Pisces and scorpio co-existing in a chart

It seems to me that the scorpio/8th house/pluto (and to some extent Capricorn) parts of my chart expect people to hurt me in some way - pisces, not so much.

But then when they actually do, the pisces parts go "how could they possibly be this mean? Why would someone want to do that to anyone?" and is pretty much absorbing all the hurt, like a sense of losing faith in humanity. While scorp/cap go "yup, you can really not trust anyone. Shit on them. Let's make stuff happen." more in the way that, sure I was prepared, but even though I was somewhat shielded, it hurt my person so bad and deep and in a way I can't even describe and never forgive and I am so, so angry(an anger my pisces mars won't let me externalize).

The above is just a quick and most generalized assessment of what I think does what in my chart.

Now, I'm a cap sun, my scorp/8th/pluto bits are here and there and my pisces bits consists only of my mars and that the ruler of my sun is in the 12th house. So I was wondering how the above would work with people with lots of both scorpio and pisces energies in their charts, and especially those with scorpio or pisces suns and/or moons. I mean, for me it can be really bad. But for you...holy friggin crap.

What are your experiences; how does it work for you, and what do you do to manage?