Any Crab Ever Fallen For a Virgo?

Hi, I'd like to hear about the experiences of any cancers fallen for virgos. What problems have you had and were you able to compromise your differences? I am particularly interested in cancer female+virgo male relationships. Thanks!

hope i never do

memories, best & worst. like any other pairing, it could work out very well. but good luck to you. When I dated a virgo, she complained that i did not open myself up to her often enough. we had some big fights, though she did stick to me like a wet booger through very tough times. we eventually fell apart. i'd be willing to do it all over again... . . one thousand times even. not to forget to mention, there were many times i truly honestly thought that woman was flat nutzo... kinda liked it when it wasn't directed at me. ah crazy memories =-]

I'm falling for one now... but not so fast...

Hey I remember a user called namelesscancer who used to post on dxp a few months back who had a really big crush on a virgo woman and was asking for advice on how to go about winning her over. i don't know if he comes on now though.

I am a cancerian woman with a virgo man. Have dated for nearly a year and it is a very different relationship than what I am used to. I dont feel even now that I know him particularly well and he is difficult to read. I knew when I first set eyes on him though that he could be the one. It was a very strange experience for me as I am usually cautious. We dont talk about deep stuff yet but I know we will get there - its almost fun waiting for that day when we completely break down and share everything. I am holding back waiting and am not overly expressive but I know I will pop one day. the initmate side of our relationship is getting hotter too but in a caring sensual way. I wish I was the type of person that could pounce on him 🙂
All in all it is a good pairing - we have to lighten Virgos up and realise it is not about us when they go on their retreats.

I have a relationship with virgo for more than 3 years when i was in university. You have to handle the flirtitious of Virgo for another ladies...He is like that. But, if he loves you, he would priorities you.

Had a 1 1/2 year relationship with a virgo. Great conversation and great friends during the relationship but intimacy was flat and way too sporadic to be enough. It just wasn't as high on their priority list as mine...didn't think it should make a big difference in a relationship. Also (there are two sides to every story this is my side) the high-strung nature was a bit of a turn off. Both of us are VERY critical people although I tend to not voice my criticisms until I'm very angry. They seemed to always be venting about one thing or another...and I was also very irritated by things like me forgetting to take the garbage out translating into no sex for the night. I will say though that my biggest gripes in the relationship (as far as my side of the story is concerned) had more to do with their dysfunctional childhood than virgoness. I generally like virgos.....don't know if i'll be dating one again though the sexual life and itimacy with then is a bit too clinical for me...good people though...better for friends or employees (very hardworkers!) than anything else...

i don't even know any virgo guys...

moonchild8: i don't even know any virgo guys...

You should be happy about that! 😛

My virgo told me he loved me already today... We have been talking on the phone since the beginning of December and it's turned into something very unexpected. I think because our relationship is totally based on the phone there are a lot of feelings there and feelings yet to come. I can't help but wonder If our relationship was not of a long distance phone nature how would it be? I like him a lot but, I'm not going to say I'm in love with him just yet. I don't think my heart will let me do that just yet because of my past relationship turning out to be so messed up... We'll see..

good luck honeygirl...

falling...yeah, well i have been with an aqua for almost 3 years now...i highly doubt a virgo man has anything on an aqua man!!! it doens't get any tougher than dating an aqua guy...

Hi, Never won that virgo girl, she was way too cold for me 🙂
I just got married to the most wonderful girl shes cappy btw, we get along amazing.

End of the day,just be yourself and if its meant to be, it will be.

Namelesscancer you just got married—??!!!! That's a bit of surprise! Congrats.

moonchild8: it doens't get any tougher than dating an aqua guy...

Well, I tried to date this virgo with a moon in aqua! Finally totally giving up on him (which I did just a couple of days ago) has been a very good decision for me.

I wish you the best of luck with your aquaman, I can only guess how hard that should be...

yeah, my aqua and i had broken up for a few months back in May but we got back together and have been together again since September...anyway, when we were broken up i was hanging out with a saggie who has an aqua moon, and he was just as tough as my aqua...so, yeah, aqua moon can be just as hard to handle, i understand!!!

moonchild8: so, yeah, aqua moon can be just as hard to handle, i understand!!!

yeah, are they the coldest people on earth or what?!!?! 😛

Mellow why is it a surprise 🙂 you know us crabbies are romantic

There's this Virgo at my workplace that kind of forced himself into my life. I wasn't thinking about him romantically, but I would always catching him looking at me, & he would do things to make sure I noticed him. Even though, he's not my type because he seems to be grumpy a lot, I started to take notice of him & think of him in a romantic way. A man's eyes tell me a lot about him, and I could sense a lot of warmth in him. He gets nervous around me and I think that's really cute, but there have been other times when he's cold and harsh on me. From what I've read on the Virgo board, these are Virgo's way of showing you how much they care about you.

He's very shy when it comes to women, so he hasn't asked me out. There have been times when I think he's going to ask me out, but then he must lose his nerve or something. Anyway, it's been about 8 months of this hot and cold thing. If he were to ask me out, I would say yes, but I'm not holding my breath. Besides, I just changed shifts so I don't seem him that often. I'm ready to move on because being a bit shy & reserved myself, I need a man that is strong and confident, and that is going to offer me emotional stability.

Enter the scene this kind-hearted Taurus man. I don't know if anything will materialize with the Taurus man, but I'm not waiting for the Virgo man. If the Virgo makes a move, fine. If not, best of luck to him!!! 🙂

i am a cancer female and married a virgo male... he was my best friend and even tho we divorced (after dating for 5 years!) we still maintain a good friendship... best relationship i ever had... until i met another cancer and we bonded SOOOO quickly on every level

i kept getting intimidated of my virgo ex-gf because she's making more money than me. goal oriented woman...i really dig her though

"Mellow why is it a surprise you know us crabbies are romantic"

Because only a few months ago you seemed totally smitten by the virgo woman you were posting about.

lol true Mellow 🙂
but if you recall it was pretty much a one-way thing 🙂 - which ultimately just is never gonna work

This one worked from the get-go 🙂

falling for virgo,

looks like i'm in the same boat. am cancer girl interested in virgo guy. he plays hot and cold, is shy, rarely makes a move etc. i've decided to shut myself off and if he doesn't chase me back out of my shell, then so be it.
although it pisses me off, i find his elusiveness so sexy. and when we kiss it is very intense. i've rarely, if never before, felt such chemistry.

ah god, how am i gonna get over this :s

why did you decide to give up on your virgo?

Catherine,

You can look at my posts on the virgo board for the details of my story.

Long story short: he was very shy at first, then we got closer (both emotionally and physically) and that's when he started acting weird. I was also at fault I guess for I acted a little rash and sent him an email, which in hindsight was unnecessary I think. He later told me that email pulled up a red flag. He seemed interested nonetheless but never took action, and played hot and cold constantly. I could not take it anymore, hence I gave up on him.

After a couple of months, he's still acting the same way. Whenever I show him a little more interest than usual, he acts aloof and uninterested. Whenever I become totally indifferent, he gets nicer and warmer. It's like he's playing a game. I am gradually losing my interest and becoming a little resentful (and sick, VERY sick, of his f.ing games).

Good luck with your virgo - most probably you'll need it! LOL!

ah man. i almost text him tonight. AND THEN my phone got stolen!
is this a sign? ahahahaa.
this means i don't have his number, and if he tries to contact me i won't know, because my number doesn't exist anymore as far as i'm concerned.
also, tonight i met a gemini. he's great, we got along good, but i couldn't help but wish he were my virgo guy. i know i said i gave up on him but deep down i know i haven't.