taurus female overly curious

hello,

how can i deal with people who are too interested what is going on in my life, life of a group of friends, friends' circle?

i am aries and i have been friends with taurus girl since 10 years. its always been like she was the 'one' with boyfriends, drama and so one. and i was the second one.

when i told myself i need to get out of this situation because she used to control me, my relations, was too suspicious in my opinion- she did drama, she was crying she was loosing her friend.

but i hate when people stick their noses in others life. i hate when people live other's life, i hate when they are interested in your life via facebook, comments, stupid 'likes'.

i am not that interested in others lifes. maybe its wrong.

i see people like to be in a stagnation. for this taurus girl everything must have been like she wanted. when she met someone from some group other friends must have followed her and be in that new group as well.

why is that? why people are like this? within 3-4 years i felt like in a trap. like i couldnt do what i wanted because i have been checked.when i was doing my thing which was other than her thing i was controlled, been asked why, immidiately she became my best friend just to receive new information 🙂

i mean maybe its because she has always been surrounded by a lot of people and she makes people confess very easily. she is a ver good listener and she pretends to be 'nice' in front of ( especially) boys so she takes the information.

when i had an affair 1.5 year ago with one of her friends she became my best friends just to know and see what i was into and if i was into him and so one. i knew her since 10 years so i thought she was just caring for me because she knew me. no i was wrong. she was only curious.

she stalks on facebook. she is always available. and likes and comments everything

Posted by joanne_p
i mean maybe its because she has always been surrounded by a lot of people and she makes people confess very easily. she is a ver good listener and she pretends to be 'nice' in front of ( especially) boys so she takes the information.

when i had an affair 1.5 year ago with one of her friends she became my best friends just to know and see what i was into and if i was into him and so one. i knew her since 10 years so i thought she was just caring for me because she knew me. no i was wrong. she was only curious.

she stalks on facebook. she is always available. and likes and comments everything

How old are you both? This sounds like a young person's problem

I'm a Taurus and I give likes to my FB friends all the time because I'm supportive of friends above all else. Are you imagining she's trying to get information out of you or is this really true? Has she ever betrayed you?

Taurus is genuinely interested in their friends. Not that I'm trying to defend someone I don't know, but it sounds like you should talk to her and tell her how you feel. If she's an adult and as popular as you say, it won't kill her and it will set some necessary boundaries for your relationship which might promote emotional well being on both sides.