Advice on this Cancer moon Please

I am currently dating a Gemini female with a cancer moon, venus in Leo, Mercury in Taurus and Mars in Geminini. I am a Gemini with Pisces Moon, venus in Gemini, Mercury Gemini and Mars in Taurus. When we first me it was instant attraction, coversation flowed well and we had plenty in common. She wanted to become Official, I felt it best to wait, but gave in because she took my thoughts on the issue as rejection. Everything was going well in the beginning but then all Hell broke loose. There seemed to be some kind of disconnect communication wise. I could say Purple and she would argue that it was green. She became very controlling and when I would complain she would act as if she knows best and I would be unwise not to listen to her. Everything from my clothes, my hair to what kind of electronis or dishes I buy needed to be ran by her and if it wasnt she would find that as a reason to be complain. If I don't do things her way, then it is considered dumb. Sex is another aspect she attempts to control. She wants to touch me all the time, but only "allows" me to touch her at certain times. That was just a littler background info....

This is the problem now. We met online initially and the site we met on she still had a profile up but I didn't mind because she had not checked it since before we became official. Well Last week I decided to take a peep at it and her status was changed from "BI" to "STRAIGHT". When I confronted her on it she claims that her friends have her password and they changed everything stating she need to get out and meet someone. She isn't out the closet to her friends and family as of yet. I told her it was disrespectful to our relationship and she needs to delete it. She claims if she deletes it they will just put another one up so there is no point in deleting the page. I told her I couldnt be with her if she couldnt respect our relationship and she attempts to make me feel bad by stating " you would break us up over a page". Now, my thing is, she had to give her friends the p/w and if they changed her status then they know she is BI.

The reason I came to this board is because she acts more like a cancer than a Gemini to me. She is always so secretive, I hate to say but she is emotionally manipulative, and she isnt very forth coming with her feelings. She tells me she loves me all the time, but at times she avoids me and makes up these lies and cancels plans. Cancers... any thoughts?

there are some serious trust/control issues at play. i dont have experience in this since i am hetero, but from what i understand, coming out of the closet is a very personal decision. the dating thing and the excuse about the friends is a big red flag. if it is early on in the relationship then i would probably move on. those are my initial thoughts.

Thanks for the comments, I received some good advice and it confirms what I already feel. We have only been official since april ... so a little over 3 months. When I initially brought up her change of sexual orientation on her page, she told me that I need to work on my insecurities, that it is only a page and trust is more important. Ummm that really didn't even make sense to me when she said it and while typing that comment makes even less sense. She wants to make me feel like I am over reacting and it is not a big deal. QS( can I call you that?) what you said about your cancer moon friend sounds like my girlfriend. Her ex bf treated her so bad, yet she was willing to be in an open relationship and share him in order to keep him when she found out he was cheating. She has told me of her past and the kind of men she has dated, and they all have been abusive in some form or another. She is very successful in her career, wealthy, independent, and led me to believe she wanted someone that would treat her with respect. It just seems more and more she craves the opposite. I told her I had to walk away and I cut communication. She has been calling and texting in a persistent matter since then. I really don't get her. She is like a sponge, constantly soaking me up, but never replenishing or pouring back into me. I care about her a lot but I walked away because I realize I have to care about myself more. I just don't understand why she is still persistent in claiming she loves me and wants me when she doesnt respect or value me

I have the exact placement as your girl, and when I'm into someone, I am usually proud of the person and I wont hide the relationship.... The person I like also has a moon in pisces. But others are right, it's best you move on.