Hey, it would be great if any Virgirls shed some light on my situation:
I just met an amazing Virgirl that I would like to take things to the next level. I am a Libra and met her at a huge concert for the first time. I took care of her and her friends left her with me so I stayed with her the entire time. She told me she trusted me as she sensed I was trustworthy. Few days later we went for coffee, movies and walks in the park where she told me i was amazing and perfect and had a nice smile. I didn't push or try to go in for a kiss knowing how virgo girls are, so i gave her time and space. I would let her initiate everything. We do get touchy feely and hold hands, hug, lie down in each others' arms at the park. I always compliment her and tell her how she makes me feel. She compliments back and says i make her feel amazing. She said she loved my company and enjoys spending time with me. She even told me things that she says she never told anyone. When i touch her, she shivers and her eyes tell she lovesit-she initiates it. After one time at the movies, she fought so hard that i DO NOT pay for her. When I asked why, we had 'the talk' she did admit that she liked me and she said "you know this already" but she did not want to feel that it is a date because she wasn't sure. When she asked me what i want, i told her that we just met, so i was going with the flow and playing it by ear.
She said she didn't like the uncertainty there. Also she said she "didn't want to go down that road". and at this moment in her life, she doesn't want a relationship and she needs her space, yet she wants me as an amazing friend to call at 3 am in the morning if i need her or she needs me. So she asked me to think this over and let her know what i really want but she wants me to respect what she wants.
So is this a friend zoning technique? I feel she is hot and cold sporadically and I do value her friendship but i am so attracted and infatuated by her. I want more, but i don't want to risk telling her that i want to be more and then lose her as a friend. Also i know she is scared of a relationship cos she is leaving our city at the end of the year, yet I don't want a relationship either. Of course i don't want to sound like i want a fling, but i really just wanna connect with this girl and have fun with her until she has to leave. I promised her i will always be her friend no matter what happens but I need to tell her what i want and give her / myself closure