Anxiety

Posted by osiris626
hi there good miss.

i think that is your withdrawal process kicking in. i know deep inside you, you just want to contact her again and get back together, right? it feels like you have to do something and you don't know what that is that's why you are just confused.

it's creepy though. i am feeling the same thing for the past few days. i thought i am just weird.

Posted by Ssasy
Deep down of course I do.... But we have been through soo much.... That this may be for the best.....

I guess it is my withdrawal... I've done everything i could but nothing else to do lol. And as a cancer/ cancer moon letting go and not doing anything is HaRd.

Posted by aquavita
i am a sag and when someone i really cared for but i was unavailable for them was gone, i used to get the panic mode at 3 am. i tried asking the person, as many other things i felt were related to his feelings( non verbal communication ) but he did not tell me. we are all connected/. did u know the seals can feel the world via their whiskers? i watched the repeat of the SEal Andre yesterday on gbh. it was heart breaking, as an animal has so much more intelligence that many humans . By intelligence i mean understanding combined with kindness and goodness and .... humor!

Posted by osiris626
haha! oh so you mean you exhausted everything already 😆

yes, it won't hurt to trust your intuition. we don't know that maybe, she is thinking of you so much as well. just don't keep your hopes up, ayt?


focus on yourself. it will be hard but this is the best you should do. spend more time with other people. time will pass and you won't even feel it 🙂

Posted by aquavita
i am a sag and when someone i really cared for but i was unavailable for them was gone, i used to get the panic mode at 3 am. i tried asking the person, as many other things i felt were related to his feelings( non verbal communication ) but he did not tell me. we are all connected/. did u know the seals can feel the world via their whiskers? i watched the repeat of the SEal Andre yesterday on gbh. it was heart breaking, as an animal has so much more intelligence that many humans . By intelligence i mean understanding combined with kindness and goodness and .... humor!

Posted by osiris626
ayt = alright (just lazy)

STOP THINKING ABOUT HER. She might be having the same anxiety thing you have right now. LOL. 😆

Perfect. Come out of your shell. Always stay pretty. Who knows maybe if you get to see her again, she will notice the CHANGE in you and realize what she's been missing all the time 😉

Posted by Ssasy



lol @ AYT I never seen that before...
STOP ? thats like telling me not to breathe!!
Really? I dont think so...I can only recall 1 time she felt my vybes and knew something was off and she felt bad because she thought I was feeling bad...Well I hope she feels something!! Similar to GAS too lol....I am staying pretty 🙂

Yeah I think shes too stubborn and prideful to admit that...Shes an Aqua Sun/Cap moon and her chart is full of SAG.

Posted by osiris626
you'll so better in no time. just up with the good work. 😉

Posted by MissGemmi
Could be that you are highly sensitive and might feel the energy of others. You might have tried to tune in to her emotions or just feel it without trying. I'm having the same problem.

It probably also has to do with a routine you had with her. Maybe morning texts etcetera and the fact that there isn't real closure. There's love and attraction, but somehow no possibilities to make it work on both ends. You still feel this and you know she feels the same, but you don't have an outlet... Also trying to control the urge to contact her.

I strongly feel when my interest is thinking of me. Minutes later I receive a text or something. You are still in love, but you're trying to rationalize it by not thinking about it. That makes it even stronger, we can't control feelings and emotions.

Posted by MissGemmi
The thing is. You know each others daily routines and had your interpersonal routines, eventhough it ended a long time ago. I know my interests daily routines as well and she knows mine. I still know what she's doing, eventhough we're not communicating. This is a connection you have, a bond.

Also don't try to overthink or rationalize your emotions. It's there, live it. It's only when I try to ignore them, it gets even stronger. I don't delete/block failed romances from my phone or facebook, because I will only miss them more. This will cause more anxiety. I'm confronting myself with them.

When there's love and care, there's always a way out. Turn it around in a positive vibe. It's a blessing you are able to feel tremendous love and care. She knows it and you know she loves you as well. For now, that's enough. There will come a time, the negative trust association with your relationship will vanish and the love and care you feel for each other will come to the surface.

This storm will pass.