The Venus signs i really hate. (Page 2)

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Posted by AfternoonDelights22
This place has come so far in its aqua venus hate. Almost brings tears to my aqua venus heart

hahahahah that is the most accurate gif ever.

i remember sitting next to the first aqua venus guy i was involved with. we were at a dinner party and i had my hand on his leg under the table. he was so stiff and awkward after that! it's pretty funny looking back on it. makes me want to be MORE showy just to make you guys squirm. πŸ˜›

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Posted by Gobshite

Posted by starlover
I would be interested to hear what is great about Venus in Aquarius as far as passion, romance and love are concerned?

From what I've been reading about Venus placements, it seems pretty clear to me...

Aqua Venus eschews the conventional and refuses to conform to the masses. You want a fairy-tale romance? You want the relationship to evolve as you've been conditioned to believe, since you were a toddler? Well, fine but an Aqua Venus isn't going to give you that. And even if they do, they're going to go about it in a very different manner to how you originally expected.

If the Aqua sun is associated with being independent, eclectic, off-beat, undiscriminating and unorthodox, surely the same applies for an Aqua placement in the relationship department, no?

That's probably why a lot of dxpers bitch about this placement, like obnoxious spoilt brats, because things didn't go their way.

Well, that's my take on what I've been coming across.

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Wahh

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Posted by Gobshite

Posted by starlover
I would be interested to hear what is great about Venus in Aquarius as far as passion, romance and love are concerned?

From what I've been reading about Venus placements, it seems pretty clear to me...
Aqua Venus eschews the conventional and refuses to conform to the masses. You want a fairy-tale romance? You want the relationship to evolve as you've been conditioned to believe, since you were a toddler? Well, fine but an Aqua Venus isn't going to give you that. And even if they do, they're going to go about it in a very different manner to how you originally expected.
If the Aqua sun is associated with being independent, eclectic, off-beat, undiscriminating and unorthodox, surely the same applies for an Aqua placement in the relationship department, no?
That's probably why a lot of dxpers bitch about this placement, like obnoxious spoilt brats, because things didn't go their way.
Well, that's my take on what I've been coming across.

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It's a very sad placement.... for the OTHER person it seems. COLD is termed alot by these venuses, ect. because it is very sad and tragic for the person who fall in love with them. IF they are loved, then it's probably very good. Nothing in between.

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Perhaps some of ya'll need some mother fuckin patience. Cant just be opening up and falling head over heels all quick. Aqua venus is not a placement that is going to just be all up on you right off the bat. Once it has a connection though its pretty damn warm and affectionate imo. It just truly has to give a shit about you first. Tho I'm a pisces so perhaps thats why.

Gobshites post was pretty accurate tho. hehe

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Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
I love the good traits of aqua venus but I vehemently hate the bad traits just as much.

They are capable of warm and inclusive but they are also capable of doing a 180 if they don't feel the relationship fits their needs any longer, with no warning.

So, when it's good....it's really good....when it's not, it feels really lonely to the other person and sometimes leaves you like you were blindsided.

like the sun and moon in aqua.....I feel they can remove those 'memories' from their bank and pretend it never happened. A selective memory of sorts. "Pretend" might not be the best word because I don't think there is pretending involved....but the proper word escapes me at the moment.

For those of us that can't do that.....it's a risk getting involved with this venus. you never know when they will pull an "eternal sunshine of the spotless mind" on you.

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Posted by PVandJelleh
So reading the different perspectives on Sag Venus is interesting. No I don't think loyalty should entail putting up with unnecessary crap from others. One should have certain things that they just don't put up with...deal breakers.

Let me clarify, when I say loyal to a fault, this does not mean I put up with BS or mistreatment and stick by your side. No, I'm out. I meant I will demonstrate my loyalty by respecting the fact that we had a relationship and even if you mean nothing to me now, you meant something to me at one point. Respect is given for that reason. For example, trust is extremely important to me. If you tell me something--I will not say anything, no matter what. I have had an ex lover betrayal my trust by disclosing personal information about me to mutual friends in an effort to humiliate me because I left him. When he was trash talking me, I didn't utter a word about the dark secrets he shard with me that would have humiliated him. Some would say that was stupid, he betrayed me first so all bets are off. I don't see it that way. If I say trust is important to me I live by that. I also won't stoop to someone else's level. I own my own sh*t and my decisions, so I am not going to justify or excuse my actions by blaming someone else.

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I suppose I was more thinking along the lines of commitment. When things stop being easy breezy, and shit gets real, some just prefer to abandon ship and look for the next easy option, rather than take the time to work out the kinks in the relationship with someone that they've already invested time and emotion in. No matter who you date, there will always be something about them that you don't like, because there is no perfect mate.

I agree wholeheartedly. I need to know a person is as invested in this as I am. If they are, I will work through anything with them. I don't run when thing get a little (or very) rough.

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Sag venus 9th house

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Posted by ThePiscesPrincess
Y'know Venus in libra are way too goody two-shoes(esp in aspect jupiter, it amplifies/exaggerates the traits) , but theyre an OK venus...

Venus in Aries - The men with this placement have horrible taste in women, i seen guys with girls who look like men or dykes, or girls that need to have a burger or somethin', or they look used af. And since when do us women have to chase you, you childish-ass bitches? lmfao im defo not chasing them. Gtfo of here. The women... hell its either they chase men(or women), or theyre single for life(like my aunt). lmao

Venus in Aries men always like me 😐

*checks mirror to see if I look busted*
*puts on makeup*
*still looks like a man*
*eats McDonald's*
*no change of weight, only clogged arteries*
fuck

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I don't hate any of the Venus signs..

I don't understand why it's so misunderstood and seen as disloyal or fraid to commit. I have never strayed, once i am in, i am 150% in.

c'est la vie

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Having an Aries Venus only stinks bc I do get bored easily and I hate breaking up with people.... But I never chase and I don't enjoy it at all.

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Posted by twodrinkmaximum

Posted by Palerio
People who love Aqua Venus are either very bizarre or have no clue.

I won't argue not being bizarre but it's not the worst venus to have.

With my boyfriend, it basically just requires me to be the aggressor and take the lead. He hugs me, he kisses me, he stares at me in adoration...he conpliments me, he surprises me with flowers and candy and trinkets. He opens doors for me. He does the dishes! I mean really! Lol. He's loyal. He doesn't try to invoke jealousy. He puts in a good effort most of the time. What's so bad?

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It's frustrating not to be the aggressor when you've got very sharp tools at your disposal, especially if you're a man.

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Glad to see there's no disdain for Taurus Venus yet! Lol
I don't necessarily hate any Venus placements, I just tend to bond more with water and earth Venus placements; go figure. I have found the Venus in Virgo folk to be a little harder to read. However, they can be supremely sweet and dedicated once they've chosen someone. They just don't make the first move, that's for sure. Gotta have patience!

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Posted by Arielle83

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Posted by Arielle83
I'm Venus in Virgo and I like nudes too.

Yeah, that's definitely a venus in virgo thing. My ex always wanted nude/sexy pics of me. Do you guys ever use that to blackmail people down the road or what do you do with them?

Naw delete after I'm done with relationship. It's creepy to keep them after broken up to me.

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My ex kept nudies of all his first gf of 5 years especially given that she was married with 2 kids at the time.

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Posted by Arielle83

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Posted by Arielle83
I'm Venus in Virgo and I like nudes too.

Yeah, that's definitely a venus in virgo thing. My ex always wanted nude/sexy pics of me. Do you guys ever use that to blackmail people down the road or what do you do with them?

Naw delete after I'm done with relationship. It's creepy to keep them after broken up to me.

My ex kept nudies of all his first gf of 5 years especially given that she was married with 2 kids at the time.

I think that's a guy thing. A memory of conquests.

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Yep, totally a guy thing!