Old friends...

I have found that my old friends that I had to drop b/c they betrayed me or became toxic all really miss having me in their life. It really makes me sad, I don't ever want to feel like I am hurting a person. I had another one email this morning that she had a dream of us still being friends and that we were still hanging out. She said she really misses me and she still thinks of me a lot.

I have had this happen many times, I don't cut anyone out of my life for just small stuff. You have to really betray me to finally shut you out. I wonder if they miss the Sun, Moon or Venus aspect of my personality. I wish I knew...

They have all told that me, I was a great loyal friend and so on, I had their backs and was honest with them, that I genuinely cared about them. I hate this feeling that I am abandoning someone.

Would you go back to friendships that you cut out? I don't like drama, I don't like negativity or someone that I feel I can't trust. Some of these girls it's been like 15yrs. 😢

Sorry if this is all over the place, I just feel this sadness over it.

Posted by Rambunctious76
I would, but only if there is assurance that what happened before won't happen again.

Earlier this year I cut off all contact with a childhood friend (30+ years)after an incident of lying to me for drug money. 30+ years and I didn't even know she was dealing...I only knew she did recreational stuff now and again.

What did I learn from that? I learned to listen to my instincts.

I had to cut a friendship of 26rys last year. 😭 That one hurts to think of still.

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
I had to do it with family....or at least keep a very loose hold on them.

It's not fun but it's totally necessary for your mental health.

A year from now....you'll feel so much better. I'll bet you a $ 1.00 🙂

lol So you think I should just keep moving? I typically don't go back but it does make me wonder if I should give it a try.