@mysteriousTaurus
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Best partners
At one point I was obsessed with Pisces, but I eventually realized that it won't ever work out with them. 😭
Through a process of elimination, I've concluded that Sagittarius, Aries, Leo, Libra and Cancer are my best bets for an ideal partner.
I think that I may not be worthy of a Cancer though. I also think that an Aries may suit me, too, but I (really) dunno (hahah see what I did there..). I find Aries suns (at least the ones I've met) to be obnoxious and two-faced, similar to their Libran counterparts. I don't think all of them are like that though. Any fire sign would be fine for me; I just don't want any earth signs, or Libras - though maybe there'll be that one special Libra that won't be super gossip-y or intrusive. Fish are too sensitive (which isn't a bad thing, it's just not a characteristic I want in my ideal partner). Scorpios are too high-minded (again, not necessarily a bad thing but I find most Scorpios I meet to think too highly of themselves while at the same time being unreasonably bossy). No Gemini for me. Maybe Aquarius.
Posted by ireallydunno
At one point I was obsessed with Pisces, but I eventually realized that it won't ever work out with them. 😭Through a process of elimination, I've concluded that Sagittarius, Aries, Leo, Libra and Cancer are my best bets for an ideal partner.
I think that I may not be worthy of a Cancer though. I also think that an Aries may suit me, too, but I (really) dunno (hahah see what I did there..). I find Aries suns (at least the ones I've met) to be obnoxious and two-faced, similar to their Libran counterparts. I don't think all of them are like that though. Any fire sign would be fine for me; I just don't want any earth signs, or Libras - though maybe there'll be that one special Libra that won't be super gossip-y or intrusive. Fish are too sensitive (which isn't a bad thing, it's just not a characteristic I want in my ideal partner). Scorpios are too high-minded (again, not necessarily a bad thing but I find most Scorpios I meet to think too highly of themselves while at the same time being unreasonably bossy). No Gemini for me. Maybe Aquarius.
Why don't you think you're worthy of a Cancer?
And why did you list Libra and Aries if you think they're two-faced, etc?
Yes... but their choices make me cringe so nah
Posted by MoonArtistWhy don't you think you're worthy of a Cancer?
And why did you list Libra and Aries if you think they're two-faced, etc?
I imagine that I would not be able to fulfill the needs of my Cancerian partner as far as time and finances (they really like shopping) are concerned. I say this because I have several close relatives who are Cancers and they are very needy. They needs lots of attention and they do deserve it, however; I'm the kind of person who needs a lot of alone time and therefore would not be able to satisfy these needs.
I also listed Libra and Aries because they have certain characteristics that I'm fond of, and I also don't think all of them are like how I described (I actually mentioned this in my post). That being said, the chances of me finding an ideal Libra or Aries are slim..
Posted by ireallydunno
Posted by MoonArtistWhy don't you think you're worthy of a Cancer?
And why did you list Libra and Aries if you think they're two-faced, etc?
I imagine that I would not be able to fulfill the needs of my Cancerian partner as far as time and finances (they really like shopping) are concerned. I say this because I have several close relatives who are Cancers and they are very needy. They needs lots of attention and they do deserve it, however; I'm the kind of person who needs a lot of alone time and therefore would not be able to satisfy these needs.
I also listed Libra and Aries because they have certain characteristics that I'm fond of, and I also don't think all of them are like how I described (I actually mentioned this in my post). That being said, the chances of me finding an ideal Libra or Aries are slim..
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Fair enough. 🙂
water signs are what I'm attracted to the most. Especially cancers 🙂
I just cannot with fire. All of my relationships/flings with fire signs have been train wrecks but awesome sex and insane physical attraction because fire and water make steam. If I had to pick a fire sign, I'd go with Leo.
I don't find myself extremely physically attracted to earth, but I find I have the types of relationships with them that have a strong friendship foundation. Maybe that's the Cap Ascendant. I am definitely a fan of relationships with Virgos, and it makes sense on the old theory that Virgo and Scorpio were once the same sign.
I also just cannot with air. I'm too busy in the emotional waters and they're way up above me in the air. There's no connect. One Gemini told me he could make decisions without any emotional influence whatsoever and he could separate his thoughts and emotions completely and I realized I was at the beginning of the end of that relationship. Again, if I had to pick, I'd go with Libra. My mother is a Libra, so I kinda get how they think and work. Aqua is a close second.
I've had some of my longest relationships and most emotional relationships (obvs) with water. My longest relationship was with a Pisces. But I'm not a fan of dating Cancer. I find them to be too sensitive for me, but that could easily be me as an unevolved Scorpio still leaving a path of destruction in my wake.
In terms of my own sign, not a fan of Scorpio men, or rather, haven't met any good ones yet/lately. I find me to be too much for me, and I get irritated at too much of me.
I want to try a cancer but the the whole Pisces+Scorpio=Happiness hasn't happened for me.
Friends, I love leos, sag, libras, virgos, taurus and caps are good friends. Romantically, nyet!
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Posted by DeezNuts247
water signs are what I'm attracted to the most. Especially cancers 🙂
You like them because they let you be a mush gushy clinger. They like that aspect in a person........but, when you need alone time they still want the foot rubs and back scratching. You wont have much alone time. Cancers are good peeps.....just saying
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Alone time? No thanks lol. I literally wanna spend every second I can with the person I love.
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Posted by mysteriousTaurus
Is there any sign that you strictly want as a significant other.
THIS ONE:
omg
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Sounds fattening.
Posted by starlover
Posted by DeezNuts247
Posted by Ssupes
Posted by DeezNuts247
water signs are what I'm attracted to the most. Especially cancers 🙂
You like them because they let you be a mush gushy clinger. They like that aspect in a person........but, when you need alone time they still want the foot rubs and back scratching. You wont have much alone time. Cancers are good peeps.....just saying
Alone time? No thanks lol. I literally wanna spend every second I can with the person I love.
God, that sounds unhealthy
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thx lol
Posted by seraph
Posted by DeezNuts247
Posted by Ssupes
Posted by DeezNuts247
water signs are what I'm attracted to the most. Especially cancers 🙂
You like them because they let you be a mush gushy clinger. They like that aspect in a person........but, when you need alone time they still want the foot rubs and back scratching. You wont have much alone time. Cancers are good peeps.....just saying
Alone time? No thanks lol. I literally wanna spend every second I can with the person I love.
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Good one.......... Not
I would still want to try a Scorpio and perhaps another Aquarius. But I am perfectly happy with my Cancer and that is quite frankly my reason for not visiting this forum that much lately.
Mixing in some of that S & A though... 😛
Posted by starlover
Posted by DeezNuts247
Posted by starlover
Posted by DeezNuts247
Posted by Ssupes
Posted by DeezNuts247
water signs are what I'm attracted to the most. Especially cancers 🙂
You like them because they let you be a mush gushy clinger. They like that aspect in a person........but, when you need alone time they still want the foot rubs and back scratching. You wont have much alone time. Cancers are good peeps.....just saying
Alone time? No thanks lol. I literally wanna spend every second I can with the person I love.
God, that sounds unhealthy
thx lol
That used to be me.......just looking back it wasnt good for me to be that way.....it can also leave one very disappointed
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It's not good because it's hard to find someone who can give you all the things you want. You shouldn't have to be disappointed because of others, and I dont think you should settle for any less than what you want just because other people cant give you what you want. I'm sure there is someone out there who I will be more than happy to be with 🙂
@Dezznutz. Aww how cute. Really every second though...
Posted by starlover
Posted by TigerCap
I would still want to try a Scorpio and perhaps another Aquarius. But I am perfectly happy with my Cancer and that is quite frankly my reason for not visiting this forum that much lately.Mixing in some of that S & A though... 😛
You are happy with your Cancer but would still like to try two other signs?? Glad i am not that cancer woman/man
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Nothing that dramatic Starlover. We've only been together since spring and we have several big crossroads coming up that might make it difficult for us to stay together.
But I love the silly girl, and that is something that is not always easy for me to say. I hope we can make it last. 🙂
With people talking about who they still wanted to try, I thought I would weigh in with my list. Nothing more, nothing less.
Sounds like something happened that makes you sensitive to thoughts like this?
Posted by Ssupes
Posted by DeezNuts247
water signs are what I'm attracted to the most. Especially cancers 🙂
You like them because they let you be a mush gushy clinger. They like that aspect in a person........but, when you need alone time they still want the foot rubs and back scratching. You wont have much alone time. Cancers are good peeps.....just saying
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Obviously you know nothing about Cancers. Our moods change too frequently to want to be up our partner's ass 24/7. We have shell time for a reason.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@Dezznutz. Aww how cute. Really every second though...
Yeah, really lol. When Im in a relationship only that person matters. I didnt wanna be with my friends or anyone else tbh, Id choose her over them easily. I also have venus conjunct pluto and that seems to describe my "obsessiveness" pretty well lol
Posted by MoonArtist
Posted by Ssupes
Posted by DeezNuts247
water signs are what I'm attracted to the most. Especially cancers 🙂
You like them because they let you be a mush gushy clinger. They like that aspect in a person........but, when you need alone time they still want the foot rubs and back scratching. You wont have much alone time. Cancers are good peeps.....just saying
Obviously you know nothing about Cancers. Our moods change too frequently to want to be up our partner's ass 24/7. We have shell time for a reason.
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Not all cancers are like that. And one like that isn't one I'd be interested in lol
Posted by MoonArtist
Obviously you know nothing about Cancers. Our moods change too frequently to want to be up our partner's ass 24/7. We have shell time for a reason.
My grandma and aunt both regularly demand foot-rubs from their SOs.
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Posted by seraph
Posted by mysteriousTaurus
Is there any sign that you strictly want as a significant other.
THIS ONE:
omg
Sounds fattening.
Which is why a little alone time is part of any successful relationship.
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No Lion!
You need a partner in crime to help you scarf down your fattening cheese burger.
Posted by TigerCap
Posted by starlover
Posted by TigerCap
I would still want to try a Scorpio and perhaps another Aquarius. But I am perfectly happy with my Cancer and that is quite frankly my reason for not visiting this forum that much lately.Mixing in some of that S & A though... 😛
You are happy with your Cancer but would still like to try two other signs?? Glad i am not that cancer woman/man
That is proof of what i just wrote above
...............But I love the silly girl, ..............
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I am so tickled by this one statement. 😆
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Posted by ireallydunno
At one point I was obsessed with Pisces, but I eventually realized that it won't ever work out with them. 😭Through a process of elimination, I've concluded that Sagittarius, Aries, Leo, Libra and Cancer are my best bets for an ideal partner.
I think that I may not be worthy of a Cancer though. I also think that an Aries may suit me, too, but I (really) dunno (hahah see what I did there..). I find Aries suns (at least the ones I've met) to be obnoxious and two-faced, similar to their Libran counterparts. I don't think all of them are like that though. Any fire sign would be fine for me; I just don't want any earth signs, or Libras - though maybe there'll be that one special Libra that won't be super gossip-y or intrusive. Fish are too sensitive (which isn't a bad thing, it's just not a characteristic I want in my ideal partner). Scorpios are too high-minded (again, not necessarily a bad thing but I find most Scorpios I meet to think too highly of themselves while at the same time being unreasonably bossy). No Gemini for me. Maybe Aquarius.
Your Aries comments don't apply to me so I will overlook them... But it is nice/odd to hear someone who actually WANTS to date an Aries. Seems like we are never included in people's lists of desires
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I'm a big fan. I don't think I ever stopped expressing how desirable this sign is to me. Friendship, family, relationship, anything.
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Is there any sign that you strictly want as a significant other. Lately all I have been thinking about is only sign. I don't want any other one..... I think they fit so me perfectly.
Anyone else ever went through this kind of phase where you are so infatuated with a certain sign?