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Scorp Ascending Drawback
I've got a Scorp asc...and a Sag sun/moon...I've said some stingers before without thinking. I'm always joking around people I don't know well in order to lighten the mood and now that someone pointed it out, also to gauge their reaction and attempt to figure them out - to an extent at least. Most of the time it's just me being a goofy smartass though 😄
Posted by -elle-Sag would be expected to say before one thinks?
Yes....but I always attributed to my foot in mouth merc in sag.
I have Merc in Taurus Retrograde idk if that has to do with it too?
Posted by -elle-Ahhh, I have that as well! Must have something to do with it! haha
Yes....but I always attributed to my foot in mouth merc in sag.
Posted by CuddleBug88I'm with you, I like to laugh and I am mostly in good humor throughout the day, but I guess I focus in and like a snake about to strike, my mouth takes over. I havent gotten it pointed out but I think that comment alone was enough to leave a bad impression.
I've got a Scorp asc...and a Sag sun/moon...I've said some stingers before without thinking. I'm always joking around people I don't know well in order to lighten the mood and now that someone pointed it out, also to gauge their reaction and attempt to figure them out - to an extent at least. Most of the time it's just me being a goofy smartass though 😄
Have you been able to manage it?
Posted by umisaidIt depends on my mood...if you're irritating me then it's gloves off, even though I regret saying half the stuff once the words leave my mouth. I'm always apologizing and trying to compromise and actually understand the other person's POV...I really just wanna love up on everyone but sometimes I just can't help myself!Posted by CuddleBug88I'm with you, I like to laugh and I am mostly in good humor throughout the day, but I guess I focus in and like a snake about to strike, my mouth takes over. I havent gotten it pointed out but I think that comment alone was enough to leave a bad impression.
I've got a Scorp asc...and a Sag sun/moon...I've said some stingers before without thinking. I'm always joking around people I don't know well in order to lighten the mood and now that someone pointed it out, also to gauge their reaction and attempt to figure them out - to an extent at least. Most of the time it's just me being a goofy smartass though 😄
Have you been able to manage it?click to expand
Posted by ExplicitOh so you're honest to the point where you tell them they don't look good? I dont know if I am that honest lol but the snide remarks at times yea.
I thought that was my Sagittarius Moon or Mars Square Pluto or something.
I have this Ascendant + 1st House Pluto and when I'm mad... Lord Jesus. I don't even want to repeat the horrible things I've said. 😢
Also, I hate it when people ask me "how do I look in this dress?" or whatever because if I don't think they look good it will come out like word vomit and then I'm punching myself in the face in my head.
It's crazy to think some of the things we have said when we are mad huh but its ok, forgive ourselves and others, then move on. Make the next day a better one
Posted by Lord-PaladinAhhh yes, trying to be honest without being harsh is tricky for me.Posted by CuddleBug88Sometimes you shouldn't help yourself. Sometimes, people need to be set straight. So long as your words are honest, their brutality can be smoothed over... Just don't apologize for the truth, itself.Posted by umisaidIt depends on my mood...if you're irritating me then it's gloves off, even though I regret saying half the stuff once the words leave my mouth. I'm always apologizing and trying to compromise and actually understand the other person's POV...I really just wanna love up on everyone but sometimes I just can't help myself!Posted by CuddleBug88I'm with you, I like to laugh and I am mostly in good humor throughout the day, but I guess I focus in and like a snake about to strike, my mouth takes over. I havent gotten it pointed out but I think that comment alone was enough to leave a bad impression.
I've got a Scorp asc...and a Sag sun/moon...I've said some stingers before without thinking. I'm always joking around people I don't know well in order to lighten the mood and now that someone pointed it out, also to gauge their reaction and attempt to figure them out - to an extent at least. Most of the time it's just me being a goofy smartass though 😄
Have you been able to manage it?click to expand
Posted by umisaidit is in fact something i do as well. Scorp rising.
"You cannot refrain from testing others with cutting remarks, not because you want to hurt them, but because you want to know them better through their reaction"
So i got that from having a Scorp ASC and I have to say I agree, I am nice on here but at times before I know it, in real life, I am saying something that I can't believe I said.
My foot in moff i blame on my saggie bits.. with a cutting cap merc and this rising... watch out.
Posted by CuddleBug88I noticed that if a person left a bad taste in my mouth, then I load up to strike. I just noticed that right now with your comment.Posted by umisaidIt depends on my mood...if you're irritating me then it's gloves off, even though I regret saying half the stuff once the words leave my mouth. I'm always apologizing and trying to compromise and actually understand the other person's POV...I really just wanna love up on everyone but sometimes I just can't help myself!Posted by CuddleBug88I'm with you, I like to laugh and I am mostly in good humor throughout the day, but I guess I focus in and like a snake about to strike, my mouth takes over. I havent gotten it pointed out but I think that comment alone was enough to leave a bad impression.
I've got a Scorp asc...and a Sag sun/moon...I've said some stingers before without thinking. I'm always joking around people I don't know well in order to lighten the mood and now that someone pointed it out, also to gauge their reaction and attempt to figure them out - to an extent at least. Most of the time it's just me being a goofy smartass though 😄
Have you been able to manage it?click to expand
If people are nice we are cool.
Posted by Lord-Paladinhardy har harPosted by justagirl"Saggie bits"? C'mon, you're nowhere near that old! 😛Posted by umisaidit is in fact something i do as well. Scorp rising.
"You cannot refrain from testing others with cutting remarks, not because you want to hurt them, but because you want to know them better through their reaction"
So i got that from having a Scorp ASC and I have to say I agree, I am nice on here but at times before I know it, in real life, I am saying something that I can't believe I said.
My foot in moff i blame on my saggie bits.. with a cutting cap merc and this rising... watch out.click to expand
sag placements.
Posted by umisaidSame. Although if someone's not nice, I will try my best to ignore them...doesn't work all the time though.Posted by CuddleBug88I noticed that if a person left a bad taste in my mouth, then I load up to strike. I just noticed that right now with your comment.Posted by umisaidIt depends on my mood...if you're irritating me then it's gloves off, even though I regret saying half the stuff once the words leave my mouth. I'm always apologizing and trying to compromise and actually understand the other person's POV...I really just wanna love up on everyone but sometimes I just can't help myself!Posted by CuddleBug88I'm with you, I like to laugh and I am mostly in good humor throughout the day, but I guess I focus in and like a snake about to strike, my mouth takes over. I havent gotten it pointed out but I think that comment alone was enough to leave a bad impression.
I've got a Scorp asc...and a Sag sun/moon...I've said some stingers before without thinking. I'm always joking around people I don't know well in order to lighten the mood and now that someone pointed it out, also to gauge their reaction and attempt to figure them out - to an extent at least. Most of the time it's just me being a goofy smartass though 😄
Have you been able to manage it?
If people are nice we are cool.click to expand
You know, now I'm wondering if my Aries mars has anything to do with my sassy remarks too... 😛
Posted by Lord-Paladini can see this, yesPosted by CuddleBug88Sometimes you shouldn't help yourself. Sometimes, people need to be set straight. So long as your words are honest, their brutality can be smoothed over... Just don't apologize for the truth, itself.Posted by umisaidIt depends on my mood...if you're irritating me then it's gloves off, even though I regret saying half the stuff once the words leave my mouth. I'm always apologizing and trying to compromise and actually understand the other person's POV...I really just wanna love up on everyone but sometimes I just can't help myself!Posted by CuddleBug88I'm with you, I like to laugh and I am mostly in good humor throughout the day, but I guess I focus in and like a snake about to strike, my mouth takes over. I havent gotten it pointed out but I think that comment alone was enough to leave a bad impression.
I've got a Scorp asc...and a Sag sun/moon...I've said some stingers before without thinking. I'm always joking around people I don't know well in order to lighten the mood and now that someone pointed it out, also to gauge their reaction and attempt to figure them out - to an extent at least. Most of the time it's just me being a goofy smartass though 😄
Have you been able to manage it?click to expand
Posted by ExplicitGod exists and I believe, I am happy you found your closure. I have various instances like the one you mentioned. I dont have the guts to apologize.Posted by umisaidPosted by ExplicitOh so you're honest to the point where you tell them they don't look good? I dont know if I am that honest lol but the snide remarks at times yea.
I thought that was my Sagittarius Moon or Mars Square Pluto or something.
I have this Ascendant + 1st House Pluto and when I'm mad... Lord Jesus. I don't even want to repeat the horrible things I've said. 😢
Also, I hate it when people ask me "how do I look in this dress?" or whatever because if I don't think they look good it will come out like word vomit and then I'm punching myself in the face in my head.
It's crazy to think some of the things we have said when we are mad huh but its ok, forgive ourselves and others, then move on. Make the next day a better one
I was a bully in middle school. This guy (won't name him) said something snarky to me and I destroyed him verbally until he cried. I didn't care at all and even laughed. He had me called into the office crying and the principal told me if I threatened him again the cops would be called. I just avoided him after that.
Years later in High School I saw him working at Loblaws. I was way smarter and more sensitive to people by then. I had "grown up" I guess you could say. When he noticed me his face dropped and he looked so scared. I went over there and hugged him and asked him how he was doing... lol. I didn't address the past because it's awkward but I just wanted to make him feel comfortable and it was kind of like my "apology" in a way...
Every time I see him in the area now he always comes up and says hi. I feel like God, the universe or whatever wanted me to make that right and thank God I had the opportunity to.click to expand
Posted by justagirlDo you say it just to say it or with intention in mind?Posted by umisaidit is in fact something i do as well. Scorp rising.
"You cannot refrain from testing others with cutting remarks, not because you want to hurt them, but because you want to know them better through their reaction"
So i got that from having a Scorp ASC and I have to say I agree, I am nice on here but at times before I know it, in real life, I am saying something that I can't believe I said.
My foot in moff i blame on my saggie bits.. with a cutting cap merc and this rising... watch out.click to expand
Posted by TheLibraMudraSo something has to initiate it before anything happens?
I'm pretty nice and understanding.
If I am wronged, though..
First comes the shooting dagger looks.
Second comes the words I can't even believe I am using
and later on comes third... My terrible habit of pinning someone down over and over with what they did to fuck up just to torture them until I get bored of it.
Now, now, I know this doesn't seem like me but it happens. I have to meditate and yoga to make room to let go. I can be obsessive over things like lying, cheating, suspicious behavior. My past plays a roll in that too.
I guess that is the main question I am wondering?
I typically remember the slight and then wait for the right moment to strike. Dumb I know.
Posted by umisaidi have major foot in mouth. so typcially without intention. but i do like to shock to get reactions sometimes Thats My Aqua sun/scorp risisng, thats usually when im interested in someone and i am gauging themPosted by justagirlDo you say it just to say it or with intention in mind?Posted by umisaidit is in fact something i do as well. Scorp rising.
"You cannot refrain from testing others with cutting remarks, not because you want to hurt them, but because you want to know them better through their reaction"
So i got that from having a Scorp ASC and I have to say I agree, I am nice on here but at times before I know it, in real life, I am saying something that I can't believe I said.
My foot in moff i blame on my saggie bits.. with a cutting cap merc and this rising... watch out.click to expand
Posted by TheLibraMudraHm ok I guess remembering my story I do recall the family sort of pressuring me. I guess it might be a reflex at times? Because for me to say that comment at the right time, right moment, to illicit the awkward silence, it is no coincidence.
@umisaid
Yes. Something has to happen first before
I act like that.
When you tell someone something will they initially fire back or stay with their mouth open? Haha
Posted by justagirlI had no ideas aquas gauge peoplePosted by umisaidi have major foot in mouth. so typcially without intention. but i do like to shock to get reactions sometimes Thats My Aqua sun/scorp risisng, thats usually when im interested in someone and i am gauging themPosted by justagirlDo you say it just to say it or with intention in mind?Posted by umisaidit is in fact something i do as well. Scorp rising.
"You cannot refrain from testing others with cutting remarks, not because you want to hurt them, but because you want to know them better through their reaction"
So i got that from having a Scorp ASC and I have to say I agree, I am nice on here but at times before I know it, in real life, I am saying something that I can't believe I said.
My foot in moff i blame on my saggie bits.. with a cutting cap merc and this rising... watch out.
click to expand
Posted by umisaidnod..... its part of our choosing who to let in 🙂Posted by justagirlI had no ideas aquas gauge peoplePosted by umisaidi have major foot in mouth. so typcially without intention. but i do like to shock to get reactions sometimes Thats My Aqua sun/scorp risisng, thats usually when im interested in someone and i am gauging themPosted by justagirlDo you say it just to say it or with intention in mind?Posted by umisaidit is in fact something i do as well. Scorp rising.
"You cannot refrain from testing others with cutting remarks, not because you want to hurt them, but because you want to know them better through their reaction"
So i got that from having a Scorp ASC and I have to say I agree, I am nice on here but at times before I know it, in real life, I am saying something that I can't believe I said.
My foot in moff i blame on my saggie bits.. with a cutting cap merc and this rising... watch out.
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Posted by leowwwI thought that rising is appearance and whatnot too but also it's how you come across to others as well? I could be wrong but whatevs haha. I think my mars has something to do with it too, idk though.
I'm Mars + Rising Scorpio
This is confusing... Isn't Rising... Apparence..Looks?
I didn't think it had influence w/personality...
My words they cut when I'm angry.. But I thought that had everything to do with my mars..
Posted by TheLibraMudraYea this has happened before, now that I am getting into astrology I understand that it has more to do than simply sun sign.Posted by umisaidHATE being pressured. Especially when I have already said no. Quiet but seething.Posted by TheLibraMudraHm ok I guess remembering my story I do recall the family sort of pressuring me. I guess it might be a reflex at times? Because for me to say that comment at the right time, right moment, to illicit the awkward silence, it is no coincidence.
@umisaid
Yes. Something has to happen first before
I act like that.
When you tell someone something will they initially fire back or stay with their mouth open? Haha
People can feel it from across the room. I can drop a bomb with a few words to shut everyone up too. It's surprising for them since it's the opposite of how I usually am.
The only person that ever fired back exactly the same and worse was my ex
Scorpio sun
Aqua moon
Leo rising
Not a good couple. At all.click to expand
I guess the reason why comments are said like the ones mentioned is to show that one will not be stepped on? Setting boundaries?
And triple fixed person haha must have been an experience. I am triple fixed too.
Posted by leowwwI mistakenly thought anger was solemnly attributed to sun sign, but yea I am sure mars has a lot to do with it, I read on the website that Scorpio ASC does give way to appearance, not only looks, but the way we are seen in our personality if that makes sense.
I'm Mars + Rising Scorpio
This is confusing... Isn't Rising... Appearance ..Looks?
I didn't think it had influence w/personality...
My words they cut when I'm angry.. But I thought that had everything to do with my mars..
Posted by Tirano24Idiotic? I don't get why it was?Posted by umisaidNo, your comment was just idiotic.
"You cannot refrain from testing others with cutting remarks, not because you want to hurt them, but because you want to know them better through their reaction"
So i got that from having a Scorp ASC and I have to say I agree, I am nice on here but at times before I know it, in real life, I am saying something that I can't believe I said.
For example:
I was speaking with a family where i volunteer, as far as i can tell this family doesnt work(this was not part of the convo just figured id give some background). Well, someone mentioned that a buying a toy for Xmas would be expensive. Before I knew it, I said, "Well that is why we recycle cans"
No one laughed, and then the father said after a minute, yes that does come in handy, to which I replied, I know I recycle every two months or so (I do).
Honest, I said it to make it a joke. But no one laughed. Which made me think how much of a jerk I came off as.
Wondering if it is only me? I cannot solemnly blame scorp ascending and I know it is STUPID to even make this thread but I want to see if anyone else has had experiences like this?
Also, I am working on self-control. I hate making anyone feel bad.
I do test others. I don't go hard unless I have evidence. People are full of shit get treated like shit. It's simple. When they can't come out and be honest about their true self or intentions, I troll them.click to expand
Ah I see. I usually ignore people but trolling seems like it might be more work yet the presence is felt. Where is your mars?
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Wondering if it is only me? I cannot solemnly blame scorp ascending and I know it is STUPID to even make this thread but I want to see if anyone else has had experiences like this?
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