Cancers and cheating

What are cancers usually like when it comes to cheating? I have a female cancer friend and she is the biggest ho you can imagine. She has probably cheated on every single boyfriend she has ever had and that makes me really sad.
I am dating a cancer guy and it makes me nervous considering her track record. Are female and male cancers the same in this way? And if he does cheat, will I ever find out about it? Some people come out with it. Others die with those secrets.

As a virgo, if I really like someone I would never DREAM of cheating! Actually, even if I'm not crazy about a guy I'm dating, I still won't do it.

Eeesh well uhm that's her little ho ass I guess. I'm pretty loyal when I'm with someone.

I don't know if it changes anything, but he has earth rising/moon signs.

^^^ THIS

And I'll add that my ex virgo friend is married and has been fucking my (ex)husband for years.

Basically the OP is being a dick.

Point me towards the slutty cancer women I wanna see! Lol the cancers I know have been mostly faithful. If they weren't they were in a make up to break up deal when they were broken up. Cancers are slutty when young and immature. My cancer friend was a little slut in her freshman and a little in her sophomore year in college. I think she was free from her high school sweetheart-she was with him from age 14-17- so I think when cancers are looking for a sexual adventure and get tired of playing the chick that is always in a relationship they get slutty. When they want to rebel or see if they still got it they get slutty. This only goes for young immature cancers. But when they mature-they mature faster then most zodiac signs-they are nothing but a classy woman who is a freak for her man behind closed doors. That's slutty way about them when their young never disappears. That's a why hands down cancer women are best in the sack. The slutty immature cancer is the one who knows she is magnetic and flirts with all the dudes and shouts and flashes the camera for girls gone wild shots. But when mature they don't play with their commitment even if their partner cheats-they'll just slowly make it so they can exit and have suiters lined up and ready for when she finally dumps dude. But they don't cheat when in a committeed relationship. But if you are not. Committed they will fuck whoever they wish to with no problem-but if they happen to be in love with a fwb they won't touch or even so much as stare at another man. They will be coldly unavailable to other men.

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Posted by MoonArtist
^^^ THIS

And I'll add that my ex virgo friend is married and has been fucking my (ex)husband for years.

Wow. What a friend(!)

I've read posts of your marriage in the past, and it didn't make sense to me why he never wanted to be intimate with you. Now it makes sense.

Sorry you had to go through that. :/

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Well, I knew he was having an affair with a coworker of his, but didn't find out about the friend until I left him. THAT'S when she turned on me, became super protective of him, and started spending time with him, publicly (the park with the kids, the beach, 4th of july, etc). Isn't she "lovely"? And she had the nerve to flip out when she caught her husband cheating.....at least he never went after anyone she knew! Looking back, I'm glad my ex refused to have sex. I sure as hell don't want his double dipping dick around my girly bits! Eww!

Posted by MoonArtist
^^^ THIS

And I'll add that my ex virgo friend is married and has been fucking my (ex)husband for years.

Virgo style. They want what they're not supposed to have or even look at just for trouble

Posted by aurora
wow, i had no idea. your friend and your husband— i knew these stuff happen but i never knew someone with this experience in rl. i hope you don't care about them at all, and you did the famous cancer switch.

Yes I did. Because he's an abusive, unstable person, I had him served divorce papers while he was at work. The divorce was planned totally under the radar (I was too afraid of what would happen if he had a heads up. He had threatened all sorts of things: to shoot my horses, kill himself, take my kids away, ruin me, etc). I literally blind sided him with it. As for the ex friend, I told her she was dead to me, held the mirror up and let her know what I thought of her: that she's a shallow, backstabbing cunt-faced people user who deserves whatever nastiness she encounters in life. Ever since all of that I've completely iced her out. The ex occasionally tries to defend her, and to guilt me for throwing away my "best friend". Since it seriously bothers him when I shit talk her, I randomly call her names in a very casual way if he brings her up. "What friend named Nancy? I never had a friend by that name."....."oh, you mean the cunt-faced whore who sucks her husband's dick so he'll keep giving her money? What about her?" He gets sooooo mad when I talk shit about her. hehehehehe.....I get all gleeful on that.

Posted by StarChild63
Virgo style. They want what they're not supposed to have or even look at just for trouble

No, there;s some good virgos out there. She's just not one of them.

I'm not a cheating Cancer, even though I wish I was.

I'm just too good to be true, sighs.

I found mine to be a cheater . We were seeing each other for a year and a half and he always said it was casual with us ... I was ok with that he told me he was dating others as well. Tonite he tells me he can't see me anymore because he apparently has had an exclusive girlfriend for the last 6 months without telling me! I feel awful and what is worse is we work together , I can't even imagine how I can go to work tomorrow, my eyes are swollen from crying

^^^ ouch

Posted by kissmygrits
Basically the OP is being a dick.

Seems to be a lot of those lately.
Things like: " I tried to text about important relationship issues to my Cancer and he won't respond immediately by text. What's wrong with him"
or
" He stated up front that he wants to casually date, but now he is going exclusive with someone else. What's wrong with him?"
or
".He's not worshiping my lady parts like the other beta guys do. What's wrong with him?"

There is a common theme there, and it's not the guy.

I didnt say he cheated on me he cheated on his girlfriend with me without me knowing and yes I am hurt we can't see each other anymore and I feel like a fool for being a part of this triangle without knowing it

I know but he told me they were exclusive for six months now . I appreciate your input though truly you did help me feel a little better about it all, it's going to be hard working with him now though , I need to find another job ASAP lol ( he is also my boss)

I'm sorry you're hurting, but if you had wanted someone who didn't have the chance of finding another person, you should have never agreed to be causal. Also, messing with the boss, or a coworker, is just asking for drama in life.

Also, it doesn't seem that he cheated. You weren't committed or exclusive to each other, so he didn't cheat on you. And he was dating the other girl for 6 months, but probably had her casual, as well, until he told you that he couldn't see you anymore. He decided to commit to her.

Just so we are clear, they became exclusive six months ago , I am apparently the side chick without realizing it, I didnt say he cheated on me and yes I am embarrassed about the whole thing . Yes I am sad we can't see each other anymore even though yesterday when I told him I probably need to look for another job he told me not too and tried to hook up with me. I blame his venus in gem

^he was cheating and lying and he was dead wrong for leading her to believe he was a free man that could grow with her.

Lying by omission is what that's called

That's what I told him yesterday he lied by omission , the way he was yesterday it's clear he still wants to see me it's ridiculous

I know it sucks thank you 🙂 I appreciate your kind words !

You are nobody's plaything. He wants to keep you like that. Don't believe him. He doesn't like you and is not interested in you. At least for nothing serious. He only wants the booty or second runner up choice if his relationship falls through or a good ego stroke when he needs one. He's not a real man and you can do better. I bet it hurts like hell but there are real men out here. Don't ever return his calls or texts just ignore his silly ass and let him find a new victim. All that time you wasted in him could've been spent on someone else. When at work just do your work and go home until you can find another job

Thanks Starchild, it's difficult working with him , I have kept it professional today and keeping to myself and working.

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Posted by Taurusson2
Just so we are clear, they became exclusive six months ago , I am apparently the side chick without realizing it, I didnt say he cheated on me and yes I am embarrassed about the whole thing . Yes I am sad we can't see each other anymore even though yesterday when I told him I probably need to look for another job he told me not too and tried to hook up with me. I blame his venus in gem

Omg ya Venus in gem.

2 chicks at my work have that placement and both are cheaters. Totally don't care if they get caught or who they hurt. They go around like they are entitled to cheat. But omg if their partners did it to them it would be a different story!!!

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Hmmm... cancer chick I've always talk about is also venus in gemini... I thought about that before but kind of was told that placement has nothing to do... but the way you put it... I can relate...

relating to cheating... she is been "punishing" husband for cheating on her, even so they are back together, she did cheat (rebound) with another guy after knowing this... but her excuse (because is different from what he did) was that at the time this happened (two weeks after finding out) she though is was over for good... the end count was he did 2, she did 2 (or at least that what I knew)but she kept sexting with other guys way after that issue was sorted through...

whatever the case (in total judgmental way of my behalf)I think is just convenient though, because she knows he cheated with at least two girls... but he doesn't know how many she did, he only knows about one... then few months after everything was in path of recovery she was told husband was fooling around with some chicks on a business trip... she got pissed!!!

I've never cheated on anyone but I assume that being on that track once it gets exiting to keep doing it...

Gemini husband and she is gemini venus... should I assume that A=B then and C=A it means B=C?

Venus in Gemini doesn't mean jack shit. I have that placement and don't do that disloyal hooker crap.

Maybe their Mars is in Uranus.

Posted by Taurusson2
Just so we are clear, they became exclusive six months ago , I am apparently the side chick without realizing it, I didnt say he cheated on me and yes I am embarrassed about the whole thing . Yes I am sad we can't see each other anymore even though yesterday when I told him I probably need to look for another job he told me not too and tried to hook up with me. I blame his venus in gem

Freaking horrible! You can't trust anyone anymore.

"What are cancers usually like when it comes to cheating? "

Cancers cheat 24/7. Doesn't matter who or what it is. It' comes naturally.
Boyfriends, girlfriends, card games, moneychanging.

So funny you'd ask, I just asked this about Virgos... Guess it's not a sign thing but an individual thing