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The house your saturn is in...and the house your SO's is in?
My Saturn is Taurus in the 3rd house
His Saturn is also in Taurus, 7 house.
My saturn is in Aquarius in the 11th
His saturn is in Sagittarius in the 4th
Mine: sat in aq in the 3rd.
His: sat in ar in the 1st.
He's not assertive. I'm not a good communicator. Our Sats build sextile though. Two dysfunctional people who function well in their dysfunctionality. dark fun.
Posted by starlover
I have a 9th house Saturn and my ex had an 11th house SaturnNo idea what that meant to the relationship?
you did not want to learn. he did not want to be a friend?
I was very open to learn...he wasn't...very stuck in himself
He very much wanted to stay friends....i didn't
Does that makes sense?
🙂
did I interpret the effect of Saturn wrong? I think I need to read more than to write.
Maybe not?
When you said he did not want to be friends....well we were lovers, very much so but he always said i was his best and only friend
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but now cause we are at it, how do you see his sat in his 11th?
did he have difficulty to integrate into groups/associations? did he have friends?
or did he have to do a lot to keep up with groups and friends?
fill in the blanks if you like to.
Posted by Nemilicious
Me: saturn in cancer 10th house
He: saturn in pisces 6th house
omg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
why am I not surprised.
Fräulein Nemilicious is a nerse. with Cancerian MC. And Saturn right there.
Do you know him from work? Does he work in charity, humanitary help? or is it simply art?
My Saturn is in Aqua in 2nd.
His is in Gemini in the 11th
Na dann prost 🍹
Ja, mir wurde auch neulich durch ein dxp test gesagt, du taugst nicht als Krankenschwester und Nanny.
Lieben Dank fürs Kompliment.
Posted by starlover
I have a 9th house Saturn and my ex had an 11th house SaturnNo idea what that meant to the relationship?
you did not want to learn. he did not want to be a friend?
I was very open to learn...he wasn't...very stuck in himself
He very much wanted to stay friends....i didn't
Does that makes sense?
🙂
did I interpret the effect of Saturn wrong? I think I need to read more than to write.
Maybe not?
When you said he did not want to be friends....well we were lovers, very much so but he always said i was his best and only friend
but now cause we are at it, how do you see his sat in his 11th?
did he have difficulty to integrate into groups/associations? did he have friends?
or did he have to do a lot to keep up with groups and friends?fill in the blanks if you like to.
He had no friends, dwelling, just me
He had a kind of persecution complex, in that he thought people didn't like him. He rarely went out and when he did, said he wasn't listened to and his favourite line was *nobody makes the effort with me*
Good ol Saturn hey?
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Oh, I hope he told it once, twice, triple time. Cause if it was more often then it had to be killing the fun. You know? depressing statements.
yeah, Saturn is bound to evoke depressing thoughts/statements.
Posted by starlover
I have a 9th house Saturn and my ex had an 11th house SaturnNo idea what that meant to the relationship?
you did not want to learn. he did not want to be a friend?
I was very open to learn...he wasn't...very stuck in himself
He very much wanted to stay friends....i didn't
Does that makes sense?
🙂
did I interpret the effect of Saturn wrong? I think I need to read more than to write.
Maybe not?
When you said he did not want to be friends....well we were lovers, very much so but he always said i was his best and only friend
but now cause we are at it, how do you see his sat in his 11th?
did he have difficulty to integrate into groups/associations? did he have friends?
or did he have to do a lot to keep up with groups and friends?fill in the blanks if you like to.
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Maybe Saturn expresses itself well in the late houses, cause it's a mature planet (capricorn ruler) and goes well in the mature houses, 8to 12...
Posted by DwellingOnMove
Mine: sat in aq in the 3rd.
His: sat in ar in the 1st.He's not assertive. I'm not a good communicator. Our Sats build sextile though. Two dysfunctional people who function well in their dysfunctionality. dark fun.
Cool 🙂 thanks
Posted by Huldra
Mine in Aquarius, 9th house, dead on conjunct MC
His in Sagittarius, 5th house, dead on conjunct Uranus
Ok so you're an acheiver, anxious about being as successful as possible. And he's a bit cold romantically, cold with children?
Posted by aquaboy84
I'm back with my ex. Um, we both have Saturn in the 8th. what does it mean?
Saturn in the 8th House, you are a hard worker who is patient and thrifty. You have the capacity for self-discipline and this strong discipline can cause you to deny yourself a social and/or sexual life in your quest for financial security. Transform this desire into seeking soul growth through understanding and wisdom, which can perhaps best be obtained through relating to others in partnership relationships. "For what does it profit a man to gain the entire world and lose his own soul?". There can also be issues concerning abuse, sex and power. A deep sense of hurt from the past may also be felt. Limitations, obstructions and problems may be experienced with inheritances, other people's money, one's sex life, taxes and insurance. Attitudes toward sex may cause difficulties. A strong sensual nature requires restraint.
gut' Nacht, Nemi.
"Maybe Saturn expresses itself well in the late houses"
maybe.
I need to think about it. or read.
Leo 10th house is me
Capricorn 12th house ex
Not 12th. 8th house.
Posted by kissmygrits
Not 12th. 8th house.
Youre an acheiver, he's sensitive, possessive, also somewhat acheiver...? Yea?
Posted by kissmygrits
Not 12th. 8th house.Youre an acheiver, he's sensitive, possessive, also somewhat acheiver...? Yea?
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He hid it very well.
Her Saturn in Libra and 6th house. Conjunts pluto. Sextiles Neptune in Sagittarius and 8th house. Opposites Aries rising.
My Saturn in Leo and 4th House. Sextiles Jupiter in Gemini and 2nd house. Makes part of my grand trine in Fire.
Posted by centipedes
Mine is in Capricorn, 11th house
His is Scorpio, 8th house, conjunct Sun and Pluto
Give some info about the relationship otherwise why would i care to know? Lol duh..... 🙂 duh
Posted by centipedes
Mine is in Capricorn, 11th house
His is Scorpio, 8th house, conjunct Sun and PlutoGive some info about the relationship otherwise why would i care to know? Lol duh..... 🙂 duh
Most people here are putting only the placements, so I'm not sure why you're singling me out. lol
but anyway. we're married. he's definitely protective and doesn't like me doing anything he sees as dangerous. Sometimes we bicker because he can be overbearing about it. 8th house maybe?
I'm better with money though. He tends to impulse buy stuff & then never use it, so I try to temper that (esp bc I hate clutter). That's probably my Saturn Capricorn, but not sure where the 11th house part of it comes in.
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Youre right, i let a few slide...and then i got fed up 🙂
He might be protective of his long term partner, with that full 8th house...or he has some cancer maybe?
Not sure...whats your friend situation? Do you do any voluntary work or stuff like that?
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Or ex. Whatever. Just to see how relationships function, based on the house Saturn is in. Example, a 1st house Saturn will feel physically opressed, and depressed. A second house sat might not think they have value. A third house sat might feel mentally oppressed, like their intelligence is in question, when they're actually very intelligent.
I want to see other examples of couples and the dynamic based on saturn house. Not synastry wise, just their personal saturn house. Thanks.