The Most Awkward Sign You Have To Deal With

At Work, Play or Wherever...
Does there always seem to be one particular sign that you really have to put in the extra effort to
either get along with, or at least agree with...

Im A Capricorn, And For Me It Always Seems To Be Aries!
It Starts out fine, but quickly turns Pear-Shaped, and in a couple of cases
downright nasty!!

Ha ha ha.

I am an Aries, and I get so infuriated by the way Capricorns behave at crucial moments. I don't see it as a minor flaw, I see it as a bad 1 minute that spoils the prior 3 hours.

I very recently told my cap. friend after our 4th fight over his attitude and the last time I will let him get in my face over something as simple as me adding 2 extra dollars to the tip pool for dinner, to never speak to me again. I had to go so far as to tell his manager at the cafe in my neighborhood where he works that if he ever speaks to me it will most certainly be not pretty and that I don't feel that to be right.

The situation was tainted by his pessimistic attitude which isn't normal for anyone to be like, and we were good friend, had common interests and shared energy, as he is usually upbeat and we have had so much fun chatting and talking before. We of course disagreed on many occasions and that was irksome, but whatever, such is life.

But there is no winning side when you have someone pessimistic, making their partner look like a fool in front of our mutual friends, and being abusive to that person and you think I am going to tolerate that? Sit by the sidelines? Hardly. The time and place to be stubborn and act all high and mighty was just something I learned I cannot tolerate in my life.

So I have recognized this as my, never again with Capricorns.

I have learned in work, Virgo bosses with overbearing and lilly-livered twitchiness hovering over me is not gonna fly with me ever again. Especially the awkward silences over great periods of time.

So those are my two never agains with relationship types, and I don't want to judge anyone but I have to have standards and maintain those standards.

p.s.s. prior too learning these things the past 6 months, I couldn't understand what unnerves me about Taurens putting their foot down over non-issues when it comes to our great love lives, that marks 3 areas I try to regulate 😄

piscean people i dont know how to act around them

there's a capricorn lady at work who i'm pretty sure is OCD but she clears her throat once a minute (i timed it one day. 34 times in 33 minutes). i seriously need a support group because it's driving me insane. luckily i work in a different department than her but she sits right next to the lunch room so i hear it every time i go in there. i haven't taken a lunch longer than 30 minutes in months because the throat clearing makes me want to rip my arms off and beat myself to death with them. i say this situation qualifies as awkward because im thisclose to confronting her about it but i dont know what i could possibly say lol

i would have to say capricorns are darn right confusing lol specially the male ones. They come out open up to me then they run and hide (no pun intended) 🙂 Very nice and reliable guys though. i'm a scorpio btw.

Geminis. More so the men than the women actually. The women just induce a little eye-rolling at times.
But the MEN. :/ Not so much that I feel awkward around them...they just straight piss me off and I'm not comfortable dealing with them.

The things the say, the way they say them, the way they handle confrontation, the way they dish it out all the time but can't take it, the way they take everything so personal...all of it. No thanks.




Also, I don't know why, but Scorpio women. A lot of awkward moments. They take themselves so seriously. It just makes it a little awkward. Maybe more awkward for me than them...but still.

gemini..

Posted by heroic_guy
I am an Aries, and I get so infuriated by the way Capricorns behave at crucial moments. I don't see it as a minor flaw, I see it as a bad 1 minute that spoils the prior 3 hours.

i'm a cap, and this is what bothered me about aries men i've known (my father, several friends, ex-boyfriend)....that they would allow one minor thing that lasts literally one minute to ruin days of spectacular fun. let it go already! can we put things in perspective, please?

Posted by heroic_guy
I very recently told my cap. friend to never speak to me again. I had to go so far as to tell his manager at the cafe in my neighborhood where he works that if he ever speaks to me it will most certainly be not pretty and that I don't feel that to be right.

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...and this.... like....seriously? aries men can be such drama kings!

as a sidenote, you know i like you heroic. i'm not bashing you personally....it just amazes me how similar all the aries men in my life are 🙂 xoj

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Posted by heroic_guy
I am an Aries, and I get so infuriated by the way Capricorns behave at crucial moments. I don't see it as a minor flaw, I see it as a bad 1 minute that spoils the prior 3 hours.

i'm a cap, and this is what bothered me about aries men i've known (my father, several friends, ex-boyfriend)....that they would allow one minor thing that lasts literally one minute to ruin days of spectacular fun. let it go already! can we put things in perspective, please?

Posted by heroic_guy
I very recently told my cap. friend to never speak to me again. I had to go so far as to tell his manager at the cafe in my neighborhood where he works that if he ever speaks to me it will most certainly be not pretty and that I don't feel that to be right.

...and this.... like....seriously? aries men can be such drama kings!

as a sidenote, you know i like you heroic. i'm not bashing you personally....it just amazes me how similar all the aries men in my life are 🙂 xoj

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did you and aries break up? what happened!! you didn't fill us in on the aries board. i totally thought you 2 might break the aries/capricorn relationship curse 😢

^^^^^ and yes, im a tad overdramatic too 😛

oh, ewe, how i lurve thee. you always have the cutest avatars. you're little guy makes me wanna shake it! 🙂

i'll update y'all this weekend. i don't want to hijack dog's thread.... and thanks for asking.... i really could use a little perspective on the whole thing.... xoj

i go along well with every sign. 🙂

Fellow Pisceans. Mostly because of the tendency to assume "they know" something about you or what you think/feel and start acting on it. They just "know" because their intuition/imagination tells them and rarely bother asking to find out if it is actually so. This leads to misunderstandings and could be so easily avoided by just communicating instead of relaying on your psychic powers. Not so long ago I had a Fish attack me like a shark to later apologies for jumping to conclusions without base. I'm a Fish so I understand the whole "having a feeling" thing ,but it still irks me a little.

Taureans. Because they are just too stubborn. And it's like the only way to please them is think like they do for accepting that someone has a different opinion is not an option for the bull. I like Taureans but I avoid getting into discussions with them because it's just a waste of my energy a lot of the times.

But generally, these are small things and I get along well with most people. I just try to accept people the way they are and find strategies to get along without drama.

I have a hard time with:

Aries men - Too impulsive, don't think things all the way through. They just jump in and because they don't consider any angle other than their own, they end up making a big mess out of things. They can be tempermental and that sometimes embarrasses me and it makes everyone around them uncomfortable. They are bossy and expect everyone to jump to and do what they say.

Gemini men and women - Flaky. No follow through. Spend more time discussing a situation than actually doing something constructive to fix it. Say one thing one day, and something completely opposite the next day. I mean, make a decision and take a stand and stick to it. Although I personally like them (who doesn't?), I get frustrated with them and have a hard time trusting them to be consistent.

Pisces women - About half and half here. They way they bond by finding a common complaint makes me very nervous and I'm not sure if they can be trusted, so I feel myself holding back. I get along with them, it appears they just play work politics a little underhanded sometimes.

I think I just don't gel with Aquarius. I don't know why they just don't seem to give off anything to me. I've only known a few and don't have any that surround me so I just don't see past there actual sun sign.

Posted by Nerrivik
Fellow Pisceans. Mostly because of the tendency to assume "they know" something about you or what you think/feel and start acting on it.

Yeah I hate that too. Every time I'm with a fellow piscean I hate how each one will keep their true reactions to themselves and show a mask and we both know.

I dont meet a lot of people. If i did I'd probably start not liking a whole of people who are in different zodiac sun signs. I'd probably start hating them and finding things about them I don't like.

I am secretly judgmental. I judge and access their "character".

If they don't like me back. that's good for me too.

But in real life, I like the Earth suns, Water and Fire suns and the Air with 60% fire/water.

Looks like we're all judgemental up here ^^^ reading through the posts.

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Posted by Nerrivik
Fellow Pisceans. Mostly because of the tendency to assume "they know" something about you or what you think/feel and start acting on it.

Yeah I hate that too. Every time I'm with a fellow piscean I hate how each one will keep their true reactions to themselves and show a mask and we both know.

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would you rather they say to your face what they really think of you??

You'd probably hate it. And would make an enemy.

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Posted by lisabethur8


I am secretly judgmental. I judge and access their "character".

Really?

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yes. If i dont like you. You already know that. But it seems like you seem to care alot. that's what I don't get.

I dont like to bother you or go into your threads and start saying snarky things to you, but you'll find small ways to get back to me. That's the feeling i get.

Not sure.. I can get along with anyone 🙂 (i'm kinda carefree)
I was told I was too mellow lol

But I feel awkward around anyone else as quiet as me :/

Aries.

And once a fellow Pisces moon and I decide we are at odds, the tension is so thick you could cut it with a knife.

*shudders*

Pisces men. For some reason I can never really connect to them. Or they get all huffy about small things and silently keep resenting you for it.

Gemini men, for being non-confrontational momma's boys.

I can't point to any specific women though. Generally I get along with all of them and the ones I don't like I simply ignore.

Cancer women--my boss is so controlling and micromanages wayyyyy too much. She thinks she's doing a great job and overlooks low morale; people having to be coerced to do things on our branch, and folks just wanting to leave to get away from her. Outside of work she seems like she'd be fun. I think she's insecure with being a manager. She has talented, great folks working for her, and yes there are a few slugs. However she treats EVERYONE the same. That makes the folks who are superstars run! I feel sorry for her.

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Posted by Nerrivik
Fellow Pisceans. Mostly because of the tendency to assume "they know" something about you or what you think/feel and start acting on it.

Yeah I hate that too. Every time I'm with a fellow piscean I hate how each one will keep their true reactions to themselves and show a mask and we both know.

Fuck. You guys are right.

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same hear,its like u feel they probably are reading ur mind and know what you are about to say,sometimes having same reactions like that one of keeping the reaction to themselves,lol...so weird

The most awkward sign I've been with was a aqua chick..skinny white girl from the burbs that my friend just left at my house..she was the 1st and only chick that gave me head but refused to have sex because she claimed to be a virgin,which I thought was odd at the time,but the awkward part was when we was riding in her car together..she would turn the music up and start dancing while she was driving; she was sooo off beat with it that it almost seemed like a joke..she had me dying laughing thou..and I remember we went to a restaurant and she asked if I wanted it to go or dine in,and I said take it to go,then she said "why don't you want to eat inside with me? You think I'm ugly? Or is because I'm white?...that also threw me completely off..overall me and her just couldn't connect on anything except fellatio...what's also weird is that my current gf came over( we was just talking at the time)when the aqua was at my house too

the two libras I work with and a cap male

Cancer/Leo cusp, with a Cancer moon

Whines constantly, and will contradict everything anyone says to her. Won't own up to her own shit.

Annoying as fuck.

That's the one. bleh.

Cancer dudes... If I ever have to put up with their whiney nature so help me...

You're an adult! Stop moping around like a little boy.

The one I work with now always makes group conversations awkward by talking about his sex life. It's not work appropriate at all. Much less do I care about his sex life. Especially now that he just got a divorce he's bragging about how much p*ssy he gets. I think he's lying!

Scorpio, Virgo and Sagittarius.

Men - I usually dont agree with.

Women - They can be scary sometimes.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Does anyone else think Kirsten Stewart and that one from the harry potter movies kinda look the same but one has a cuter mouth? :-?

Gemini. No offence to the ones on this forum, but the twins I've known are sneaky.

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Posted by everevolvingepithet
Does anyone else think Kirsten Stewart and that one from the harry potter movies kinda look the same but one has a cuter mouth? :-?

lol

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lmao omg, everyone i know says that about Stewart. It's even on youtube commentors how they complain about her non emotional /stoicness. double lols

i found this for stewart.

http://au.ibtimes.com/articles/505761/20130913/kristen-stewart-isn-t-always-stoic-looks.htm#.UmQSWHC8AR0<BR>
500,000 just for 15 mins of talk with a middle eastern prince.

"Kristen Stewart may be known for her ever flawless bored look but the star seems to be hiding a little more behind that penchat stare of hers.

Stewart may be in headlines for her lack of emotion and her split with Robert Pattinson but the star has a good heart. It was reported than the star was paid an astonishing $ 500,000 by a Middle Eastern prince just for Stewart to have a sit and talk with him for 15 minutes."

Emma Watson= sexy
Kristen Stewart= not sexy

Leo

Posted by i love ewe
there's a capricorn lady at work who i'm pretty sure is OCD but she clears her throat once a minute (i timed it one day. 34 times in 33 minutes). i seriously need a support group because it's driving me insane. luckily i work in a different department than her but she sits right next to the lunch room so i hear it every time i go in there. i haven't taken a lunch longer than 30 minutes in months because the throat clearing makes me want to rip my arms off and beat myself to death with them. i say this situation qualifies as awkward because im thisclose to confronting her about it but i dont know what i could possibly say lol

LOL!

Aw. I actually have always gotten along with the Aries I've met. Most my friends are Aries.

In honesty I've never been able to hit it off with Virgos, and I seem to only get along well with Taurus for a very small amount of time. I tend to have shaky relationships with other Caps, too. But it could just be coincidence, can't base it off a sign alone.

In a work situation I would say probably Aries: years ago I had a boss who was almost certainly an Aries and he was very patronizing and sarcastic to me: luckily it was only a temporary position for me.

Socially I would probably say Aquarius: I know they are usually friendly but I also find them kind of condescending as well and above all they tend to start asking you very personal questions within about 90 seconds of meeting you! I am actually not that secretive but don't like to be asked personal questions so soon. They also enjoy trying on purpose to upset you with the things they say (I know this is a game that they play that is amusing for them).

Actually awkward: Gemini men, they're so adorable and sweet but so oblivious and never seem to get it. I know they "don't care what people think" but I think they don't know how people work. Socially inept like my sister (Gemini girl) but I love em

im a pisces and leos tend to annoy me a little, i can tell they have big hearts but their personalities irritate me and i am sure they feel the same way about me.

Leo men. I work in adult education and all of the students that had a huge sense of entitlement were Leos. Usually reserved one minute and joking with you the next like your best friends. They're like all lovely one moment and then cunning the next, just like cats. The main thing that pisses me off is they'll talk to you like shit but will have the nerve to ask favors from you, and then when you refuse they make you out like your the bad one cos they're so awesome and you should feel privileged that you know them.

Cancers I just can't deal with, especially the females - one word: psycho.

Pisces suns and moon I've always felt a bit ill at ease with. I think with water signs in general, their mistrust makes it difficult for me to build a bond with.

Posted by Ardni
Leo men. I work in adult education and all of the students that had a huge sense of entitlement were Leos. Usually reserved one minute and joking with you the next like your best friends. They're like all lovely one moment and then cunning the next, just like cats. The main thing that pisses me off is they'll talk to you like shit but will have the nerve to ask favors from you, and then when you refuse they make you out like your the bad one cos they're so awesome and you should feel privileged that you know them.

Cancers I just can't deal with, especially the females - one word: psycho.

Pisces suns and moon I've always felt a bit ill at ease with. I think with water signs in general, their mistrust makes it difficult for me to build a bond with.

Talk to you like you're shit?

Maybe that's just your perception-- haughty, possibly.. but rude, we usually aren't-- unless you've reached the 'familiarity/contempt' stage.

I have a Pisces moon, though, so in either case we probably wouldn't get along.

Which is fine-- but what on earth is your sign?

Posted by alcjam
im a pisces and leos tend to annoy me a little, i can tell they have big hearts but their personalities irritate me and i am sure they feel the same way about me.

I like Pisces.

Generally. 😐

'Talk to you like you're shit?

Maybe that's just your perception-- haughty, possibly.. but rude, we usually aren't-- unless you've reached the 'familiarity/contempt' stage.

I have a Pisces moon, though, so in either case we probably wouldn't get along.

Which is fine-- but what on earth is your sign?'

I'm a gemini.