bloody typical

this is guna be a long one but please scroll to the bottom and give me some advice x

ok so iv you've read any of my other posts you'll know im...
sun- pisces/aries cusp (21st march)
moon- sagg
rising- leo
venus- aquarius

and i like a guy whos 31st june
sun- cancer
and either moon or rising is leo i cant remember
venus- gemini


so i got talking to him online because we share a very good friend and had seen each other about.
we're both at different uni's so just been chatting on IM when we get the chance, and met up at easter, seemed to go well and we both said we'd like to meet up again after our exams.

i know im quite open and upfront
and after reading up on cancers i realised they take a while to open up n decide if they like someone, never being direct etc


BUT anyways
sometimes i will Private message him and he wont reply even if iv asked him questions grrr

i mean thats just plain rude if you ask me, and if you like someone then you would WANT to reply surely

a lot of fellow aries have told me to run away from cancers and i finally felt like i just wana give up on him, because it takes the biscuit him not replying.

then today he msgs me this.....

"hey just saying good luck with the work.dont know why but u havnt seemed very talkative recently.hope i havnt done anything wrong.....(some other stuff bout uni work)"

and im thinkin huh? totally cancer shell (now you see us now you dont)

but i duno if in the long run i can cope with this behaviour

anyways

iv not been very chatty l8ly and iv kinda been hoping for an opportunity to tell him the reason for it is because im a bit miffed he hasnt replied to my msgs. so i guess this is my chance now.

but what to say?
i want to get my point across that it was rude to not reply
and that i really like msgs n txts etc. and someone who isnt in to that....doesnt rely do it for me (not on wavelength if tha makes sense)
but i still want him to like me so i dont wana come across as a bitch......thats why i need you advice, coz as an aries im not always good with tact and can be a bit harsh


thanks anyone who replies 🙂

also can i add..

the reason i havent been talkative is because he hasnt seem interested, so iv kinda given up making the effort to talk to him and seem interesting,.....because there didnt seem any point to it...


😢 i think maybe we're just not well suited. talking to someone you like is supposed to be exciting

thanks for taking the time to help tasha,
i think as you say iv kinda answered my own question....as much as it sucks 😢 its likely that me n this guy are not on the same wavelength.

and i think the reason i havent confronted him about the non-replyin is because i can come across as quite an intense person, and with other intense people that is great, but i didnt wana scare off this guy by coming across all needy or something lol

i will msg him back and say it was rude of him to not reply and thats why iv not been chatty.

but i think its time for me to move on because if im having doubts this early on then i am not guna be content with a r/ship with him.

people (aries) say that they find cancers annoyingly clingy and needy, and at first i thought that this would be great....to have someone who wants to be with you all the time, but i can see now that it wouldnt be the case. cancers arent intense with aries, they disappear and then when you think your getting over them (begrudgingly bcoz you really like them) then pop up again ggrrr

oh cleopatra, i totally know how you feel! i'm another cardinal sign and the attraction to cancer is strong but the wavelength is just not happening! i'm deeply in love with a cancer guy and sometimes he doesn't reply to me and it's bloody irritating. he is incredibly busy but i always thought that if someone likes you then they make the effort. and the running away when we're just being friendly, it's like geez strap on a pair man!

with his venus in gemini he should be really chatty and attracted to chatty girls. your planets to seem to be a good mix, lots of air and fire with just a little bit of water with his sun and your pisces cusp. if you're not excited to talk to him or spend time with him then it's perhaps not worth the effort in the long run. i've done a lot of thinking about whether or not i could put up with this changeable behaviour over a long period of time and i've decided i can. but it's really not ideal.

run, cleo, run! find a lovely chatty leo who will also want to spend a lot of time with you 🙂