Moon in Leo men, what are your core requirements in ideal partner?

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My moon in Leo man loves to receive genuine compliments, I could never OD in that department, also loves to snuggle and cuddle a lot.. very affectionate.. that could be his Leo venus. The BIGGEST number 1. is never to embarrass him in public with bad behavior, vulgarity or loudness. He has a lot of pride in his image and reputation and considers his woman an extension of this.
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never to embarrass him in public with bad behavior, vulgarity or loudness. He has a lot of pride in his image and reputation and considers his woman an extension of this.
Even in private..

If you embarrass me, I'll likely take a long break from you, or maybe never even come back.
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this is interesting. My leo mon man is cuddly and open in private.. I couldn't imagine that I could ever say anything detrimental to embarrass him, but know I know I'll need to be extra careful.
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never to embarrass him in public with bad behavior, vulgarity or loudness. He has a lot of pride in his image and reputation and considers his woman an extension of this.
Even in private..

If you embarrass me, I'll likely take a long break from you, or maybe never even come back.
this is interesting. My leo mon man is cuddly and open in private.. I couldn't imagine that I could ever say anything detrimental to embarrass him, but know I know I'll need to be extra careful.
Attacking my character is a good way of doing so. Especially when you don't allow me a chance to explain myself. I'd rather just not respond once attacked and leave it at that. Time to walk away.
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This makes sense, I agree 100% .


I am a virgo moon and I agree this is unacceptable behavior, on par with disrespect in public.

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If you can't deal with the egotist side of my personality, the need to be pampered emotionally, or my need to "be in control".. It's just not going to work.

On the Scorp board, when women ask about Scorpio men.. I typically give them advice on how to give the man the "illusion of control". I feel that that works with lunar leos in the same way.

There's a fine line and once you cross it.. it's difficult not to simply cast them to the side and go about your life, your way.
And how do you give them the illusion of control?
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If you can't deal with the egotist side of my personality, the need to be pampered emotionally, or my need to "be in control".. It's just not going to work.

On the Scorp board, when women ask about Scorpio men.. I typically give them advice on how to give the man the "illusion of control". I feel that that works with lunar leos in the same way.

There's a fine line and once you cross it.. it's difficult not to simply cast them to the side and go about your life, your way.
Getmisted, would you mind enlightening on how to give the man the "illusion of control"?"


This is the ONE area I struggle with my cancer sun/leo moon most.
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I honestly couldn't tell you.

Make him think he's in control, even if he's not.
good idea, Thanks GetMisted!

Pls feel free to share any other observations...

I'm going to share one, Idk if its my Leo moon man or not but he says he hates drama, yet always tries to rile me up and get me madd or emotional deliberately which makes me angry, I used to explode and he seemed to kinda like it. How can I circumvent this or does he need that fire?
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I honestly couldn't tell you.

Make him think he's in control, even if he's not.
good idea, Thanks GetMisted!

Pls feel free to share any other observations...

I'm going to share one, Idk if its my Leo moon man or not but he says he hates drama, yet always tries to rile me up and get me madd or emotional deliberately which makes me angry, I used to explode and he seemed to kinda like it. How can I circumvent this or does he need that fire?
I hate drama, yes. But it can be exciting. If I'm bored.. I'll tend to find a way to cause it whether I like it or not.
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Yes, I notice that with both my Leo moon and my brother who passed away (Leo moon as well) and my ex bestie.

I don't mind the drama in the males, but the females can be brutal.

Im not sure if I keep giving him this response or maybe I should be cool?

Im just so hotheaded...haha!
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never to embarrass him in public with bad behavior, vulgarity or loudness. He has a lot of pride in his image and reputation and considers his woman an extension of this.
Even in private..

If you embarrass me, I'll likely take a long break from you, or maybe never even come back.
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omg. this.



OP, my husband has this, and omg. that man has a good controlled temper, but if I ever embaress him, better watch the fuck out.

I've never done it personally but,

ever so SLIGHTLY...


He doesn't give a fuck if I bitch and bitch at stuff in private, but if for example, we're in the car, and my voice starts to rise, and if there's people in the next lane,

he'll hit that button so the windows are rolled up.

I'll stop what i'm doing and be quiet until the coast is clear. lol


and i'm a very very good girl in front of everyone, in front of his family, friends, i'm the ultimate lovely lady. I never shame him.

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my virgo overtook me, had to make sure everyone knew.




anal
Now your making up posts with my name, that's funny, Ive dated a virgo, never slept with one, but considering your married to one, I'll trust what you have to say about the anal bit.

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as in you're anal retentive


You clearly stated you were talking your man ... but, continued to reiterate again, and would have tried to state it again if someone hadn't told you that you were clear in what you said.


That means you're anal.
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my virgo overtook me, had to make sure everyone knew.




anal
Now your making up posts with my name, that's funny, Ive dated a virgo, never slept with one, but considering your married to one, I'll trust what you have to say about the anal bit.
as in you're anal retentive


You clearly stated you were talking your man ... but, continued to reiterate again, and would have tried to state it again if someone hadn't told you that you were clear in what you said.


That means you're anal.
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So basically your using my name- CocoKat to post your own quote and then tell me I misinterpreted it! Haha.

For those of you who would like to see the kind of Lying, delusional Fraud P-Angel is, please go to my Personal page and review all my posts you'll never see the one she FAKED with my name. That's ILLEGAL and SLANDEROUS to make up something I didn't write.