Can't understand aqua guy

Do not contact him. Move on. He doesn't seem interested.

On another note, why isn't behavior this failing your "test"? These actions verify his character or lack of. He doesn't follow through and doesn't mean what he says. This is a huge "red flag".

Save yourself confusion and heartache. Rule out men quickly who display actions like this that do not measure up to your standards.

from Astrotwins' Love Zodiac.

Sensitive as an aquarius man can be, when he's done, he feels not need to stick around. Once his bruised ego recovers from any slights, he can step back and evaluate your relationship with cool, emotionless logic. His first love will always be life - and what woman can compete with the juicy promise of a new day or discovery? Second in line are the fellow pioneers with whom he shares his time in this brief mortal coil.

Here's how you'll know that you're not part of him permanent history after all:

HE MADE TOO MANY COMPROMISES:
The aquarius man can be a people-pleaser, but if he compromises his ideals of life vision to please you, the resentment will stew until it boils over. He needs to become more of himself, not less, in the relationship. If he feels his world is shrinking, he'll fade away, or notch the romance down to buddy status until you're forced to part as friends.

YOU STEPPED ALL OVER HIS EGO:
The aquarius man is a competitive Alpha dog who needs to stay ahead of the pack. Did you make him look stupid in front of his friends? He believes you should honor your partner and never put him in a bad light. He's big on humanity and if he feels you've treated him with disrespect or cruelty, buh-bye.

HE FADES AWAY OR DISAPPEARS:
There's no greater anathema to Aquarius than a heavy, tearful, emotional good-bye. It will send his system into total shutdown. If he thinks you won't go along with the whole "lets just be friends" idea, he'd rather just vanish and let you figure it out. Ouch.

YOU WERE THE PURSUER:
He's a competitive conquistador who needs to hunt his trophy and score the grand prize. He needs to seek you out. If you had to talk him into the relationship or beg for his attention, forget it. There's a better match out there for you anyhow.

HE SUGGESTS AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP SO HE CAN EXPLORE OTHER PARTNERS:
If it includes a threesome for you and him, that's one thing. But if he wants to tryst the night away without you, forget it. If he can stomach the idea of you sleeping around, he's just not that into you. Aquarius is far too possessive to imagine another dude scoring some action with his lady-love.

YOU'VE MADE HIM RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR SELF ESTEEM:
Be honest: Do you often find yourself depressed and dramatic - yet refusing to do any inner work to heal your situation? The future-focused aquarius man is proactive, and he expects you to be, too.

truecap, where did you find this? can you give me the link so that i can read it for another sign? thanks!

Sometimes I gauge the girl's enthusiasm.

This may not apply to you but I've asked girls out, check their availabilities and actually set a time and place. If they can't then I'll ask when they are free, if they fail to answer then that's it.

Not saying it applies to you but who knows. Though as Truecap said, he's probably wandered off.

Posted by mz
truecap, where did you find this? can you give me the link so that i can read it for another sign? thanks!

I have the book. A long time ago I typed it out in here. I just found the thread and copy and pasted it.

Posted by truecap

Posted by mz
truecap, where did you find this? can you give me the link so that i can read it for another sign? thanks!

I have the book. A long time ago I typed it out in here. I just found the thread and copy and pasted it.

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We need to know 😉 What book?

At the top of my post

Astrotwins' Love Zodiac

@truecap

I'm guilty of doing all of those things 😢

Posted by IAmMystified
@truecap

I'm guilty of doing all of those things 😢

it's ok...who's going to throw the stone—? 🙂