What say you of this Venus?

-12th house

-Gemini

-Singleton (only air planet)

-Unaspected (only makes two minors to other planets)

Would the 12th house part be the worst aspect of this placement or is being unaspected more unfortunate?

It's compound.

Yeah. I'm not sure why I got screwed, but Venus hates me.

I've always felt close to Mars and far from Venus, emotionally.

Posted by PiscesMarsFighter29
Yeah. I'm not sure why I got screwed, but Venus hates me.

I've always felt close to Mars and far from Venus, emotionally.

I'm sure you read articles on all of the above.

I think it's better than having a bunch of negative aspects to a Venus in detriment or fall.

A strong person is gonna have to hold your hand.

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by PiscesMarsFighter29
Yeah. I'm not sure why I got screwed, but Venus hates me.

I've always felt close to Mars and far from Venus, emotionally.

I'm sure you read articles on all of the above.

I think it's better than having a bunch of negative aspects to a Venus in detriment or fall.

A strong person is gonna have to hold your hand.

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I've read some articles. It's tough to piece it all together, but it makes sense. When you say that a strong person will need to hold my hand, what do you mean? Do you mean because it will be so challenging to be with me? Ha.

Posted by PiscesMarsFighter29

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by PiscesMarsFighter29
Yeah. I'm not sure why I got screwed, but Venus hates me.

I've always felt close to Mars and far from Venus, emotionally.

I'm sure you read articles on all of the above.

I think it's better than having a bunch of negative aspects to a Venus in detriment or fall.

A strong person is gonna have to hold your hand.

I've read some articles. It's tough to piece it all together, but it makes sense. When you say that a strong person will need to hold my hand, what do you mean? Do you mean because it will be so challenging to be with me? Ha.

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Difficult to hold on to. When in a relationship, do you have a difficult time being "present?"

Oh, that makes sense. Yes, no one can hold my interest for long. I also don't pursue relationships. All that I care about in life is the gym, but my shoulders are messed up right now, so I'm in a bad place.

Also--and this is probably why my Venus is in the 12th house of losses--I don't really believe in love in an unbiased and typical sense. I think that everyone simply seeks out the most attractive partner that their own physical attributes can earn them (a.k.a. animal mating). There's just no way that love coincidentally happens in a manner which makes it so that attractive people are nearly always paired together. And to me, that's just sad. All people are pretty much the same when you think about it... We eat, sleep, work, etc., etc., and there are a limited number of things that a human being can even do in this limited world. It's the physical appearance that makes love happen, and that's just too shallow for me. Now, I realize that all of this sounds terribly depressing, and I suppose that would be exactly why my Venus is so isolated and hidden.

Posted by PiscesMarsFighter29
Oh, that makes sense. Yes, no one can hold my interest for long. I also don't pursue relationships. All that I care about in life is the gym, but my shoulders are messed up right now, so I'm in a bad place.

Also--and this is probably why my Venus is in the 12th house of losses--I don't really believe in love in an unbiased and typical sense. I think that everyone simply seeks out the most attractive partner that their own physical attributes can earn them (a.k.a. animal mating). There's just no way that love coincidentally happens in a manner which makes it so that attractive people are nearly always paired together. And to me, that's just sad. All people are pretty much the same when you think about it... We eat, sleep, work, etc., etc., and there are a limited number of things that a human being can even do in this limited world. It's the physical appearance that makes love happen, and that's just too shallow for me. Now, I realize that all of this sounds terribly depressing, and I suppose that would be exactly why my Venus is so isolated and hidden.

That makes a lot of sense though I never thought of it like that