Mars in Aquarius?

How are you or those you know with these placements?

knew a Taurus with this. detached and Cold. they like when you mirror their detachment. get too close and they'll blame you for having emotions where they had none.

that was my experience with the Taurus. I'm sure other aqua Mars are very nice individuals. I don't think as a Taurus he handled his Aquarius energy very well. on top of that he was a Scorpio moon and Gemini Venus. he was very cruel to me.

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Posted by Shaniajam
How are you or those you know with these placements?

Awesome.

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Please elaborate cause I do get the coldest from time to time

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
knew a Taurus with this. detached and Cold. they like when you mirror their detachment. get too close and they'll blame you for having emotions where they had none.

that was my experience with the Taurus. I'm sure other aqua Mars are very nice individuals. I don't think as a Taurus he handled his Aquarius energy very well. on top of that he was a Scorpio moon and Gemini Venus. he was very cruel to me.

You hit the coldness part on the head and yes mirroring them also... They rarely show emotions too. How do you know when they into you? I guess when they spend time with you? Ugh confusing lol

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Can you explain the coldness and how do you know when they like you if they are emotionless? Almost calculating lol

hmm well he would be hot and cold. if I was warm and expressive he'd say "you're getting too close to me" or once my feelings were hurt because he was being mean and he goes "it's your own fault if your feelings are hurt. I have no obligation to you"

omg lol I thought the other comment was you asking me that.

how do I know they like me- he acted jealous sometimes of other guys in my life, and would act like "why don't you just hang out with them" and be pouty. yet if I ever displayed emotions he would become cold

and yes spending time also shows it. when I was in California (he just moved there) I was scared bc these hobos were surrounding my car rental, and he puffed up his chest and said he'd beat their ass if they did anything and to not be scared LOL. it was weird

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
hmm well he would be hot and cold. if I was warm and expressive he'd say "you're getting too close to me" or once my feelings were hurt because he was being mean and he goes "it's your own fault if your feelings are hurt. I have no obligation to you"

Lol... Geez. Mine just dissapears and resurfaces a day later unphased hahaha. Once my emotions go back in lol

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
omg lol I thought the other comment was you asking me that.

how do I know they like me- he acted jealous sometimes of other guys in my life, and would act like "why don't you just hang out with them" and be pouty. yet if I ever displayed emotions he would become cold

Ok yes I saw the jealousy the other day and he hung up on me once I even mention convo with someone else (his coldness was pushing me away until I'm now used to it). I had started to keep my options open and he did not like it so I'm glad you said that.

Posted by ramengirl
Aquarius in Mars here. I don't notice any difficulties.

Are you ok expressing your feelings and what happens when someone expressing their feelings to you?

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Aquarius in Mars here. I don't notice any difficulties.

Are you ok expressing your feelings and what happens when someone expressing their feelings to you?

Yeah I'm cool with expressing myself. When people express themselves to me I console them and offer advice if they need it. Š

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Cool. So is it safe to say the males or different? Or would the other placements play on this coldness versus warmness?

Are not or

I can tell you Aqua Mars is a feminine placement, probably one of the most natural for women to the point they don't even notice is there, but in men? It's a whole different story.

I've personally (I have venus there too) decided, considering modern society doesn't allow men to be detached for too long (you can't expect women to pursue you), to keep the energy (that I love btw) and channel it in a different way. Basically my project (still a work in progress) is to clean it from its inherent femininity so that I can remove any slightest form of latent insecurity deriving from that placement and turn it into something totally masculine.

I figured the best way to do that is imagining yourself as an Aqua sun, which is for men the opposite of Mars, so very energetic, driven and masculine. Problem is that you have your natal sun already, Pisces in my case, hence you'd be walking around with 2 egos (big already on their own), which is way too much for people around you not be annoyed by your grandiloquence.

But there's a final step in this process.

When I'll be totally comfortable with my Aqua Mars, I guess in a couple of years, I'm going to tone my 2 suns down a notch so as to merge them and be a multifaceted unique Pisces/Aqua sun, with both energies working in synergy with my Mercury Pisces.

P.s. I'm going to be awesome 😄

Posted by RumiLove
They all have this confidence that they're amazing I see :p

..its nice.

My friend with Aqua mars is like that too. ☺

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