Advice On An Ex

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Dylann on Monday, August 21, 2006 and has 8 replies.

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@Dylann
20 Years

Just spoke to an ex girlfriend from ten years ago tonight. We've remained friends throughout the years. We speak a couple of times every few months. She tells me that she wouldn't mind starting up something again in the future. She said that she made a huge mistake back then and has always loved me. It's pretty crazy considering I just got out of a relationship a couple of months ago. What do you guys think about getting back with someone from years ago. Does it work? She's a Sagittarius.

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@cancerLA
20 Years500+ Posts

usually I would say never got back but who knows? Its been 10 years...and if someone can still be in love with you 10 years after the break up and be able to admit making a big mistake...I can only imagine all of the fun, romantic, sweet, and kinky sh!t she's imagined she'd do with,for, and to you if she ever got the chance over the years...

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@SRG
20 Years500+ PostsCancer

I wouldn't be so quick to discount the Cancer - Sag combination. My best friend is a Sag and I get along very well with them in general. I disagree with them occasionally on some things but overall, i'd say they're the best fire sign.. at least for me.

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@canceroushugs
20 Years

both my BEST friends and my bro are sags. cancer-sag is a GOOD combo. but i would be wary of getting back with an ex..you split for a reason and its hard to shed those preconceived notions of each other from the past realtionship....especially if one of you wronged the other.

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@Daemon
21 Years

huh?lol sag and cancer good,but they tend to pick at u and booooooy love alotta attention.

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@cancerlady
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Okay...as FRIENDS Cancer and Sag are awesome. I agree.

BUT RELATIONSHIPS? A WHOOOOLE different story. I still stand behind my first statement. HOWEVER, I would like to know what were some of the problems you experienced that made you break up in the first place?

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@Dylann
20 Years

I have to get over this other relationship before I'd even consider this. I can't even think about it right now. However, there weren't a lot of problems. We were in our early twenties and she was working in New York at the time. She had to move back home to Iowa to help take care of a family situation and so we split up. She was supposed to come back six months later, but she ended up staying out there for 3 years. There was nothing really bad that went on. I guess that's why we have remained friends.

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@cancerlady
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Poor baby! But is sounds like there may be hope!

What happened with the relationship you are trying to get over?

If I am being TOO nosey, just let me know. I won't be offended.