Did I make the right decision leaving this Scorpio man? Will he come back?

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Met on app, talked for a month, finally met up at his place after him cancelling a few times. He apologizes and talk about future plans with me. We laugh, cuddle, kiss, and watch movies. Back to push and pull, cancels on the next date, day of with no explanations. I message him and we make plans for a weekday instead, day of he is in the hospital but will try to still see me and asked what I was wearing. I flirt back, saying see can see later. An hour goes by and he bails, not too sure if he was really in the hospital and my trust issues couldn't believe it only cuz he's bailed so many times. Me hopefully not being sensitive and emotional about it, tells him that its unfortunate that he got hurt but that I think it time to cut the cord and that I don't want to invest my time with someone if its not gonna go anywhere. He spams me text asking me what he did. I told him that I don't want to blame him for anything but its my guy feeling that this is going south and that I fee like I'm being toyed around. He then says okay bye, I'm not gonna beg you or ask for chances, we are grown ups and we can move on. I told him that he is funny and good looking and that he should've have a problem moving on and to take care. He leaves me on "read" and deletes me off snap. Is this normal Scorpio man behavior? I am right about him playing me? A part of me feels guilty cuz I don't know whats on his mind but I deserve better.

About him:

DOB: Oct 29

Deletes and makes dating accounts like every 2 weeks (Idk if he knows if I notice)

Bailed on me a few times , not just once

Was very affectionate when were together (probably to get some)

Me:

DOB: July 2

Tried to stay chill about everything

Gave him space and I really mean it

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Met on app, talked for a month, finally met up at his place after him cancelling a few times. He apologizes and talk about future plans with me. We laugh, cuddle, kiss, and watch movies. Back to push and pull, cancels on the next date, day of with no explanations. I message him and we make plans for a weekday instead, day of he is in the hospital but will try to still see me and asked what I was wearing. I flirt back, saying see can see later. An hour goes by and he bails, not too sure if he was really in the hospital and my trust issues couldn't believe it only cuz he's bailed so many times. Me hopefully not being sensitive and emotional about it, tells him that its unfortunate that he got hurt but that I think it time to cut the cord and that I don't want to invest my time with someone if its not gonna go anywhere. He spams me text asking me what he did. I told him that I don't want to blame him for anything but its my guy feeling that this is going south and that I fee like I'm being toyed around. He then says okay bye, I'm not gonna beg you or ask for chances, we are grown ups and we can move on. I told him that he is funny and good looking and that he should've have a problem moving on and to take care. He leaves me on "read" and deletes me off snap. Is this normal Scorpio man behavior? I am right about him playing me? A part of me feels guilty cuz I don't know whats on his mind but I deserve better.

About him:

DOB: Oct 29

Deletes and makes dating accounts like every 2 weeks (Idk if he knows if I notice)

Bailed on me a few times , not just once

Was very affectionate when were together (probably to get some)

Me:

DOB: July 2

Tried to stay chill about everything

Gave him space and I really mean it


This is actually my birthday. Darlin, the flags and lies are there and you know it, and make allowances for them . Never accept crumbs from anyone, Scorp or otherwise. Know your worth. This one's brocken.

A real Scorpio never let's go of 💟. I have a Scorp that still chases after two years of me not responding. But you know all of this. Go find someone that will 💟 you as much as you 💟 them . Good luck. 🍀
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@LadyNeptune, I thought a grown up thing would be talking about it instead of walking away haha


But you walked away first.

He told you he was in the hospital and you said "tells him that its unfortunate that he got hurt but that I think it time to cut the cord and that I don't want to invest my time with someone if its not gonna go anywhere."

He followed your lead.
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@LadyNeptune, True. Thank you for always being straight up!!

His last words were, I like you but I'm not gonna beg for you. We're grown ups and can move on. He was quick to say goodbye, whos knows if he was really in the hospital. Who's asking him to beg, not me. He's flaked many times before and I did ask him if he was okay before I decided to cut ties. I thought it would be end more maturely since he is older than me.
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@LadyNeptune, True. Thank you for always being straight up!!

His last words were, I like you but I'm not gonna beg for you. We're grown ups and can move on. He was quick to say goodbye, whos knows if he was really in the hospital. Who's asking him to beg, not me. He's flaked many times before and I did ask him if he was okay before I decided to cut ties. I thought it would be end more maturely since he is older than me.
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@LadyNeptune, True. Thank you for always being straight up!!

His last words were, I like you but I'm not gonna beg for you. We're grown ups and can move on. He was quick to say goodbye, whos knows if he was really in the hospital. Who's asking him to beg, not me. He's flaked many times before and I did ask him if he was okay before I decided to cut ties. I thought it would be end more maturely since he is older than me.


You were hoping your words would be a wake up call and he would step up and show you he cares. At least now you know where you stand. Plenty of other dudes out there.
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You.Left.Him.!!!!!. This is why, you rarely see this pairing together. You're welcome.

Cancer and Scorpio? I thought it was quite a common pairing?

Gosh no. Do you know of any long term / married couple's, I don't know of any?. I've dated a few, too incompatable with me.

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Make that 5 ~ Nikki and her hubbie and one of my neighbours, Cancer sun is married to a Scorpio man, long term, very happy.

I think there could be more?
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Posted by babexsmile

@LadyNeptune, True. Thank you for always being straight up!!

His last words were, I like you but I'm not gonna beg for you. We're grown ups and can move on. He was quick to say goodbye, whos knows if he was really in the hospital. Who's asking him to beg, not me. He's flaked many times before and I did ask him if he was okay before I decided to cut ties. I thought it would be end more maturely since he is older than me.


Those laat words, was to guilt trip you.

Be happy you got out so soon. He's trouble.

Scorpio and Cancer are usually very good together and Scorpio wont let go so easily if he genuinely fell in love with you. He was trying to get some. In love, Scorps are actually very gentleman like. They will want to invest their time into you and will wait with sex until you give the ok. I have many Scorps in my circle like this. Dad is Scorp, ex BF is Scorp, and a few friends. Each and everyone are the gentlemen style .

Walk away and find yourself a better Scorpio. Or a Pisces man or a Capricorn.
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@LadyNeptune, True. Thank you for always being straight up!!

His last words were, I like you but I'm not gonna beg for you. We're grown ups and can move on. He was quick to say goodbye, whos knows if he was really in the hospital. Who's asking him to beg, not me. He's flaked many times before and I did ask him if he was okay before I decided to cut ties. I thought it would be end more maturely since he is older than me.

He did end it maturely. When someone tells you it's over the mature thing to do is move on and leave them alone.
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You.Left.Him.!!!!!. This is why, you rarely see this pairing together. You're welcome.

Cancer and Scorpio? I thought it was quite a common pairing?

Gosh no. Do you know of any long term / married couple's, I don't know of any?. I've dated a few, too incompatable with me.

Yes three

Make that 5 ~ Nikki and her hubbie and one of my neighbours, Cancer sun is married to a Scorpio man, long term, very happy.

I think there could be more?
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I just remembered one star ⛤ ladeee - Camilla and Prince Charles, does it count if they're cheaters though?. 🤔 🐾 🦂 🤗

P.S. It does indeed have more chance of survival if the male is 🦂 and the female of the 🦀 persuasion. 🐈
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Posted by Kityyyyyyy

You.Left.Him.!!!!!. This is why, you rarely see this pairing together. You're welcome.

Cancer and Scorpio? I thought it was quite a common pairing?

Gosh no. Do you know of any long term / married couple's, I don't know of any?. I've dated a few, too incompatable with me.

Yes three

Make that 5 ~ Nikki and her hubbie and one of my neighbours, Cancer sun is married to a Scorpio man, long term, very happy.

I think there could be more?

I just remembered one star ⛤ ladeee - Camilla and Prince Charles, does it count if they're cheaters though?. 🤔 🐾 🦂 🤗

P.S. It does indeed have more chance of survival if the male is 🦂 and the female of the 🦀 persuasion. 🐈
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I don’t think Charlie and Cam have cheated on each other? I’ve heard it said that they’re a perfect match
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Met on app, talked for a month, finally met up at his place after him cancelling a few times. He apologizes and talk about future plans with me. We laugh, cuddle, kiss, and watch movies. Back to push and pull, cancels on the next date, day of with no explanations. I message him and we make plans for a weekday instead, day of he is in the hospital but will try to still see me and asked what I was wearing. I flirt back, saying see can see later. An hour goes by and he bails, not too sure if he was really in the hospital and my trust issues couldn't believe it only cuz he's bailed so many times. Me hopefully not being sensitive and emotional about it, tells him that its unfortunate that he got hurt but that I think it time to cut the cord and that I don't want to invest my time with someone if its not gonna go anywhere. He spams me text asking me what he did. I told him that I don't want to blame him for anything but its my guy feeling that this is going south and that I fee like I'm being toyed around. He then says okay bye, I'm not gonna beg you or ask for chances, we are grown ups and we can move on. I told him that he is funny and good looking and that he should've have a problem moving on and to take care. He leaves me on "read" and deletes me off snap. Is this normal Scorpio man behavior? I am right about him playing me? A part of me feels guilty cuz I don't know whats on his mind but I deserve better.

About him:

DOB: Oct 29

Deletes and makes dating accounts like every 2 weeks (Idk if he knows if I notice)

Bailed on me a few times , not just once

Was very affectionate when were together (probably to get some)

Me:

DOB: July 2

Tried to stay chill about everything

Gave him space and I really mean it

1 good riddance.

2.....you were kinda playing the violin a little & dragging things / being shady towards the end : saying he's good looking and he'll find someone better....

Point is.

Water moons are sensitive and scorpio moon can't stand to look &/or feel vulnerable... Especially the dudes.

He wasn't involved from the very beginning but got all upset once you pointed it out.

So I say good riddance... And move on to the next

❌🖍️
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Posted by Kityyyyyyy
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Kityyyyyyy

You.Left.Him.!!!!!. This is why, you rarely see this pairing together. You're welcome.

Cancer and Scorpio? I thought it was quite a common pairing?

Gosh no. Do you know of any long term / married couple's, I don't know of any?. I've dated a few, too incompatable with me.

Yes three

Make that 5 ~ Nikki and her hubbie and one of my neighbours, Cancer sun is married to a Scorpio man, long term, very happy.

I think there could be more?

I just remembered one star ⛤ ladeee - Camilla and Prince Charles, does it count if they're cheaters though?. 🤔 🐾 🦂 🤗

P.S. It does indeed have more chance of survival if the male is 🦂 and the female of the 🦀 persuasion. 🐈

I don’t think Charlie and Cam have cheated on each other? I’ve heard it said that they’re a perfect match
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Who are they?. Forgive my tardiness sunshine. 🦂
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Posted by Kityyyyyyy

You.Left.Him.!!!!!. This is why, you rarely see this pairing together. You're welcome.

Cancer and Scorpio? I thought it was quite a common pairing?

Gosh no. Do you know of any long term / married couple's, I don't know of any?. I've dated a few, too incompatable with me.

Yes three

Make that 5 ~ Nikki and her hubbie and one of my neighbours, Cancer sun is married to a Scorpio man, long term, very happy.

I think there could be more?

I just remembered one star ⛤ ladeee - Camilla and Prince Charles, does it count if they're cheaters though?. 🤔 🐾 🦂 🤗

P.S. It does indeed have more chance of survival if the male is 🦂 and the female of the 🦀 persuasion. 🐈

I don’t think Charlie and Cam have cheated on each other? I’ve heard it said that they’re a perfect match

Who are they?. Forgive my tardiness sunshine. 🦂
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Charles is the Queen’s son...next in line for the throne. Camilla is his second wife.
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Kityyyyyyy

You.Left.Him.!!!!!. This is why, you rarely see this pairing together. You're welcome.

Cancer and Scorpio? I thought it was quite a common pairing?

Gosh no. Do you know of any long term / married couple's, I don't know of any?. I've dated a few, too incompatable with me.

Yes three

Make that 5 ~ Nikki and her hubbie and one of my neighbours, Cancer sun is married to a Scorpio man, long term, very happy.

I think there could be more?

I just remembered one star ⛤ ladeee - Camilla and Prince Charles, does it count if they're cheaters though?. 🤔 🐾 🦂 🤗

P.S. It does indeed have more chance of survival if the male is 🦂 and the female of the 🦀 persuasion. 🐈

I don’t think Charlie and Cam have cheated on each other? I’ve heard it said that they’re a perfect match

Who are they?. Forgive my tardiness sunshine. 🦂

Charles is the Queen’s son...next in line for the throne. Camilla is his second wife.
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Ooops sorry. Now I get it. I think someone may have indulged too much this evening = moi. 🥂 I blame the covid. 🍒⚡🤑
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Posted by Kityyyyyyy

You.Left.Him.!!!!!. This is why, you rarely see this pairing together. You're welcome.

Cancer and Scorpio? I thought it was quite a common pairing?

Gosh no. Do you know of any long term / married couple's, I don't know of any?. I've dated a few, too incompatable with me.

Yes three

Make that 5 ~ Nikki and her hubbie and one of my neighbours, Cancer sun is married to a Scorpio man, long term, very happy.

I think there could be more?

I just remembered one star ⛤ ladeee - Camilla and Prince Charles, does it count if they're cheaters though?. 🤔 🐾 🦂 🤗

P.S. It does indeed have more chance of survival if the male is 🦂 and the female of the 🦀 persuasion. 🐈

I don’t think Charlie and Cam have cheated on each other? I’ve heard it said that they’re a perfect match

Who are they?. Forgive my tardiness sunshine. 🦂

Charles is the Queen’s son...next in line for the throne. Camilla is his second wife.
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I can't believe a Scorpio male i.e Charles, married beneath his station with her!!!!.

🤔🤤😷
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Posted by Kityyyyyyy

You.Left.Him.!!!!!. This is why, you rarely see this pairing together. You're welcome.

Cancer and Scorpio? I thought it was quite a common pairing?

Gosh no. Do you know of any long term / married couple's, I don't know of any?. I've dated a few, too incompatable with me.

Yes three

Make that 5 ~ Nikki and her hubbie and one of my neighbours, Cancer sun is married to a Scorpio man, long term, very happy.

I think there could be more?

I just remembered one star ⛤ ladeee - Camilla and Prince Charles, does it count if they're cheaters though?. 🤔 🐾 🦂 🤗

P.S. It does indeed have more chance of survival if the male is 🦂 and the female of the 🦀 persuasion. 🐈

I don’t think Charlie and Cam have cheated on each other? I’ve heard it said that they’re a perfect match

Who are they?. Forgive my tardiness sunshine. 🦂

Charles is the Queen’s son...next in line for the throne. Camilla is his second wife.

I can't believe a Scorpio male i.e Charles, married beneath his station with her!!!!.

🤔🤤😷
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Met on app, talked for a month, finally met up at his place after him cancelling a few times. He apologizes and talk about future plans with me. We laugh, cuddle, kiss, and watch movies. Back to push and pull, cancels on the next date, day of with no explanations. I message him and we make plans for a weekday instead, day of he is in the hospital but will try to still see me and asked what I was wearing. I flirt back, saying see can see later. An hour goes by and he bails, not too sure if he was really in the hospital and my trust issues couldn't believe it only cuz he's bailed so many times. Me hopefully not being sensitive and emotional about it, tells him that its unfortunate that he got hurt but that I think it time to cut the cord and that I don't want to invest my time with someone if its not gonna go anywhere. He spams me text asking me what he did. I told him that I don't want to blame him for anything but its my guy feeling that this is going south and that I fee like I'm being toyed around. He then says okay bye, I'm not gonna beg you or ask for chances, we are grown ups and we can move on. I told him that he is funny and good looking and that he should've have a problem moving on and to take care. He leaves me on "read" and deletes me off snap. Is this normal Scorpio man behavior? I am right about him playing me? A part of me feels guilty cuz I don't know whats on his mind but I deserve better.

About him:

DOB: Oct 29

Deletes and makes dating accounts like every 2 weeks (Idk if he knows if I notice)

Bailed on me a few times , not just once

Was very affectionate when were together (probably to get some)

Me:

DOB: July 2

Tried to stay chill about everything

Gave him space and I really mean it

1 good riddance.

2.....you were kinda playing the violin a little & dragging things / being shady towards the end : saying he's good looking and he'll find someone better....

Point is.

Water moons are sensitive and scorpio moon can't stand to look &/or feel vulnerable... Especially the dudes.

He wasn't involved from the very beginning but got all upset once you pointed it out.

So I say good riddance... And move on to the next

❌🖍️

They weren't talking about moon signs lol........
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