Most of my friends are like that and none like clubbing. We do attend live music performances but we're all involved in our local music scene in some way (usually the performers ourselves).
Since saturn is about work (right?), and the 5th house ruling creativity, maybe it would be good for you to engage in something similar. Maybe that is where your worlds will meet and all can gain satisfaction with each other.
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Does anybody else here have trouble relaxing and performing activities others consider "fun"?