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Posted by DMV
Why do I find Aquarius people sneaky?
Does anyone elsse feel or think like this?I have a good aqua gal pal, buy I do find her sneaky at times.
if she's such a good gal pal, why do you call her that? did she do something bad to you?
and if she did something bad to you, why are you even her gal pal? very mean of you to do this to her and name call her, instead of saying it to her face.
Posted by flowingwater
Because we are,
we're very good at manipulation. It's an advantage to us not to have our emotions read which is even better. š
*rollseyes* says the aries moon.
sometimes, i think you're the sneaky one, flowingwater.
i dont know why you talk manipulation. my husband can read me way too good. That's why we're married. lol
Posted by Rambunctious76
LOL @ the irony of a Scorpio moon calling an Aqua sneaky.
hahaha
comments are very interesting.... i never said being sneaky was indeed a character flaw.
Posted by exoskeleton
if you've established a solid closeness, i find aquas to be extremely loyal.if you're just social/sometimes-y friends, they probably don't give a shit about you.
i agree. she's a very good friend and loyal.
Posted by KVZZMIR11
Maybe you're just dumb.
why is the first reaction to someone's opinion that differs from yours, to attack and call them names?
Posted by feby
Posted by DMV
comments are very interesting.... i never said being sneaky was indeed a character flaw.
You don't have to say it...the word 'sneaky' has an implied meaning. Hence the comments that followed.
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hmm sounds like a personal issue.
lol @ this topic.
I can't make myself do a topic, on "are Sagittarius women sneaky?"
lmao
it is how it is. but some people can do it.
dem sneaky aquas, don't trust any of them.
Posted by hollyhock
Does your Aqua friend have strong Cap or Pisces influence in her chart?OP what is your sign btw
im a sag
Posted by flowingwater
Because we are,
we're very good at manipulation. It's an advantage to us not to have our emotions read which is even better. š
iD agree with you. Very good at it. Im taking lessons.
Posted by Katana
Yup the ones I know can be sneaky and are slick too.I do think they generally are good friends though and just like the OP I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing, it can be negative if it's utilized that way and vice versa.
let me elaborate. She has a great great social game at work. She gets everyone to tell her their business. People confide in her. But I do keep a bit to myself because to get dirt, sometimes you have to give some dirt up. It may not be her dirt, but its somebodys.
I just tip my hat to her. Shes sneaky.
Posted by DMV
Posted by Katana
Yup the ones I know can be sneaky and are slick too.I do think they generally are good friends though and just like the OP I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing, it can be negative if it's utilized that way and vice versa.
let me elaborate. She has a great great social game at work. She gets everyone to tell her their business. People confide in her. But I do keep a bit to myself because to get dirt, sometimes you have to give some dirt up. It may not be her dirt, but its somebodys.
I just tip my hat to her. Shes sneaky.
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omg that sounds more a water thing. Water listens and listens, and everyone tells them everything.
but it sounds like you're jealous.
because why would you talk like this about someone you consider a good pal??
and you talk about "dirt". that sounds more like a reflection of yourself. if someone confides in you about something you keep that to yourself.
getting "dirt" on someone is bad. Why would you do that??
unless there is a HIDDEN agenda.
and honestly that's NASTY. that's why i am saying what you're doing right now, is very very bad, because you are intentionally saying she's a sneaky fucker who goes and finds dirt on people so she can use it against them later.
that sounds like not a good person.
and this is why i am saying what you're posting here, makes me wonder why you are doing this.
I don't find Aquas sneaky at all...do you mean like strategists?
Posted by AquaMermaid
Using people's personal secrets to get back at them is more of a water sign thing. I have seen them doing it most often,even here.May be you see it that way because of your Scorpio moon.I am a Cancer moon so I am shy around unfamiliar faces and retreat to my shell immediately if I feel hurt or threatened.Aquarius Sun is just extremely curious.They appear to be more friendly and empathetic so people share their stories with them.It's not necessarily to plot a revenge etc. Hurting people with exposing their secrets and spoiling their images when they have put their faith in you is not something Aquarians enjoy.I carry a lot of people's secrets in my heart and I will not break their faith at any cost.
Yeah I agree with all of this.
My dad and sister are Aquas and they hate how nosy I am. My dad just smirks and shakes his head when I ask what's going on with something I've overheard.
I just couldn't see then using secrets against people.
Posted by brianafay
Posted by AquaMermaid
Using people's personal secrets to get back at them is more of a water sign thing. I have seen them doing it most often,even here.May be you see it that way because of your Scorpio moon.I am a Cancer moon so I am shy around unfamiliar faces and retreat to my shell immediately if I feel hurt or threatened.Aquarius Sun is just extremely curious.They appear to be more friendly and empathetic so people share their stories with them.It's not necessarily to plot a revenge etc. Hurting people with exposing their secrets and spoiling their images when they have put their faith in you is not something Aquarians enjoy.I carry a lot of people's secrets in my heart and I will not break their faith at any cost.
Yeah I agree with all of this.
My dad and sister are Aquas and they hate how nosy I am. My dad just smirks and shakes his head when I ask what's going on with something I've overheard.
I just couldn't see then using secrets against people.
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i have a Sagittarius sister, and she's only NOSEY to see if we (me and my husband are doing good as a couple) she invites us over for dinner and then checks us out. Or she'll come over and watch, observe, like a hawk. I know what she's doing. lol
cause she does this to other people, other couples, and then she'll say to me, "oh they aren't doing well. and sure enough, they aren't. But i also see that too, so she doesn't have to tell me something I already know."
oh and also NOSEY if we bought something big. So she can "compete" and buy it too.
J/k on the last part, but only partly.
anyway just FOCUS on your own relationship. lol
Posted by AquaMermaid
Using people's personal secrets to get back at them is more of a water sign thing. I have seen them doing it most often,even here.May be you see it that way because of your Scorpio moon.I am a Cancer moon so I am shy around unfamiliar faces and retreat to my shell immediately if I feel hurt or threatened.Aquarius Sun is just extremely curious.They appear to be more friendly and empathetic so people share their stories with them.It's not necessarily to plot a revenge etc. Hurting people with exposing their secrets and spoiling their images when they have put their faith in you is not something Aquarians enjoy.I carry a lot of people's secrets in my heart and I will not break their faith at any cost.
it's a self preservation mechanism.
you don't want to be around anyone who has NO integrity. Who will be disloyal and backstab you. That's why.
well anyway, it is SWEET that she's doing that cause that means she's concern and wants to know. So i dont blame her. just to add that. Aries sister does the same thing, but she's quiet about it, and you won't notice. (she's dominant water, over 60% seriously), then later i found out from cousin ___ and other close relatives that she said she was watching/observing us while we stayed there and she said we are really great together. And that made me think, hmmmmmm she was observing. Well i do too!! lmao!!! i watch those couples as well.
I will say...you think Sagis shoot arrows when hurt/angry...
Aquas will say the simplest thing - like "no one even likes you" - and at the time you'll be like "oohh playground insult," but I promise you will be crying about it later in private.
Posted by brianafay
I will say...you think Sagis shoot arrows when hurt/angry...Aquas will say the simplest thing - like "no one even likes you" - and at the time you'll be like "oohh playground insult," but I promise you will be crying about it later in private.
why would someone say that? "no one likes you?" thats just mean.
there's alway gonna be people that love you, and you shouldn't worry what others say about you, if you have people that love you.
wanting to want other's approval is a sign that you want outward appreciation from people who don't care about you.
focus on those who do LOVE you. that's the point.
Posted by AquaMermaid
Aquarians are observers. You learn so much more from observing and listening than blabbering all the time about every little thing.This might also look like being sneaky to other people. Anyways, I'm done with this topic.Adios
+1 g'nite.
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by brianafay
I will say...you think Sagis shoot arrows when hurt/angry...Aquas will say the simplest thing - like "no one even likes you" - and at the time you'll be like "oohh playground insult," but I promise you will be crying about it later in private.
why would someone say that? "no one likes you?" thats just mean.
there's alway gonna be people that love you, and you shouldn't worry what others say about you, if you have people that love you.
wanting to want other's approval is a sign that you want outward appreciation from people who don't care about you.
focus on those who do LOVE you. that's the point.
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I kind of like you, but you're also a little annoying ...and I have know idea what you're talking about.
Idk if you misunderstood my post...but you're right...that is mean. That's the point. They do it to hurt you because they feel hurt. I've noticed from growing up with these two that they're highly sensitive but kind of emotionally handicapped in properly expressing it.
I'm pretty upfront and tell people I think socialising is like a game of chess. You pick and choose what you share with people and who you want in your life.
Like Aquamermaid said (*waves haiiii*) I guard my secrets closely so I respect others' in return, what they tell me remains a secret.
Posted by brianafay
I don't find Aquas sneaky at all...do you mean like strategists?
yes. maybe.
Posted by AquaMermaid
Using people's personal secrets to get back at them is more of a water sign thing. I have seen them doing it most often,even here.May be you see it that way because of your Scorpio moon.I am a Cancer moon so I am shy around unfamiliar faces and retreat to my shell immediately if I feel hurt or threatened.Aquarius Sun is just extremely curious.They appear to be more friendly and empathetic so people share their stories with them.It's not necessarily to plot a revenge etc. Hurting people with exposing their secrets and spoiling their images when they have put their faith in you is not something Aquarians enjoy.I carry a lot of people's secrets in my heart and I will not break their faith at any cost.
let me elaborate some more. lol, no where did i say she was plotting revenge or anything like. She's just great at getting information. she is very empathetic and friendly, which is why im her friend š
empathy is sometimes lost on me lmao
Posted by AquaMermaid
Aquarians are observers. You learn so much more from observing and listening than blabbering all the time about every little thing.This might also look like being sneaky to other people. Anyways, I'm done with this topic.Adios
oh yes! we bond over our observation skills.
Posted by Katana
Posted by DMV
Posted by Katana
Yup the ones I know can be sneaky and are slick too.I do think they generally are good friends though and just like the OP I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing, it can be negative if it's utilized that way and vice versa.
let me elaborate. She has a great great social game at work. She gets everyone to tell her their business. People confide in her. But I do keep a bit to myself because to get dirt, sometimes you have to give some dirt up. It may not be her dirt, but its somebodys.
I just tip my hat to her. Shes sneaky.
Yeah you just described this Aqua girl I know. She was always scheming and trying to get information from people and it's funny that you said that bit about you giving dirt to get some because that's the same tactic she would use lol She would socialize with everyone and tell certain people some of her business (irrelevant shit) so that they would dish out theirs or she'd get close to them to then be able to ask them for favors. I think it was a combination of her just being nosey and also sneaky. Either way, it's smart and also very manipulative.
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YES! the irrelevant dirt she gives up. Almost like when pluto people tell you perceived secrets. but really its public information.
Since im not privy to all her convos, i keep most of my dirt to myself. i just cant run the risk.
My libra boss is very good at this shit too. its like "nice" manipulation. Im trying ot find the right words. Its almost like you dont mind being manipulated by them. they do it in such a nice way.
my libra boss can get me to work 20 hours of overtime with a smile. pisces boss, she gotta work overtime.
Posted by Katana
Posted by AquaMermaid
Using people's personal secrets to get back at them is more of a water sign thing. I have seen them doing it most often,even here.May be you see it that way because of your Scorpio moon.I am a Cancer moon so I am shy around unfamiliar faces and retreat to my shell immediately if I feel hurt or threatened.Aquarius Sun is just extremely curious.They appear to be more friendly and empathetic so people share their stories with them.It's not necessarily to plot a revenge etc. Hurting people with exposing their secrets and spoiling their images when they have put their faith in you is not something Aquarians enjoy.I carry a lot of people's secrets in my heart and I will not break their faith at any cost.
Ironically, the Aqua I mentioned also has a Cancer moon??_I'm not going to assume you're sneaky but, another Aqua girl who I find to be just as sneaky as the first is also a Cancer moon (go figure!). I'd write their sneakiness off as just it being due to their moon signs but, some of the other Aquas I can list have Sag moons, Virgo moons (one of them either has a Leo or Virgo moon) with like one water placement or very little water in their charts.
To be fair, I will say that these topics are difficult to discuss though because since it's much easier to get people's Sun signs than it is to get their full charts. I think most people just go off of people's Sun signs and inaccurately attribute certain traits that they observe about them to just their Sun sign without considering their full charts in-depth.
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fair enough
Posted by Rambunctious76
Posted by brianafay
I don't find Aquas sneaky at all...do you mean like strategists?
Same here. Compared to a Scorpio moon, Aquas are far from sneaky.
But similar to a Scorpio moon, there is a method to Aqua madness. Just that most people can't really see it until it's VERY obvious.
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I know she must have some scorpio in her chart because the minute i met her, it was like meeting a long lost friend. immediate bond.
Posted by aquasnoz
I'm pretty upfront and tell people I think socialising is like a game of chess. You pick and choose what you share with people and who you want in your life.Like Aquamermaid said (*waves haiiii*) I guard my secrets closely so I respect others' in return, what they tell me remains a secret.
i totally agree. I had a new found respect for her when she told people that you just have to pick up on DMV's cues and learn how to ride her wave. i am MOODY. you never know what you will get.
i swear it was a moment of "finally, someone gets me." there was nothing but respect from that point.
She has told me that she would never share nething i told her and i believe her.
As a friend, one of the things i like about her is that she wont agree with me. She always gives another viewpoint which equals growth for me.
i think its natural to pick up on your friends' tendencies and habits. shes a good friend who happens to be good at being sneaky.
Posted by Curiousram
Posted by DMV
Why do I find Aquarius people sneaky?
Does anyone elsse feel or think like this?I have a good aqua gal pal, buy I do find her sneaky at times.
No but i find the aqua males are weirdos and always tend to think they can sing and make a career out of it, because all of their "friends" lie to them and say they have a good voice. Lolol
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lol, this was funny
Posted by lisabethur8
and honestly that's NASTY. that's why i am saying what you're doing right now, is very very bad, because you are intentionally saying she's a sneaky fucker who goes and finds dirt on people so she can use it against them later.that sounds like not a good person.
and this is why i am saying what you're posting here, makes me wonder why you are doing this.
bye felicia
I think some of the Aqua people have embraces their ways of the force (being sneaky) and that shits awesome.
Posted by Rambunctious76
LOL @ the irony of a Scorpio moon calling an Aqua sneaky.
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Posted by papparazi
If you want to hate on aqua at least do some research. This is beyond pathetic . May be that green twin can help ya.
please elaborate. which parts are pathetic and where can my green twin help me?
Posted by feby
what's a green twin? Like a jealous twin?
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Ugh cryptic people!!! Please just say what you mean
It's ok. You're amongst friends *smirk*
I have different Aqua friends.
One is additionally armed with Cancer, Cap, Taurus and Libra placements. She is sneaky. Loud and obvious trait of hers.
Another one is modified by Pisces, Scorpio, Rooster and Rooster. She is only a little simpler than the first one. But she can make people pay for her to the same extent. At least I have paid for both.
The third one is a man and has Aries, Leo and Pisces placements. Born in the year of Rat. He is not easy to read. And aloof as the script says. But I am not sure if he has plots.
The 4th, 5th and 6th ones are very busy with life and achievements. I have not seen any signs of sneakiness in them. Specially one woman is full Aqua. Every placement is Aqua but Moon in Cap. She Comes to visit me and stays over night. She says it is because of our astrology talks. I believe her. Fact is hotels in our city are very expensive. But I like her presence. So I don't go there to be mad at her for wanting to save money.
... Pisces, Scorpio, Virgo and Rooster...
Posted by feby
what's a green twin? Like a jealous twin?
a sick twin? a twin that just went paintballing with green paint? *shrugs*
Posted by DwellingOnMove
I have different Aqua friends.
One is additionally armed with Cancer, Cap, Taurus and Libra placements. She is sneaky. Loud and obvious trait of hers.Another one is modified by Pisces, Scorpio, Rooster and Rooster. She is only a little simpler than the first one. But she can make people pay for her to the same extent. At least I have paid for both.
The third one is a man and has Aries, Leo and Pisces placements. Born in the year of Rat. He is not easy to read. And aloof as the script says. But I am not sure if he has plots.
The 4th, 5th and 6th ones are very busy with life and achievements. I have not seen any signs of sneakiness in them. Specially one woman is full Aqua. Every placement is Aqua but Moon in Cap. She Comes to visit me and stays over night. She says it is because of our astrology talks. I believe her. Fact is hotels in our city are very expensive. But I like her presence. So I don't go there to be mad at her for wanting to save money.
omg. lol
my husband and i never want to stay with other people if we vacation anywhere. he would rather rent a house, get a hotel, or bed and breakfast, or rent out a campsite cabin or something. He hates to be around other people he doesn't know.
the one time i wanted him to stay with my relatives in the U.S. when we visited, and they wanted us to stay the entire weekend; we stayed only one night. and they bought us dinner at the restaurant, and bought delicious croissants for breakfast and packed us lunch and snacks on our way out the door.
I was like, gosh. I would actually do the same thing for my relatives.
that was awesome though. i loved it!!! my relatives love my husband, they enjoy his company.
Posted by starlover
I used to work with an aqua woman who I really got on well with but she was sneaky lol....she used to spend her hubbies money without telling him. I told her she was going to hell š and she would laugh at me. She ran circles around him and he was terrified of her. Tough as old boots she was but I saw some goodness in there. I think they are divorced now...
lmao
that sounds like a woman who has her man under control and a Hitler-like woman. lol
i'm married to a Scorpio man. do you think he'd allow me to control assets? Lmao!! ho ho ho. so funny. you all know where that is. besides, he's wayyyyyy better than i am with finances. I just follow him and love him and that's the truth.
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by DwellingOnMove
... Every placement is Aqua but Moon in Cap. She Comes to visit me and stays over night. She says it is because of our astrology talks. I believe her. Fact is hotels in our city are very expensive. ...
... my husband and i never want to stay with other people if we vacation anywhere. he would rather rent a house, get a hotel, or bed and breakfast, or rent out a campsite cabin or something. He hates to be around other people he doesn't know. ...click to expand
As I told I like to be with her and I like to have guests. Only each time I'm wondering if it wouldn't be better for her to go to hotel. Cause often she has an extended conference so she might be at my door at about 21-22 o'clock. She must be mad tired I say to myself each time. And I'm a big talker; I worry for her that she's so tired and has to listen to me.
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Why do I find Aquarius people sneaky?
Does anyone elsse feel or think like this?
I have a good aqua gal pal, buy I do find her sneaky at times.