Gem man Aqua Girl

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by doublesidedGem on Tuesday, August 19, 2014 and has 7 replies.

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@doublesidedGem
12 Years

Been talking to an Aquarian lady for about 6 weeks now. And in the first 5 everything was going great,now in this last week I've felt myself drifting off from her, this is what I do, a phase of not wanting or being bothered to do anything.

I like the girl immensely we talk a lot message a lot and because it's long distance as in 2 hours from each other but 200 miles apart we don't get to see each other a lot. Trying to ask is this normal Gemini behaviour I do this with other things but don't want to be like this with someone that I like and am getting to know really well!

Keen to here if anyone else male or female go through this.

Thanks guys.

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@Boriska
12 YearsAquarius

Hi,
I'm Aqua lady secretly in love with Gemini man. Gemini men are awesome =)

I don't know your lady... but for me, be honest about it, talk about it with her.
If it's just a phase, I wouldn't mind to give you some time off.

My Gemini friend does it too and I don't want to be bothered all the time as well.

Everyone needs space sometime.

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@geminaye97
13 Years

I dated an aqua and it ended up fizzling out like that. I'll always love her and we're still good friends but the spark just died. I need someone who's a little unpredictable and plays hard to get sometimes.

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@saltdiscus
12 Years

i dated a libra.i had same problem my interest fade away quickly.i have just started seeing a girl and she does act like aqua.ill post it here if i get same feeling like u.

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@Boriska
12 YearsAquarius

Posted by geminaye97
I dated an aqua and it ended up fizzling out like that. I'll always love her and we're still good friends but the spark just died. I need someone who's a little unpredictable and plays hard to get sometimes.

what does it exactly mean a little unpredictable and hard to get?
Can you give me some example ...please

I don't think I'm easy to get...but if I like some, and I mean realy like, I want to spent more time with them, get to know them.
And I love to shock people sometimes.

I'm asking cause I'm in love with gemini man and sometimes I feel like the spark is dying. i don't want that. But he is a first man who can read me, how can I be unpredictable then 🙂

thanks for your advice

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@doublesidedGem
12 Years

Haha, cheers for the replies! Give you a little update.

It was really intense for about 6 weeks, but she came out of a 3+ year rship, we met say 4-5 months After. I'm in a position where I'd like a rship she knew it and I know her situation. So didn't feel I pushed it much. She had an op last week. Which was planned and about a week before it said she wanted to take her time. She said she wanted to maybe continue where it left it off once she recovered, she wants to continue talking.

I really want to get to know her more just don't know how to approach it. Aqua women shall I leave her and let her think wow, why isn't he messaging or shall I message her lol!

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@doublesidedGem
12 Years

Moving right now isn't even at the bottom of the list lol!

I just wanna keep it fresh and don't wanna friend zone myself lol, but at the same time don't wanna be chasing her. We haven't spoken for 3 days now lol, like a Gemini I'm waaaaay over thinking this .....?