Problems in my Mother's Chart?

Can anyone analyze what may be making life difficult for my mother? From relationships, to career, to having a hard time maintaining stability emotionally, etc?



Also any predictions, or maybe you have some insight on some things she has gone through.

Well for starters her Moon is in Cancer in 6th. But being raised by her has been basically an emotional roller-coaster. She has never been in a serious relationship besides the man that is my father for a few months, and the man she was married to for about a year, besides that she's dated back and forth and never has A. picked the right man or B. has never allowed a man to love her. So I've been without a father figure with no hope of getting one all 19 years of my life.

Then she changes her mind and makes these huge "life changing" decisions to change her perception about things maybe once every 1-3 years. She went from being a Christian, to being a Deist, and now she's decorating her room with Buddhist items, and is obsessed with Buddha heads. Then on top of that, my birth chart even reflects having an emotionally disturbed mother, and I have attracted girls/women who are just as emotionally unavailable as her. The two girls I have loved/love the most have been a Taurus and now the current Capricorn I'm pursuing. Both similar to my mother in a lot of ways, emotionally unstable and unavailable, self-centered, and self-absorbed, with a limited attention span, and a level of absent mindedness to the concerns of others.

lookit that big fat Cardinal Grand Cross

Intense energy, one could be extremely successful at life, or bomb like hell

Posted by Wynter
lookit that big fat Cardinal Grand Cross

Intense energy, one could be extremely successful at life, or bomb like hell

Isn't there also a grand trine in there, as well... Air

Pluto, Venus, Saturn?

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by Wynter
lookit that big fat Cardinal Grand Cross

Intense energy, one could be extremely successful at life, or bomb like hell

Isn't there also a grand trine in there, as well... Air

Pluto, Venus, Saturn?

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Sure enough. And a mystic rectangle as well (Neptune Pluto mars Saturn)

All these energies clashing must be a distraction for mother. Too many paths to choose from, but unwilling to commit to any one. Is my guess.

Posted by Wynter

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by Wynter
lookit that big fat Cardinal Grand Cross

Intense energy, one could be extremely successful at life, or bomb like hell

Isn't there also a grand trine in there, as well... Air

Pluto, Venus, Saturn?

Sure enough. And a mystic rectangle as well (Neptune Pluto mars Saturn)

All these energies clashing must be a distraction for mother. Too many paths to choose from, but unwilling to commit to any one. Is my guess.

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Agreed.

And

No aspect lines have been added for Chiron--

which may shed more light on the when thing.

Or confusion 😄

*whole thing

LOL

Posted by AquaWillis
... Then she changes her mind and makes these huge "life changing" decisions to change her perception about things maybe once every 1-3 years. She went from being a Christian, to being a Deist, and now she's decorating her room with Buddhist items, and is obsessed with Buddha heads. Then on top of that, my birth chart even reflects having an emotionally disturbed mother, and I have attracted girls/women who are just as emotionally unavailable as her. The two girls I have loved/love the most have been a Taurus and now the current Capricorn I'm pursuing. Both similar to my mother in a lot of ways, emotionally unstable and unavailable, self-centered, and self-absorbed, with a limited attention span, and a level of absent mindedness to the concerns of others.

Well, this chart shows a person with uranian and neptunian accents.
This is why changes and self-dissolution belong to the picture you get from her.

1.a) She has Neptune and Mercury in the 11th house. (11~Uranus~Aquarius~unexpected)
1.b) She has Venus and North Node in Aquarius, see above.

2) She has Jupiter and Sun in the 12th house. The house of self-dissolution in good and bad sense. She can give her best to others to make them happy. Or she damages her own interests.

3.a) She has only one Earth sign placement.
3.b) Her 2nd and 10th (earth) houses are empty.
3.c) Her 6th contains the hearty cancer.

4) With Jupiter in Sagittarius she is well supported by the universe to go through life despite the lack of touch to the earth.

5) Saturn in Gemini together Sun in Cap make that she is unsatisfied with her own ways. Especially when Cap and Caner starts worrying about money.

Here is a far more detailed chart on her, with Lilith and all that Chiron, all that:

So far I agree with everyone, and I'm still researching to see possible solutions, and ways to help her.

Do you know why mothers are different from each other? Because children are different. There are different copies of us and our lives. Like different animals and plants in the documentaries I fascinatedly watch.

For that life is interesting. And worth living.

Maybe helful if you check in which sign and house her Part/Lot of Fortuna is. So you can tell her what to do to raise her luck.

When I see her empty 2nd and 8th houses, I get the impression God did not want her to have money. It is hard for a CapSun-CapAC-CancerMoon, I know.

For the empty houses we have to look at their rulers.
At the cusp of the 2nd house we have Aquarius. Its ruler is Uranus which is in Libra (in the 9th house). It seems learning/teaching art and beauty could be of her benefit. Or travelling for them.

I guess she is all for spirituality and religions because of not empty 9th house as well as Mercury and Jupiter in Sag. Maybe she's wondering how she could bring it so far despite instabilities. So she tries to connect to the sources of her support.

I talk things here without being an astrologer. be cautious with me.