Jealousy

Where do you look for jealousy tendences and how they manifest in a chart?

Posted by scorchedearth
moon or venus in water. venus/scorpio. moon/scorpio. 8th house venus.

and a bunch more shit that if you googled it you'd find pretty easily.

It, meaning "moon or venus in water. venus/scorpio. moon/scorpio. 8th house venus" or jealousy? Because I have googled jealousy and think the answers I've got have been pretty vague and I don't know which sites to trust. So if you have a realible one in mind, I'd love to know which one.

Hey Jealousy

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Posted by scorchedearth
moon or venus in water. venus/scorpio. moon/scorpio. 8th house venus.

and a bunch more shit that if you googled it you'd find pretty easily.

It, meaning "moon or venus in water. venus/scorpio. moon/scorpio. 8th house venus" or jealousy? Because I have googled jealousy and think the answers I've got have been pretty vague and I don't know which sites to trust. So if you have a realible one in mind, I'd love to know which one.

The following are my reliable sources (other than books I own):

astro.com
cafeastrology.com
elbertwade.com
alwaysastrology.com
astrology-numerology.com

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Thank you! I actaully use all of them frequently, except for the last one, which I will really try out now too, so thanks again!🙂

I checked again, really quickly, admittedly, for info about jealousy in those pages and found none, except for what you find in the text as info on different planets or signs and stuff.

It would be really nice to find something about jealousy as such, because there is this guy I have known for ages, but I really never understood the jealousy aspect of him. I think he is, but he denies it and he is usually very honest about his feelings and in general. He definitely has scorpio energies, but no personal planets except mars and there is only asteroids in his eighth house.

Posted by YellowSubmarine
Hmm.. well there's a difference between jealousy and possessiveness.. if he's more possessive, that could point to other signs/aspects.

Also, a major factor is what exactly he tends to be jealous of... love, wealth, attractiveness, etc? Different signs/aspects covet different things

I don't think he's that possessive...well, yeah, a little bit, but in a good way. 🙂

Jealousy mostly when it comes to love.

Jealousy is simply a product of inequality, which is a jewish/american strategy in order to divide and conquer.

Posted by evalani05
Venus-Pluto configurations

His venus is indeed conjunct his pluto... Interesting.

Hmm trying to insert gif, but unsuccessfully, so I'll write down some info that may be relevant. Ask away if you want.

Sun Leo
Rising Libra
Moon Pisces
Venus Virgo
Mars Scorpio
Pluto virgo(conjunct venus)
Neptune Scorpio

Six mars aspects
Six pluto aspects

Most dominant signs: Virgo, scorpio, leo.

Does this help?

I have Scorpio in moon and pluto. My venus is in Gemini. I can get very jealous if I really care about someone though. Actually, I can be possessive of them..like wanting them to be all mines..lol

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Posted by HappyCapper
Hmm trying to insert gif, but unsuccessfully, so I'll write down some info that may be relevant. Ask away if you want.

Sun Leo
Rising Libra
Moon Pisces
Venus Virgo
Mars Scorpio
Pluto virgo(conjunct venus)
Neptune Scorpio

Six mars aspects
Six pluto aspects

Most dominant signs: Virgo, scorpio, leo.

Does this help?

The only dominant here is Scorpio. Before Pluto,Mars was the his ruling planet,which is still is.
Mars is responsible for the physical sex drive(The God of war,the aggressor,the initiator,the leader,the competitive one)and Pluto for sexual intimacy(Mystery,the depth,the intense,the darker,the passionate one)

All in one jealousy and resentment will be very present,even if not showed,Virgo is in Venus here so it strives for a perfect,analytic,tidy and organised kind of love.
With Virgo being Earth can cope well with his dominant Scorpio(Venus is ruled by Taurus and Libra)And i see his rising it's Libra.
There's a lot of magnetic sensuality and intensity here,Earth and Water will dominate at it's best(Moon Pisces-Water,Venus Virgo-Earth,Pluto Virgo-Earth,Mars Scorpio-Water,Neptune Scorpio-Water),Earth and Water form mud(fertility)
The Sun is in Leo so it'll be a extroverted,fixed sgn with loads of mystery and charisma.

It's a complex birth chart but the Scorpio dominates(Water)who is also a fixed sign. The fixed signs are Scorpio,Taurus and Leo,you have 2 of them here besides Taurus.
Fixed(obsessive,stable,stubborn,resolute,methodical)

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Thank you for your answer! Well, seeing everyone's initial answers, I thought scorpio would be the sign to concentrate on, so I especially watched for pluto and mars aspects, and I mentioned his neptune in scorpio, but not his jupiter in leo, for instance. Does this matter, or did you take that into account in your assessement? Should I have given you more info, and in that case, what?

Posted by evalani05
Do you happen to know the position of Lilith?

Aries.

Venus conj Pluto
Mars sextile Pluto

No Venus - Mars aspects

Thanks a lot! You're a great help!

Posted by YellowSubmarine
Scorpio, anywhere and everywhere

I'm Scorpio rising and I actually don't tend to have jealous tendencies. Only once but I could never prove it so it might have been paranoia. Having said that I was only 21 at the time so ...
Lol

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Posted by Wynter
Hey Jealousy

You... sonovabeech.

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Heh, that damn song went through my head allll day

Question: Would you lie about being jealous?

I have posted this question as a topic on the leo board, but I thought I might as well post it here as an all signs question too.

@beautifuldisaster
No, that's the thing. I don't want to go around, making false assumptions. Normally, if he tells me something, I will believe it, hands down, no questions asked. This time, though, my gut feeling screams at me to not believe him, and this has never happened with him before - and I've known him for a long time, so I'm struggling.

I am very much not trying to make him jealous - this was the reason for my question to him. I have lots of male friends(just friends!), and he knows that and has known it for years and years, but it seems to me that there would perhaps be a problem with a couple of them, and especially one. He is indeed very good looking and he may have an interest in me, but I have told him that I'm not interested. I never talk about any of my guy friends with leo unless he specifically asks or if it would be weird not to. I mean, I don't lie. If he asks me about my day, I will tell him what I did and with whom.

You don't come off rude at all - I think you are posing very reasonable questions. I want your honest opinions, and I think I'm getting just that, so thank you. I can take it. 🙂

@beautifuldisaster
I forgot. The reason for me asking was that Leo looked as if he wanted to kill my guy friend twice, turned up at places veeery conveniently and also gave a few remarks that suggested jealousy. Like seraph suggests, it seems like a nobrainer that he was jealous. But still, he said no and I'm in the habit of trusting his words. So, the turning up conveniently may have been a coincidence and I ask myself now if leo reaaally looked at the guy like that and were the comments reaaally sprung from jealousy. Idk. Damn!

Well, that would have been a great idea if this happened just days ago, but it was a while ago and when leo said he wasn't jealous, I said okay, but assured him at the same time that there was nothing at all between the other guy and I in that way.

Why then do I ask this now, since it happened a while ago? I have had different projects with this guy for years, but that slowed down about a month after the firebolt-shooting-from-their-eyes-incident, but now it seems that there will be a looot of dealings with him for quite some time again, so now I'm starting to sweat a tad.

Posted by beautifuldiaster
my jealousy is weird and strategically placed. I feel almost guilty with how I present it because it can be an opportunist emotion.

Think about it, if you want something it gibes you drive, if you want to validate someone's curiosity about your feelings for them some harmless jealousy can be cute, .. there is a limit to it which is when I complete hide it And dismiss it.

I shouldn't say so much on here.

I aaalmost understand what you're saying there, but not quite and I would really like to understand. Sorry. English is not my native language.

Posted by scorchedearth
moon or venus in water. venus/scorpio. moon/scorpio. 8th house venus.

and a bunch more shit that if you googled it you'd find pretty easily.

+1


you can FEEEL the jealousy it's not funny.

even the slightest thing. jesus christ.

even when i told my mother that my mother in law told me i'm gonna help take care of her when she gets old and frail, my mother freaked the fuck out.

i dont even wanna say anymore...but soooooo many incidents. it's like the jealousy galore!!!

ohhhh helll yeah on 8th house. My sister gets JEALOUS as fuck when my parents even pay more attention to me.

jesus the hell fuck!!! she has no Scorpio in personal planets but that 8th house. holy shit.

"you pay more attention to her, you love her MORE than me."

which is far from the truth. they just treat us all differently according to how they feel. we're not the same.

anyway, i can't talk. lol

i get super jealous too. it's just not as Obvious.

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Posted by HappyCapper

Posted by beautifuldiaster
my jealousy is weird and strategically placed. I feel almost guilty with how I present it because it can be an opportunist emotion.

Think about it, if you want something it gibes you drive, if you want to validate someone's curiosity about your feelings for them some harmless jealousy can be cute, .. there is a limit to it which is when I complete hide it And dismiss it.

I shouldn't say so much on here.

I aaalmost understand what you're saying there, but not quite and I would really like to understand. Sorry. English is not my native language.

I'm.saying any of your flaws can be ingeniously used as an asset when applied correctly.

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Agreed!

Posted by lisabethur8
anyway, i can't talk. lol

i get super jealous too. it's just not as Obvious.

Hehehe Do you have any or many of "moon or venus in water. venus/scorpio. moon/scorpio. 8th house venus" in your chart? Or maybe other placements that you think may be the reason for that?