A cancer - again..... :)

Hello guys

I'm curious to know what you think of both of our charts — I met a really funny & interesting cancer (again??_ yeh) last week and we went on 3 dates til now, it looks promising. I won't make the same mistakes as with the last one??_ I want to take things slow emotionally. This guy is very sweet and brutally funny, on the first date he started to hold my hand while we were walking through the city, since then we always hold hands in public and even kiss in public...we r like teenagers whenever we r together haha kinda weird since it looks to others as we r a couple already, but we definitely have time for that.

Give me your thoughts please 🙂

Him:

sun: cancer 7th house
asc: sag
moon: sag 1st house
venus: cancer 7th house
merc : leo 8th house
mars: scorp 11th house

me:

sun: aqua 6th house
asc: leo
moon: cap 5th house
venus rx: cap 5th house
merc: cap 5th house
mars: sag 5th house

AND that's a good look! I say put that other cancer in the back burner and pursue this one. But I know how cancers are in the beginning if they really like you-they move real fast. Move with him but not so fast. Always stay open to him and communicate with him and STAY CONSISTENT! This sounds like a match made in heaven.

Did other dude ever call you back?

Hey you 🙂 thanks for your reply. I just wanted to state it so nobody gets confused — I NEVER heard from the other crab again.. by now 39 days of silence..which is bad but nothing I can do about and that's ok
Yeh I definitely go with the flow and his pace. I show him clearly that I like him and I tell him, but without overdoing it or becoming cheesy. In a subtle sweet funny way 🙂

I already have my toothbrush and towel at his place — but still, emotionally speaking I want to take it slow 🙂 dating should be comforting and fun! Not an ongoing struggle
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I don't have his exact TOB but he told me he knows he is a sag asc - that's why I typed in 7 pm so yeh.. houses might not be accurate..

he is july 10th 1984

any extra advice cheeseburger? 🙂 🙂

Tell me 🙂

Aww, aqua-cancer pairing.
I've been pretty close to a cancer sun/sag moon guy just like yours.
And my chart kinda look like pretty similar to your chart, i'm an aqua with caps stellium here too.
The sag moon probably what makes him all funny and goofy, more easy going, which is great.
I agree that you just better to take thing slow and enjoy while it last, i'll follow your update girl. Good luck 😉

Damn. I'm sorry. His loss. But oddly enough that's normal cancer ways for a situation like yours. Cancer sun sag moons are sweet and very playful like a innocent child but also quirky witty humor mixed with sag moon makes them adventurous and even funnier in a darker and deeper way that just makes people laugh easily. Cancer sun sag moons are the best combo IMO. They are close and sweet but also distant and exploring. They make your ears perk. This combo will make you feel like your getting a full package when you chill with them. They make you feel like everything is right in the world even when your world is crumbling.

Posted by StarChild63
Damn. I'm sorry. His loss. But oddly enough that's normal cancer ways for a situation like yours. Cancer sun sag moons are sweet and very playful like a innocent child but also quirky witty humor mixed with sag moon makes them adventurous and even funnier in a darker and deeper way that just makes people laugh easily. Cancer sun sag moons are the best combo IMO. They are close and sweet but also distant and exploring. They make your ears perk. This combo will make you feel like your getting a full package when you chill with them. They make you feel like everything is right in the world even when your world is crumbling.

+1
The sag moon thing makes it easier to be along with, in my experiences with cancers as an aqua. Agree with the adventurous thing as i kinda surprised that these cancer sag mooners like to go outside and enjoy nature and such beside being a homebody.

Yes, there are still the mood swings here and there, the never ending rollercoaster ride. But, when they're in the good mood phase, all you got is a happier go luckier cancerian, with jokes over silly stupid things but still are charming and cute.

They're maybe still have a sensitive part of em, but less mellodrama and shit.
Not sure if it's makes him more indecisive and commitment phobia. They offered some kind of commitment though, but it seemed less serious, or maybe it's just becaus their wittier way to express it that made it seemed like that.

But, from my experiences these guys are still there for years for me to talk and hang out, even after those rough ugly fights here and there. They're still there and still are the best ones

So true! My co worker who is a scorp has a sag moon and we joke around the whole time!!! I really like this placement and I believe it blends well with my sag mars.
He did say that he does have a hard time to settle and commit but to be honest I think it only depends on how much time you spend together and if you pressure the other person. I believe with sag guys/sag moon guys you just need to go with the flow without pressure but still communicate what you want from this connection. He said that he is happy all by himself and I told him that it's great but why are we dating if he is —so happy alone?? he replied that I'm special in his eyes and very interesting. So it's just a matter of time until he wants to take the next step — his cancer venus prefers committed unions I guess.

Thank you guys 🙂

Great that you know that it's a matter of time. Just a lil add from my experiences with cancer sun / sag moon, it took at least 2 years and even 8 years for the longest for them to literally say love. Hope it would be less longer for you guys to make it 😉

we were supposed to have our 4th date today and he cancelled yesterday explaining me that he wants to be fair and straight! he said he doesn't have butterflies etc and that he just wants to be fair since he doesn't think he'll ever fall for me.

WOW!!! hands down for this cancer guy!!! I wasn't even sad I was very happy when he called me because this shows a lot of respect! I don't care if he sees another girl or so but being honest with me and breaking it off before things get messy is a huge thing! I really respect and admire him for that! 🙂

I thought about it, maybe I'm really not mushy enough for water venus or water sun people... because I really tried to build a friendship first. Maybe that's what cooled him off because he missed the romantic mushy stuff.. dunno. I did tell him several times, that I like him and feel comfy, want to cuddle etc... but I'm not a quiet sweet girl.. I'm loud, funny and very open - just like I would be when I was around my friends.. and maybe that's exactly why it didn't work out.. because my aqua sun and cap venus needs a solid / friendship ground first before we get all lovey dovey etc

ok with the former crab I was all lovey dovey - but I learned my lesson... I need a friendship first! a mate to rely on, a strong shoulder to lean on and THEN I can open up emotionally..

so glad I can say that although it didn't turn serious, I'm happy to say that he is a cancer with a cancer venus and yes he was straight up and honest and fair! 🙂

haha I think he was a bit confused too because when he called me and told me that I was all cool and told him "thank you for your honesty, it's totally cool with me if you want to break things off! I wanted to be with you and really give it a try but if you think it won't happen then that's totally cool with me. good night" maybe he expected me to discuss his breaking off more but I didn't want to because in that moment I was just happy that he was so honest (I'm so not used to honesty that even if you break up with me I'm happy lol)

Wow. I want to say something but I'm rushing. I'll come back and replt

Posted by AquaNextDoor
I don't have his exact TOB but he told me he knows he is a sag asc - that's why I typed in 7 pm so yeh.. houses might not be accurate..

he is july 10th 1984

any extra advice cheeseburger? 🙂 🙂

Oh thank heavens! If he had my birthday july 9th you might be in a shallow grave by now. According to the zodiac derps in the Astrology forum. 😛