5 Reasons The Aries-Cancer Relationship Is The Perfect Pairing

1. Aries are the best cheerleaders moody Cancer can ask for

~ Aries inspires Cancer to be more happy and live life to the fullest

2. Aries can get overthinking Cancer out of their own heads

~ Aries’ lighthearted optimistic ways of seeing things often give Cancer a fresh perspective on their problems

3. Social butterfly Aries helps ease a Cancer into a social situation

~ Cancers feel safe and strong with Aries by their side

4. Aries are the best readily available partners in crime whenever spontaneous Cancers feel like crawling out of their shells

~ Aries are always there to join any fun, crazy plan Cancers may have and join in with full enthusiasm

5. Aries and Cancer constantly balance and help each other grow

~ When Aries feels out of control, Cancer’s calmness is there to keep Aries’ feet on the ground

Posted by urbansophisticate
1. Aries are the best cheerleaders moody Cancer can ask for

~ Aries inspires Cancer to be more happy and live life to the fullest

5. Aries and Cancer constantly balance and help each other grow

~ When Aries feels out of control, Cancer’s calmness is there to keep Aries’ feet on the ground

1 and 5 are a good balance

Yeah, I think they'd be good for a short term thing, but not long term. I'm pretty sure I'd bore an aries... 😛

aries and cancers make a good bang buddies but more than that is a pain to ask for, the cancers especially.

Depends on a lot of things: character, placements, etc. I've met some obnoxiously clingy attention whore type aries and also some incredibly vivacious, caring and fun aries. I prefer the later.

I'm sorry, from a Cancer male perspective... Aries females are fucking C U N T S. Never met such wreckless and lose women with absolutely no morals in my life. Aries women are like the only type of women that get beat by their husbands and I don't feel sorry for them because I know they either did or said some outlandish shit.

F U C K em

Mmm I don't know about this. My sister is an Aries and she can't stand the stories I tell her about the Cancer guy I've been on/off with. She can't stand any instance of insecurity, vagueness, and the indirect way he goes about dealing with me.

We have a cousin that's a Cancer that we are both very close to (I am a Pisces) and also my sister has no patience for her over-cautiousness when meeting men and her ability to be emotionally closed off when it suits her. In turn my cousin finds my sister impulsive, too yielding, and not discerning enough.

I love Cancers, and I love Aries!

I understand why OP finds it a potential match but she's showing all the benefit Aries would have on Cancer and not the other way around. It's supposed to be a two-way street.

No way Jose .. why anyone would even try it is completely unknown unless you have a lot of Fire in your chart

There is almost zero way this could work .. especially the impulsiveness

Aries would not cope with the emotions of a cancer and cancer would not cope with the lack of empathy of an Aries

Plus sexually cancer won't get fulfilled - Aries like a good bang too much nothing wrong with that but a cancer needs transcendence at some point mixed in

i don't agree. these things would suit a friendship but what a cancer looks for is a DEEP, caring and kind connection when it comes to a serious relationship. Many aries i know act for themselves first - something a cancer would despise.

i have a cancer friend that notices my aries friend, but i know straight away she's way to fiery for his nature

@GalOnTheCusp

Aries may be seen to the average Joe as the beneficiary but I don’t isolate him as the only one reaping benefits. Cancer receives much if all the benefits as Aries do. Why?

It goes without saying that Cancers are moody, emotional, over-thinkers, etc. Cancers know this so they desire someone to understand them and handle them with care. Aries constant positive attitude allows them to be strong and uplift cancer. Aries naturally love to aid and help those they care for.

Aries is demonstrating to us that they aren’t weak to allow our personality to overwhelm them. That’s extremely beneficial for a cancer when everyone else sorta segregates from them when they get over the top. Aries accepts every challenge head on.

@ clay

Are you silly, Aries love the damsel in distress women. He gets the chance to play hero

My first longlasting, leading to marriage, relationship was with a Cancer male. I was 16/17, he was 21. Lasted three years. He proposed marriage but, wanted me to move to his hometown and transfer to another college. I was a year and a half from graduation and he wouldn't wait. I met my Virgo hubby later that year.

Perfect gentlemen. Cancer male was my first. Cancer on the 7th house cusp.

He smothered and loved on me like I was a baby bunchkin. He kept a hand on me at all times - extreme affectionate and protective. I had love letters galore, pictures, tokens, you name it.

A year ago, I'd agree with most comments here. Many won’t see the hidden benefits to this pairing. I'm a little bias but from personal experience, this pairing is awesome. We don't have to deny the facts of cancer being too emotional or aries being self-absorbed. But there is a balance to this pairing

After dating an aries, he’s taught me how to be brave in the midst of trouble and chaos. I find that he enjoys doing this because he gets to be a decision maker by laying out options for me whenever I have a dilemma vs me running around crying like a chicken with its head cut off. I may not always go with what he suggested but I do consider them and respect his advice.

He’s also taught me the definition of hard work. I work hard but he WORKS HARDER. Everything is about him and his business and sometimes I do feel left out and neglected but instead of viewing it as selfishness I understand that he’s just doing what he’s known to be best for him. Working hard reaps benefits. He’ll one day retire at the age of 45 and I never open my wallet when I'm with him. Not once! I’ve learned to be patient and simmer those emotions I have.

Aries guy to me: “I don’t have any complaints about you. The only complaints I have is that I haven’t been as attentive to you as I should be. I want to thank you for being so patient with me"

There’s definitely compromising on both parts but more importantly both have to see those negative traits as positive attributes.

I give this pairing two thumbs up!

Posted by urbansophisticate
A year ago, I'd agree with most comments here. Many won’t see the hidden benefits to this pairing. I'm a little bias but from personal experience, this pairing is awesome. We don't have to deny the facts of cancer being too emotional or aries being self-absorbed. But there is a balance to this pairing

After dating an aries, he’s taught me how to be brave in the midst of trouble and chaos. I find that he enjoys doing this because he gets to be a decision maker by laying out options for me whenever I have a dilemma vs me running around crying like a chicken with its head cut off. I may not always go with what he suggested but I do consider them and respect his advice.

He’s also taught me the definition of hard work. I work hard but he WORKS HARDER. Everything is about him and his business and sometimes I do feel left out and neglected but instead of viewing it as selfishness I understand that he’s just doing what he’s known to be best for him. Working hard reaps benefits. He’ll one day retire at the age of 45 and I never open my wallet when I'm with him. Not once! I’ve learned to be patient and simmer those emotions I have.

Aries guy to me: “I don’t have any complaints about you. The only complaints I have is that I haven’t been as attentive to you as I should be. I want to thank you for being so patient with me"

There’s definitely compromising on both parts but more importantly both have to see those negative traits as positive attributes.

I give this pairing two thumbs up!

Happy for you! I hope you two get married. I know how good it is.... wishing you the best!

Terrible match

Posted by urbansophisticate
There’s definitely compromising on both parts but more importantly both have to see those negative traits as positive attributes.

I give this pairing two thumbs up!

I am not one to take a way from a person's happiness, so I am glad to see you enjoying it. I wish you well.

Posted by Harukka
Perfect?

Perfect for one couple, terrible for the next!

Posted by clay

Posted by urbansophisticate
Aries love the damsel in distress women. He gets the chance to play hero

That's the low vibration of Aries. Immaturity is not a stable basis for a healthy relationship.

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No, the low vibration of aries looks like arrogance and hostility!

This act of heroism is more of a high vibration because you're getting nothing but the highest qualities of aries which is bravery and high energy. It takes both to deal with a Cancer!

The pairing has extremely steamy chemistry, but it is totally unstable. It is just really easy for Cancer to flood Aries fire, and for Aries to evaporate Cancer's waters. If they can create steam instead, you will have a couple who fvcks each other's brains out on the regular, and are totally devoted to each other and their offspring should they have any.

It's a high risk, great reward relationship. Very appealing to those who seek out unstable relationships such as myself.

There is a moody cancer that works with me, bless his grouchy soul. He is older (40s) and is crotchety. However, he likes me and he and I get along very well. I could see dating him if he asked and I wasn't with my Capricorn. However, I know it wouldn't last because he's often negative about people (which I don't blame him, but still), food, situations... I can tolerate since we are only work buddies but I can see it wearing me down if we were involved romantically. Also, he isn't a motivated individual. He only has an English degree (and he complains about lack of job advancements, but says he's "too old" to go back to school), he complains about not being able to afford his own place, he complains about the food he eats (but doesn't want to cook for just himself)...

I state all of this matter of factly as a way to explain why he and I wouldn't make a good couple. He seems to value my input, and I don't mind speaking to him about life, but our wavelengths are not in sync. I'm rooting for him to find a quirky woman who will turn his life in side out in a good way, along him wear Christmas hats and dance at parties. 😄

I have a cancer sis and brother, and I must say that my cancer brother is closest to me out of all of our siblings.

I'm an Aries and I absolutely love cancer men. The chemistry is so mesmerizing, they're the only men strong enough to handle me and my deep sensitive emotions.