Help

I am seeing a cancer man I'm an Aries woman and it's been going on for a year although I know it's wrong as he lives with someone he blows hot and cold with me but always rings everyday and evening and messages we do t see each often probably every couple of mo the but have become really good friends I'm so confused when he go quiet on me I think it's the guilt but I also thought cancer men were loyal their relationship is very toxic so he tells me can anyone give me some advice please

I often think that too and I probably need to walk away

yeah, walk away

Ok he's living with someone? Like in another relationship?

That's a hell no actually.

Yes and at first I believed him that it was really bad and I am always there for him to talk to and listen to whenever they are arguing which is often I think I am just a counsellor to be honest

If it were that bad he would have left. Action speaks louder than words.

Posted by Moops
Yes and at first I believed him that it was really bad and I am always there for him to talk to and listen to whenever they are arguing which is often I think I am just a counsellor to be honest

Jeebus he really sucks! I adore you rams. You deserve so much better than that!

Thank you and you're right if it was that bad he would have left he says its financial etc but he's obviously just a cheat I'm starting to realise that now

im cancer myself and i use to hold on to things ,hard to let go,leave him and cofront him,tell him how y feel and leave it at that,if he likes you he will come and tell you,message you or somth,might take a while,because we are backwards people,slow in thinkin and doing,but when were done thinin were done thinkin,if he rly cares about you he will seek you out if he cares about you,make sure you tell him you have feels for him,but you dont want to be his second woman,tell him and leave it at that,make sure he knwos that you like him,because if he doesnt he will just vanish because he will think you dont need him anymore,we like to feel needed 😉

Thank you cancers are difficult to understand I never thought he had lied to me although everyone else thinks he's just using me I don't or maybe because I'm an Aries I see the good in every situation and I'm too nice