friends/lovers/none of the above...she has downgraded the level of your friendship. When I do that as a virgo...my mind is usually made up and for u to make it up to me would fraustrate you because u have ruined my "image" of u being perfect...I will look for a new image to frame.

I am a virgo girl who has dated quite a few scorpio guys. I adore them, but they always go nuts on me. If I want you i'll make an extra effort to spend time with you, otherwise there is probably something I noticed about you that I know just wont work between us and its just easier to not talk to u than have to explain myself in ten different ways. Could be she has more than just you interested in her and she's trying to figure out who to choose. But I know if I really am interested in someone, I wont ignore them at all.. Ever. I'll ignore the ones that are coming on too strong tho, or want more than i'm willing to give. Only because its just simpler. But maaaan conflict and arguments are def not something I will put up with for long. Sends some huuuuge red flags. As much as i'll get along with scorpios, i'll always go for the guys who can be more serious, responsible, independent, and dont cause drama in my life. Stability is sexy

If she is not giving you what you want then forget about it and move on....If she has needs in terms of emotional investment, so do you. Always put yourself first. Just give her some space. During that "space" time, if she contacts you...then you may have some something...but be nonchalant about her contact. Mirror her behaviour. You will get your answer.