SuperMissMan
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Who can answer my scorpio question!!!??
Posted by SuperMissMan
I'm sorry for bothering you all about scorpios, I just really fell for one and I won't let anything get in my way of it. So here:
My main question right now is.....if I started out chasing him, and starting conversations, and all that stuff, should I start playing hard to get? Because after we got into personal things, he got really weird and less responsive and it's been like that for days since. And I always start the convos and he sometimes finest write back, at least not for a while, but like today I didn't text him till much later and it seems as if he was kind of waiting for it cuz he seems really enthusiastic...but right after that he just got all silent and unresponsive....so what? Should I start being hard to get, I mean I don't want him to think I've lost interest or something, because it's not like that at all..but I don't want to annoy him or scare him off....please help!
I'm seriously not going to even look at his text until someone tells me what to do. Pleeeeeease help!!!!!
Posted by arietteheart2
Playing hard to get with a scorpio is not going to work. Actually, just don't play any games.
Is he silent like he's ignoring your texts or he's not carrying the conversation well? My scorp sucks dick at texting but he's very engaged when were face to face. If I make him mad it's almost like I have to get him to warm up to me again and then he's fine.
Just ask him "You're kind of quiet today...is something going on?"
That's what's weird. He ignores them, but all of a sudden gets really interested. And sometimes he doesn't maintain it well. It's really confusing me. But I don't know, my cousin thinks i have a good shot a with him, but from my point of view it's not doing very well...
Posted by arietteheart2
Playing hard to get with a scorpio is not going to work. Actually, just don't play any games.
Is he silent like he's ignoring your texts or he's not carrying the conversation well? My scorp sucks dick at texting but he's very engaged when were face to face. If I make him mad it's almost like I have to get him to warm up to me again and then he's fine.
Just ask him "You're kind of quiet today...is something going on?"
And I would but he gets worst whenever I ask him anything personal.
Posted by arietteheart2
Wth are you asking him lol
Well I mean when I first asked him personal questions we were playing 21 questions so...
Posted by arietteheart2
Wth are you asking him lol
But now I don't ask him anything really personally. Just basic things like what's up, and how are you...but how are you feeling and are you okay or anything along those lines....he might get weird.
Posted by arietteheart2Posted by SuperMissManPosted by arietteheart2
Wth are you asking him lol
Well I mean when I first asked him personal questions we were playing 21 questions so...
Don't do that. Don't ask personal shit to someone you're not close to. It comes off too try hard and it can be invasive. Keep it lighthearted. Try to make him laugh. Don't get sexual. You need to tame that aries venus. If he stops texting then stop and pick it up the next day.click to expand
Hmm smart. Hats true, and I'm not not close to him, remember, he's a family friend. I'm fairly close.but that's true. I'll just pick it up the next day :/
Posted by SuperMissManPosted by arietteheart2
Wth are you asking him lol
Well I mean when I first asked him personal questions we were playing 21 questions so...click to expand
Oh playing 21 questions...Nice investigation 😛
Posted by arietteheart2
I had a lot of scorpio crushes when I was your age and they never got off the ground bc I was way too impatient to let anything develop.
We would hang out a few times and they would really like me but they never told me anything. Even if we kissed or whatever they still wouldn't give me the verbal confirmation I needed right away so I would move on quick.
I added a few old crushes onto my fb a while back and they were all scorps and they told me "do you know how much I liked you?....and you just up and stopped talking to me one day"
I know what u mean, that's how I am most of the time too, but the few times I didn't I actually loved the person. I really love him. It's a different feeling than infatuation, I really deeply care about him. But yeah, I still know what you mean
Posted by LoveSeekerPosted by SuperMissManPosted by arietteheart2
Wth are you asking him lol
Well I mean when I first asked him personal questions we were playing 21 questions so...
Oh playing 21 questions...Nice investigation 😛click to expand
Hahahaha, right? Hahaha
Posted by FrostAndBite
Ah! Aries Venus.
You can't ram him into loving you. Give him some time to get comfortable with you.
I know 😢
Posted by FrostAndBite
Most Scorp dudes I know take their sweet time letting their emotions out. Some longer than others.
Every single one detests dating games/protocol. Ones worth talking to anyways, in my opinion.
Be authentic. Be you. Be confident. That's all you ever really need in love anyways. Otherwise people might fall in love with the image of you and then it tears the relationship apart from the inside out.
That's trust, I knew two who completely chased me (huge turn off) right off the bat, and others who took AGES to show a sign of interest. But yeah, I'm usually myself anyways.
Posted by FrostAndBite
Most Scorp dudes I know take their sweet time letting their emotions out. Some longer than others.
Every single one detests dating games/protocol. Ones worth talking to anyways, in my opinion.
Be authentic. Be you. Be confident. That's all you ever really need in love anyways. Otherwise people might fall in love with the image of you and then it tears the relationship apart from the inside out.
Thank you so much for helping me...both of you, I really appreciate it.
YES got it...here's his chart :
Scorpio sun
Gemini moon
Scorpio mercury
Scorpio venus
Leo mars
I'll leave the rest out. I don't know his TOB so I couldn't get the rising.
And mine is:
Pisces sun
Aquarius moon
Aries mercury
Aries venus
Scorpio mars
Libra rising
Hmmm...
Scorpio sun
Gemini moon
Scorpio mercury
Scorpio venus
Leo mars
I'll leave the rest out. I don't know his TOB so I couldn't get the rising.
And mine is:
Pisces sun
Aquarius moon
Aries mercury
Aries venus
Scorpio mars
Libra rising
Hmmm...
Posted by ZelaleZ
It has been my experience that Scorpios tend to get upset and act completely different when you stop showing them that your are interested or you try to brush off their approach. But after a while, it goes away.I think you should just let time decide and "lay low" for a while.
Hmm okay
Don't play hard to get. That's some stupid bit that chick flicks promote. It doesn't work.
Posted by SuperMissMan
YES got it...here's his chart :
Scorpio sun
Gemini moon
Scorpio mercury
Scorpio venus
Leo mars
I'll leave the rest out. I don't know his TOB so I couldn't get the rising.
And mine is:
Pisces sun
Aquarius moon
Aries mercury
Aries venus
Scorpio mars
Libra rising
Hmmm...
Oh these are good-- you will love or kill each other.
Likely both, but you'll enjoy every minute. 😄
Posted by MontgomeryPosted by SuperMissMan
YES got it...here's his chart :
Scorpio sun
Gemini moon
Scorpio mercury
Scorpio venus
Leo mars
I'll leave the rest out. I don't know his TOB so I couldn't get the rising.
And mine is:
Pisces sun
Aquarius moon
Aries mercury
Aries venus
Scorpio mars
Libra rising
Hmmm...
Oh these are good-- you will love or kill each other.
Likely both, but you'll enjoy every minute. 😄click to expand
Thank you, I thought so too!
Posted by IrresistableScorp
Looks like a fun connection! However please note.not much earth. And by "not much" I mean none.
Sounds like the perfect high school fling! 😆
😆 😆 I literally pretty much have no air in me, and I don't think he had any either. Maybe just a little. But he got all cold and kinda nuts, so I left it...Apperently my cousin (DAMN ASSHOLE) told him. Damn Leo's. Lmaooo I moved on, and yeah, not having earth hurts me a shitload.
Posted by IrresistableScorp
Looks like a fun connection! However please note.not much earth. And by "not much" I mean none.
Sounds like the perfect high school fling! 😆
If they're in their 20s, they probably have plenty of earth anywhere from Jupiter to Pluto. Especially if they're born from 1988-1992ish, when Saturn, Uranus & Neptune were all in Capricorn.
Too much earth, if anything!
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