What are some gestures /signs a Scorpio guy is over you ?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Caprigoat on Tuesday, November 29, 2016 and has 13 replies.

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@yamilette7410
11 Years

If I'm over someone, they're basically dead to me. Modern Cosmic has a good explanation on the nature of Scorpio and why relationships are like the cycle of death and rebirth that Scorpios love to exhibit and it's like death and grieving. Anyways.

Yeah, they're basically dead to me. I know when my last relationship ended I went completely numb. It was like I watched myself in that relationship but was never actively participating in it. Sure, we miss you, but we'll die before we ever admit that. And even if we did admit it, we won't go back, especially if we get majorly screwed over.

Younger Scorpios like myself can plot or be interested in, maybe even execute, revenge. If I let you alllll the way in, and you violated that, it's over and done with.

If you're talking about just dating or talking and this wasn't a relationship, I'm guilty of the slow fade. If you can't catch the slow fade, I'll be blunt and tell you either I'm not interested or that AND I don't want to be friends.

If you have any follow up questions, let me know.

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@Caprigoat
9 Years

How would you know if he doesn't like you but doesn't know how to tell you because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings?

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by yamilette7410
If I'm over someone, they're basically dead to me. Modern Cosmic has a good explanation on the nature of Scorpio and why relationships are like the cycle of death and rebirth that Scorpios love to exhibit and it's like death and grieving. Anyways.

Yeah, they're basically dead to me. I know when my last relationship ended I went completely numb. It was like I watched myself in that relationship but was never actively participating in it. Sure, we miss you, but we'll die before we ever admit that. And even if we did admit it, we won't go back, especially if we get majorly screwed over.

Younger Scorpios like myself can plot or be interested in, maybe even execute, revenge. If I let you alllll the way in, and you violated that, it's over and done with.

If you're talking about just dating or talking and this wasn't a relationship, I'm guilty of the slow fade. If you can't catch the slow fade, I'll be blunt and tell you either I'm not interested or that AND I don't want to be friends.

If you have any follow up questions, let me know.

I think this is exactly why Scorp/Gem relations are the same.

One mistake and you are history!

I went that path since...birth.

You hurt me or insult me - you are gone.

And forever!

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@Stinger408scorp
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Gemitati
Posted by yamilette7410
If I'm over someone, they're basically dead to me. Modern Cosmic has a good explanation on the nature of Scorpio and why relationships are like the cycle of death and rebirth that Scorpios love to exhibit and it's like death and grieving. Anyways.

Yeah, they're basically dead to me. I know when my last relationship ended I went completely numb. It was like I watched myself in that relationship but was never actively participating in it. Sure, we miss you, but we'll die before we ever admit that. And even if we did admit it, we won't go back, especially if we get majorly screwed over.

Younger Scorpios like myself can plot or be interested in, maybe even execute, revenge. If I let you alllll the way in, and you violated that, it's over and done with.

If you're talking about just dating or talking and this wasn't a relationship, I'm guilty of the slow fade. If you can't catch the slow fade, I'll be blunt and tell you either I'm not interested or that AND I don't want to be friends.

If you have any follow up questions, let me know.

I think this is exactly why Scorp/Gem relations are the same.

One mistake and you are history!

I went that path since...birth.

You hurt me or insult me - you are gone.

And forever!

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Lol sad but true

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@Cherrylips
9 Years

Posted by Caprigoat
How would you know if he doesn't like you but doesn't know how to tell you because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings?

If we don't like you we tell you...bluntly. We don't care about not hurting your feelings. In the long run it's better to tell you right away, so you get over us faster. Just ripping the bandaide off! At least that's what I do. And expect the same in return!